What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?

Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.

“When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” – Thomas Monson

Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.

1. How many sets did I open? (If it’s less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)

2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?

3. When something didn’t go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?

4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didn’t serve me?

5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?

6. Of the TimeBridge’s I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?

7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?

8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?

9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?

10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?

11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?

12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?

13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?

14. Did I attempt a kiss close?

15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?

16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?

17. Did I “drunk-n-lonely” text about 10 minutes after close?

What is measured improves.

Captain Jack

P.S. I’m starting the “Master Strategies Monthly Teleseminar” soon… details below.

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Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Force*21
2. Attract Women: Gun to the Head Gaming
3. Creation of Pick-up Ability Part 2

Question: A 31 year old, Network Developer from Maryland asked:

Answer:

Ok, calibration is a useful skill because it allows you to baby-step. In every Pick-up you are trying to increase her Response Potential whie simultaneously avoiding Snap Back. If you pump her state too high she will hit a threshold where she tries to downregulate her BT. (Sounds like we’re working on a jet engine or something.)

Calibration will allow you to notice when these things are happening thereby adding it into your unconscious so in the future you can do the right thing without thinking about it.

Calibration can also help you know when you are DONE and you don’t need to actively Game anymore. You can just chill with her and wait for the right time to pull.

But, the question you really need to ask is: “What am I really in this for?” — If you just want a girlfriend or a little more active dating life then I’d forego Calibration drills because the dividends come after months and months of working at it.

If you want to become REAL good at pick-up then here are 6 Ways to Ninja Calibration:

1. You need a Game Plan. You can’t calibrate what you’re not measuring. A Game Plan (or Routine Stack) will provide more consistency to your Game so you can start noticing patterns. Calibration is DERIVED from noticing patterns and then noticing what happens LEADING up to that pattern.

Having a Game Plan also makes writing FR/LRs much easier. People think I have an amazing memory because I can write such detailed FR/LRs… The reason I can is because I run the same basic Stack over and over, so when I sit down to write all I have to do is ask myself “What did I open with?” — “What did she say?” — “What did I run next?” — so what I’m really remembering is what SHE said. The points in my stack act as RECALL triggers for my memory. (Another tactic is I usually write the FR/LR or at least some notes about it as soon as I get home when it is fresh on my mind.)

2. Use Sticking Point Analysis. If someone put a gun to my head and told me I could only write one last post to help guys with women I’d probably just create a link to Sticking Point Analysis.

3. Debrief the women you have success with. I usually only debrief girls I’ve just had sex with because female orgasms seem to be a truth serum of sorts (has something to do with Oxytocin). Standard debrief questions are:

• When did you first notice me?
• What did you think when I first came up?
• When did you first realize you wanted to kiss me?
• When did you decide you wanted to have sex with me?

Then I try to get them on the subject of guys hitting on them in general to see what their main complaints are…

4. Make an assumption, then verify. I used to do all sorts of fun things. I’d look at a male-female set and think, “hmm… wanna open but they’re probably together.” I caught myself and I’d say, “You don’t know that man, go in and see…” I’d roll in and chat and then ask, “How do you guys know each other?” to verify your assumption. I found out a LOT of the time that the dude was an Orbiter.

Another thing I’d do when I used to use Mystery Method was guess who would try to pull the Target away. It got to the point where I could not only guess but I could see it about a minute before hand.

A friend of mine got to see this uncanny ability of mine a few weekends ago on his way to pulling another SNL. I texted him that her friends were about to try to pull her away… not even a minute later they came over and made the pull away attempt. (Which failed because he had moved her, thus locking her in even tighter. See: Sinn’s 2 Bounce Rule.)

5. Could I let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than what I think it is? This question kicks ass. Remember, we are all trying to develop NEW ideas, beliefs, behaviors… even a new World View. Realize that your first assessment of the situation is GROUNDED in old data and interpretations that HAVE NOT served you! So, be willing to let them go and allow it to be something else.

Another similar tactic is to generate all of the possibilities and pick the most positive one.

