The Game Dynamics posts have really gotten around. I’ve had DOUBLE the normal traffic and linking as my normal stuff and a lot of guys are resonating with it.

It’s gotten to the point where I look at all the words out of her mouth, text messages or emails as attempts to Clarify on the Dynamics. I can HEAR which Dynamic is out of whack by the topics she brings up and stuff she says or questions she asks. Now that I know what she is getting at I can smoothly feed her the info she needs and ONLY the info she needs to get it Clarified.

Sexual Framing, while elegant in itself, did a lot of this but did it somewhat sloppily compared to what I expect to create with this new model.

MOST of the success you see PUAs from other systems getting comes from a boost in numbers/attempts, a boost in Intention+followup and the fact that women have high sex drives. (There’s also the added effect of having something to say so they are less likely to fuck things up.)

Now, shit is getting much, much easier.

It changes everything. It changes Sticking Point Analysis because now we look at SPs in terms of which Dynamic you are not Clarifying or Violating. If you are doing it and notice a pattern you can bust it and get a move forward… BUT, if you look at it from a higher viewpoint and see which Dynamic you are fucking up on then you handle MULTITUDES of SPs and potential SPs in one shot!

Progress will go through the roof!

I’ve already handled a BIG SP I have with girls that I’m actually/truly interested in… cracked it wide open and dissolved it once I saw what it was… easy, easy, easy. Using SP Analysis in the previous fine-grained approach would’ve taken a LOT more time/effort and it would’ve reappeared down the road further in interactions.

Texting and Phone Game becomes so much easier. You probably have recent text messages in your phone right now that are attempts by a girl to Clarify on Dynamic 2 (“playing the same game Together.”) Handling it via text CAN be done but it would’ve been so much easier (and more powerful and persuasive) to do it in person.

If you do too much texting/phone without setting things up and getting back in front of her then you are creating Doubt on Dynamic 4 (You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time.)

Shit that was “ON!” can fizzle really quickly if you create DOUBT here. Also, if original Agreement on Dynamic 2 was on an SNL type or “no strings attached” relationship then the prolonged and repetitive association with her day-to-day life can start undermining the original agreement as that begins to look like a diff. game!

Can you see this?

We now have a model and a methodical way to deduce WHERE our gaming attempts are going wrong!!! And, then apply fixes in our communication to make things seem to her like “it just happened!”

This WILL create a huge jump just like Sexual Framing has!!! I predict it will have much more far reaching impact as we can begin to really get at the Game Rules (haven’t posted about this yet)… briefly, Game Rules are things that must be met or “not violated” in order for the Game to exist and operate… quick example: asking an FB if she is fucking anyone else is a violation of GR because it begins to blur the lines of the FB Game.

Time frames will shorten and close ratios will go WAY UP.

I am doing the Master Strategies Monthly audio on Game Dynamics in just a few days here. I REALLY think you should get it if you want Game to get much, much easier, less time consuming and less annoying.

This is Gaming Elegance at it’s finest and there aren’t a bazillion steps to remember or keep track of… once you have conceptual understanding a simple question (in your head) to notice what she is attempting to Clarify and then your response to Clarify makes shit run so smooth it is ridiculous.

When you sign up you’ll also get a Sexual Framing Audio (not the old free ones on my blog, the new advanced one with other PUAs asking questions for over an hour after the presentation) it’s one of the 4 from the Teleconference series. Plus, the previous recordings from the Master Strategies series. That’s 4 audios PLUS the upcoming game dynamics audio… then you’ll get another 9 additional over the next 9 months. That works out to something ridiculous like $17 per hour of audio.

In the future, I’ll release even more audios on new techniques and ways to execute this stuff, starting with a reclassification of all the “standard” stuff in the community. Using a tactic or routine at the wrong time can really, really fuck things up! Once you have Clarified you’ll NEVER use certain tactics/communications with her again because it will only make you go backwards. This is why certain sets inexplicably unravel.

Anyway, guys this is awesome new discovery… we ARE on to something that is going to SIMPLIFY and FORWARD gaming for the future.

Hope to see you as a member of my group of PUAs going out and benefiting and really jumping to the cutting edge.

Captain Jack

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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I noticed the other day I was only marginally interesting to the hot bartenders and wait staff until I started talking to cougar and the milf.

Normally, I explain this as Social Proof. It’s one of the communities favorite theories. And, it seems to explain a lot. Cialdini popularized it and the definition is people will be more likely to do what they see other people doing.

What about in the case of a normal bootcamp when guys are opening, but getting blown out or failing to get attraction… they still get more AIs after opening than when they don’t open. And, in this case you’d expect them to get blown out so much the first few times that they’d be done for the night due to all the negative social proof. But, that doesn’t happen.

So, what’s going on?

Let’s examine this a bit further…

Have you ever looked at a woman and thought it looked “hard” to approach her and you weren’t sure if you wanted to risk it. Then, some chode went and opened her and she was extremely nice to him and everything went fine. Then, you said to yourself, “Holy shit… I could do better than that chode” and you walked over and opened?

Have you ever seen a hot girl with a chode and thought, “Damn… how the fuck did he get her? I’m 10x cooler than that guy” and if you had a smooth chance you’d have attempted to flirt?

Both of the above have happened to me and others many, many times. Here’s another related question:

Did you know that guys have been blown out after approaching women, gone back in later, and had it bust wide open?

What I’m going to say is that Social Proof doesn’t explain the warm responses you get from approaching women when you’ve been seen in set OR you merge sets with pawns…

I think it has to do with how she categorizes YOU in relation to the Game being played. She’s not keying off of the ACTUAL responses of the other women (that’d be pre-selection) as much as she’s keying off the realization that you are playing the Game.

See, women know that this is a Game. The Game is find an attractive mate to have sex with!

In any game there are Players and Spectators. If you are not talking to women, approaching women or already with women then you are a Spectator until proven otherwise. (She may HOPE that you are a Player and give you AIs to find out.)

Why do AIs increase when women see you open? Simply because they realize you are a Player and so are they so it’s an invitation from one Player to another Player to engage in the Game.

What about opening sets with a woman with you? First, it demonstrates you’re a Player in two ways, the opening and you are already with a girl. Second, much like you look at a dude and think you could do better than that guy, the girl looks at the girl and does the same… except girls seem to be much more aggressive in this area than the average community male. An Hb3 WILL try to unseat a 9 or 10… whereas most dudes who feel outclassed will shy away and ask if she has any friends or something.

You are most likely missing a lot of AIs. Assume any eye contact is an AI for the time being and you’ll get a lot of real world experience around the subject. Also, many afc/PUAs have trouble with making or keeping eye contact so practice holding eye contact if you haven’t done those types of drills. Especially if this is a weak point because it just won’t be tolerated in set. If this is a weak point for you literally stare girls down until you don’t feel any pressure to look away. A few days/nights of this is usually all you need.

You can make the assumption that if you see one AI you’ve probably missed 2 or 3.

Now, this snowballs. You open a set, girls notice, they start changing their body language and giving you AIs. They look in your direction more. Other girls pick up on this… you open more, new girls pick up on it plus the old girls. Snowball.

(If you’ve ever been in a club with a celebrity or sports star you’ll notice this on steroids magnified by one hundred. You can hardly keep a woman’s attention when there’s a big celeb in proximity.)

As you move around girls will shift body language towards you. You’ll get Proximity AIs from all girl sets, etc.

(In my eCoaching bootcamp I discuss Parading girls… it’s the fastest way to warm up the entire venue. I have a saying that if you can Parade 3 times in a night you will most likely get laid. It is magical.)

Can’t this be described by Pre-Selection?

Again, only partially. See, pre-selection means the women were visibly and intensely attracted to you and the other women noticed it. We have PLENTY of examples of guys who have a lot of hot female FRIENDS who couldn’t get laid if their life depended on it. What is going on here? Well, though they are surrounded by hot girls they never show new girls they meet that they are in the game. They never show her that they know her Goals and move her across the barriers/obstacles to the win.

Don’t get me wrong Pre-Selection DOES help. But, what I’m talking about is something even before and more basic. I’m talking about girls giving AIs and becoming warm just based on her/their analysis that you are playing the same Game they are. Pre-selection comes later… it is “He’s in the same Game AND he’s obviously good at it” (Parading, which I mentioned above, activates Pre-Selection especially when multiple girls are paraded together or close together in the same night.)

EVERYBODY in the game hates wasting time. Females don’t want an opportunistic Spectator to suck up their time so they usually reserve their AIs for proven Players. Girls also intuitively know that if she can get one guy to open her then a few others will get more courage and open. Thus, more Players and more opportunity for her to win.