6. Debrief other PUAs. When I help my friends out in Gaming the first question I ask when they come back from a set is “What happened?” I do this because I want to see if what I SAW from the outside MATCHES what they think happened. When I used to help Sinn with bootcamps I’d have aspiring PUAs leave a perfectly good set. I’d say, “What happened?” and they’d say, “She was being bitchy, she said she’s not really into skydiving so it fucked up my skydiving dhv story. Bitch.” Many a time I wanted to take them by their lapels and say, “DUDE! She doesn’t like skydiving! It was ON! Go back into that set now!”

Once you begin to see the mismatch between what they say is going on and the body language and dynamics of the set you’ll realize that you, too, are probably NOT seeing a lot of the positive things going on.

And, as always, if you have any other questions about this feel free to post them in the Comments section!

~ Captain Jack ~

P.S. Take part in the Refer-A-PUA Contest so other PUAs can benefit from the content in this blog.

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Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Force*21
2. Sticking Point Analysis
3. Kiss Tests

The end result was the Same Night Lay technology that makes Day2s almost unnecessary. And, even when you need to resort to a Day2 its pretty much a slam dunk lay.

One thing I HAVE NOT mentioned is the other tool that allowed me to create SNL technology (or as Ali G would say, “Tecmology”)

That is the tool of Presuposition Busting, extremely similar (and inspired by) Goldratt’s Evaporating Clouds technique.

When I was first learning the MM model the idea that getting girls to go home with you the same night was considered rare and “fools mate” or not “tight game.”

The quickest way to create a fantastic model is to start with your goal and then list what you believe the constraints are…

Then, you systematically examine the presuppositions by asking “Why?” or “What makes me think that?” In this way, you are challenging the very foundations of the system.

The presupps (and the tactics/methodology that implement them) CREATE the characteristics of the system, positive and negative.

When brought to light you may discover that you actually don’t believe the presup at all, it exists because of society programming or whatever.

People get stuck in a rut when they use experience to “prove” something is the way it is while not realizing that their very experience was the effect of the presuppositions. (i.e. The presupps become self-fulfilling prophecies in your experience.)

As an example, Mystery’s 7 Hour Rule. What most people don’t realize is that (very) long time frame was arrived at anecdotally. He asked the other PUAs what their meet-to-lay time frames were and it seemed that most fell between 4 and 10 hours.

These were all indirect PUAs so they were using his Method (or something close). One of the fundamental presupps in Mystery Method is women need a certain amount of Comfort before sex. So, we have PUAs all over the world bouncing girls from the club to the after hours diner – thus ADDING a couple hours to the timeline.

Notice also that “a certain amount of Comfort” is not a precise description by any means. Contrast this with the explicit steps and fundamental principles in Breakthrough Comfort and you’ll begin to understand the value of precise definition and identification of core principles.

Another presup in almost all of Gaming is that females aren’t as interested in sex as males are. (If you believe that ask yourself, “What makes me think that?”)

There is a MOUNTAIN of scientific evidence that actually points the other way. But, if this was/is your presup, how would that affect your Game?

So, right now, I am examining every single presup in the community regarding meeting, attracting and seducing women and reformulating. It’s a grand experiment and cool things are happening. In the last 10 days I’ve been opened well over 12 times. I’ve had 4 girls number close me.

Are those spectacular results? No. Had I been running my usual stuff I might’ve racked up 2-3 lays in that time frame. (To be fair, though, I did lose 2 girls at the last minute who were almost sure SNLs.)

I got opened twice last night. I lost one girl because I violated Metaframe Consistency (more on that in a future post) and the other waited an hour to open me and was so drunk by the time she opened that I couldn’t do much besides number close her. She texted twice and called me this morning.

I believe all great breakthroughs come by questioning presups. (Or, are created by outsiders who never adopted the presups.)

~ Captain Jack ~

Force21 -

Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Force*21
2. Same Night Lay Guidelines
3. Sticking Point Analysis