What about Celebrities?

Let’s analyze this a bit… Why do women like Celebrities? I can think of a bunch of reasons.

1. Money? Money doesn’t hurt BUT, it can’t ONLY be money. Pro PUAs have many, many super rich guys come to us for help. Many super rich end up as sugar daddies for hotties and those situations aren’t usually exclusive.

2. Looks? Well, women don’t have the same physiological responses to looks as men do. Their acceptable range of looks is MUCH wider and is weak enough that we can totally ignore it. (Provided your grooming and style is good). Plus, many Celebrities are dog ugly.

3. Status? A strong contributor. Society has conditioned us to treat celebs better. Even dudes want to meet other celebrity dudes.

4. An Assumed Player in the Game. This conditioning of status begins the SNOWBALL we talked about earlier. When you get the multiple girls visibly interested, the society conditioning of treating celebs as special plus the idea of bragging rights and money, then you have a lot of factors working together. It is deduced, assumed, that they are prime Players in the Game… thus, the females play all out.

The Case of the Man with Social Proof but Not a Player in the Game.

Take a guy out with 3 women. One of them is his wife, the other two are her sexy girlfriends. He has a wedding band on. Does he get massive AIs? No. He might get a few at first… some women are screwy and like to try and others may not have noticed the ring but after about an hour or two in the venue he is essentially invisible to the other Players.

I noticed this when I was out with FBs/Girlfriends. I’d get a LOT of AIs at first and after a bit I was essentially invisible again. Sure I was with a hot girl (social proof idea) BUT it was pre-empted because the girls realized I wasn’t in the Game.

So, I put the idea of Social Proof on the backburner as something that, while valid, only partially described what was happening and opt instead for the fuller idea of Player in the Game. It better describes what actually occurs in the field. Spectators, Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.

This also helps to mesh Sexual Framing with some of the more standard MM structured approach. Though, I usually avoid the standard Peacocking, Pawning, Social Proof/DHV routines (ex. the routine where you show you with pics with hot girls, doing cool shit, hanging with cool people), with this idea they start to make sense together.

When I open and start Sexual Framing I’m demonstrating I’m a Player in the Game… that we are both playing the same Game, that I value her Game Goal (finding a guy who can make her feel sexy and sexual) and I’m willling to carry it home (so to speak! haa).

Since I’ve gotten good at opening one or two sets, hooking and staying in for the long haul the other girls notice it… if the set busts or unravels, many girls in the vicinity have noticed the deep sexual attraction between me and the other girl and have me pegged. Opening any girl who witnessed that makes my set go that much easier.

She isn’t looking for Value or Social Proof, she’s looking for the man in her near Vicinity who is the best Player in the Game.

If you understand this it will lessen your worry about people seeing a set go bad. It won’t matter, by opening you’ll show everyone else you’re in the game.

Captain Jack

P.S. You should also feel less pressure from others watching you open because Spectators don’t count! And,  Male Players are too busy playing to notice or care! In fact, if anything they’re probably thinking of allying with you to give both of you better chances to win.

More on “The Game Dynamics”

Opening and Social Proof versus “Player in the Game”
Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance
Player States of Existence and Nested Games

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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But, I think much of it is extremely inaccurate.

LSE or Low Self-Esteem is one such word. It SEEMS to describe a personality trait (or function/behavior) but it is really not descriptive.

I’ve been telling friends/puas/students for awhile now to NOTICE how MOST of the people at bars are LSE. In EVERY instance I’ve shared it they have come back to me saying something like this, “Holy shit man! How the fuck did I miss that?”

The reason lies in the concept and the vocabulary. It has NOTHING to do with esteem.

Here’s the dictionary def:

–noun
1. a realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect.
2. an inordinately or exaggeratedly favorable impression of oneself.

WTF does that mean? Sure we can think we know what it means but it is so ultimately non-descriptive that when you try to dig deeper into solutions you quickly discover how meaningless it is.

There is, however, an often used phrase in The Community that is more functional and more descriptive than LSE. In fact, if I had it my way I’d say let’s strike LSE out of the Canon and just use Approval Seeking or Seeking Approval.

That’s right on the fucking money.

Everybody is Seeking Approval. And, when do you feel more approved of than when a member of the opposite sex wants to have sex with you?

Letting the girl KNOW you APPROVE OF her as a female and APPROVE OF her as a sexual being is the end-all of Sexual Framing.

Here’s the kicker.

Think about a time when you did something you felt proud of yourself about… something you really gave yourself a nice big pat on the back about. Maybe you felt great when graduated college… Got a promotion at work… Got a girl you thought was out of your league…

Now, ask yourself where did those feelings come from (literally)?

Inside you.

If you weren’t feeling them one second and you were the next second, where did they REALLY come from?

You.

So, who gave you the Approval?

You did.

If you gave yourself the Approval, who was holding the Approval away?

You were.

We’ve been conditioned by Society to get approval OUTSIDE. Of course. How else could you Mass Control everyone?

If everyone gave themselves approval they would give everyone else approval, too. This would SEVERELY reduce all other problems. People who approve of themselves DO NOT do destructive things.

(The mind, being linear, treats other people like you treat yourself and vice versa.)

On the other side, can you see that you’ve been giving yourself disapproval? And, because you’ve been disapproving of yourself it has caused an intense craving for approval inside you?

And, knowing yourself intimately, could you see how someone else (a complete stranger) would be hesitant to give you approval IF your behavior, speech, mannerisms and body language gave them the intuitive impression-feeling that you disapproved of yourself?

Could you decide (right now, as best you can) to stop disapproving of yourself?

Then, could you decide (right now, as best you can) to give yourself approval?

Could you DECIDE to do it for no reason?

Don’t do it for anyone else. Do it for yourself. Decide now to approve of yourself.

This constant seeking of happiness OUTSIDE of you is what Buddha was talking about when he said things like, “Attachment to Desire (craving) is the root of all suffering.”

Going even deeper, Buddha’s “Twelve Links of Causation” start off with Ignorance.

Ignorance of what? Ignorance that you are a complete, infinite Being already. (Even if you don’t feel like one, act like one or think like one… what separates you from knowing it is FEELINGS and THOUGHTS… relinquish those and you’re done.)

Giving yourself Approval is a NATIVE ability and it’s only a decision. Everyone can do it.

When you get your own approval back, you can approve of others fully BECAUSE of who they are, not IN SPITE of who they are.

Then, people will gravitate towards you magnetically because they sense intuitively that you ARE closer to your innate being and everyone is trying to get BACK to that state.

But, it all starts with YOU.

If you can feel Superior to someone you can feel Inferior to someone. Both are Ego functions, and they can’t exist separately.

Remember in my post LR: Juggs how I THOUGHT the girl was being bitchy? And, remember how I made the decision to quit being so smart and allow it to be other than what I thought it was…

…and it turned out to be very different?

Well, I’m going to propose that you think about, consider, ponder, contemplate the idea that MOST of the negative experiences (and even NO-GO sets) you’ve had (or imagine having) with women are due to your MISTAKING her Low Self-Approval statements and behaviors for stuff that is consistent with “Your Story.”

It’s actually pretty comical from my new viewpoint.

You put a bunch of people in the room who don’t know how to love themselves… give them a shitload of alcohol, turn up the music so loud you can’t even think (let alone talk) and then you expect them to get together…

… the fact that people DO IT every night across the world is a testament to how compelling and pervasive this need for Approval is.

Anyway, that’s a very SLIGHT and basic groundwork into the newer AA stuff I’ve been working on… this has to be understood before the processes can be taught and have an effect.

What if, instead of asking you to give yourself approval, I had asked you to give yourself some Esteem?

Not quite the same effect is it? Now, imagine developing, describing and constructing exercises to help people “get it” while using bad naming all the way through.

The entire Community’s vocabulary and conceptual framework was built haphazardly over years by guys who didn’t get it… by guys who were still trying to figure it out.

Is it any wonder it’s such a mess?

~ CJ ~

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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I’m about to glaze her so I ask her where she wants it. She moans and says, “Inside me.” Then she says, “No, wait. I’m not on the pill.” I say, “I already got 2 kids” and thrust a few times to try to pull out to finish on her beautiful breasts. Right as I’m about to nut she says, “cum inside me!” and clinches her legs to keep me in. I pull out and almost immediately go limp.

Fuck!

We mess around again and I go back in. I’m about 10 thrusts away when Sinn and his HB come out to smoke on the patio.

Damn!

We start again and in the middle she says, “Let’s go to your place. I want you to fuck me all night and all day!”

I go, “Cool.”

We start getting dressed and we run out of the apt. giggling like two teenagers who just toilet papered the neighborhood grumpy old man’s house.

We get down to the parking garage and I’m looking for my car.

Then, I start laughing because I forgot Sinn picked me up that night. She wasn’t so amused.

—————————
The Pick-Up – Friday Night
—————————

Sinn’s on fire and he’s all over the place. I’m chilling, practicing my Zen nature and seeing how far I can take this non-approaching system.

I’ve been opened a couple times. One was by a tall latin girl who I thought was at least a solid 8. (Sinn didn’t like her at all.) She was also very cool, elegant and down to earth.

I had just ordered a Shiner Bock draft and it didn’t taste right at all so I got the bartender’s attention to get a different kind of bear.

HBTallLatina: “Are you being difficult?”
CJ: “Yes, I’m very picky.”

We made a LOT of what is usually called “fluff” talk. She was into it. I think the idea that I wasn’t pursuing at all made her start pursuing me. A couple of times when she’d talk she’d lean into me and put her cheek on mine.

I seem to remember that this is significant…something in my brain senses a slight remembrance to…oh fucking yeah…not even a week before I wrote a post on Kiss Tests in which I, like a GrandMaster Sex Escalation Wizard said,

What I do now…
Now that I use sexual framing it is actually advantageous for me NOT to kiss her until the car ride home. It builds anticipation and sexual tension to talk dirty, fill her mind with dirtiness and let it build. I WILL tease by getting real close to her like I’m about to kiss her and then not do it. I’ll also talk in her ear a lot for the closeness and heat in her ear.

Which brings me to another point. If you are talking in her ear and she presses her cheek to yours, she wants to be kissed.

In any case, I lost this one and after mentally reviewing I thought it was because I missed the sexual escalation window so she had to figure that either I wasn’t really interested or I didn’t know what I was doing.

I took another shot at her later but when I switched from being Zen to pursuing it wasn’t there.

Damnit.

I post up at the middle bar and almost immediately there’s a really hot girl with a shirt that is about 1/4 of an inch from revealing her nipples staring at me. She is being extremely blatant about it…

…and there’s a hot girl in these gray tight cottony pants who keeps rubbing her ass on my hand and looking back. She does this no less than 10 times.

I look over and say, “If we’re going to be this intimate we should at least get to know each other.” She giggles and waits for a second for me to say something else. I don’t so she turns back around.

I stay there enjoying the music for awhile. She’s still staring and I keep saying mentally, “If you want it you need to come and get it.”

Another girl walks by and says something to me briefly and when I don’t keep the convo going she stays about two feet off to my left with her friend. They keep looking over.

At about closing time HBFreakazoid comes over right next to me and says, “I’m HBFreakazoid” but I wasn’t looking at her so I didn’t know if she was saying it to me or someone else. I decide it was for me as she was staring at me all night. I say something like “How’s it going…”

We small talk for a bit and I invite her to go eat with us. She says ok but she has to close her tab first. She is EXTREMELY drunk, though, and her friend is obviously driving. So when I come back around and tell her to follow us south, she says they are going north.

I already have her number so I pat her on the head and Sinn and I roll out.

She calls me on the way home but she is making NO SENSE. It was so funny I put her on speaker so Sinn can hear.

The next morning she sends me two texts. I text back and she calls. We chat briefly and I tell her I’ll be heading out tonight but I’m not sure where. She says she wants to hang out and I tell her to give me a call later to see where I am.

I’m still not pursuing and everything is framed that she has to do the work.

———-
The Close
———-

The girl texted me earlier and I told her where I’d be but don’t hear anything back.

Saturday night we end up at the same bar. Her friend recognizes me and starts chatting and then says, “HBFreakazoid is here! Wait right here!”

When the friend comes back Sinn starts seeding the pull. There was a cute enough Mexican girl who was burning holes in me with her eyes. I finally hold out my hand and she comes over. We talk a bit before she heads back to her friends.

A little later we start talking again and I number close her in the parking lot right before HBFreakazoid comes out. We’ve been texting back and forth so I’m going to get her on a Time Constrained Day2 this week.

By the time we get to her friend’s car we’re making out. I finger her in the backseat.

Get back to Sinn’s pad and we both close no LMR.

~ Captain Jack ~

P.S. You can read Sinn’s version here.

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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