I started off Friday. Rolled out solo and ran into Vector and some D-Lair guys. Chatted with Vector a little bit and they mentioned they were going to a diff place across the street.

Really wasn’t much out. The only 2 girls I wanted were already invested with guys and I pussed out by not opening this tall thin Latina, easily the hottest girl there and probably one of the hottest anywhere she goes.

About 1:15 or so I start chatting with this blonde nurse, we start dancing and then sit at a table. I could tell by the conversation this was essentially a done deal so I just chilled and did some physical escalation. (When you are clear on all the dynamics you don’t do anything because it can make her think you don’t get what is going on, then you’ll probably have to go back and clear them.)

Her (hideously fat) friend was having a girl conference with her trying to decide if she was going to bang the cop she was with… They were pretty blatant about it and talked about it right in front of me… I told the nurse something like, “She should. Sex is fun and really enjoyable. Two adults should be able to do whatever they want without worrying about it. I’m not judgemental blah, blah, blah…” but that is the only frame I set. I don’t think I needed to do it but since it was out there I figured I might as well explicitly handle it.

At the end of the night she blatantly asked, “Are you going to take me home with you?”

Awesome body which she attributed to doing yoga several times a week. (All girls should have to do yoga.)

I drove her back to her car in the morning and she took my number and texted “call me sometime.”

One set, one lay.

I sleep most of the day Saturday and wake up happy as shit that I don’t have a hangover.

I want to check out a bar in Fort Worth that I haven’t been to in years but it doesn’t get started until 11:00-11:30… I find if I get out that late that I have a little trouble getting situated mentally as I honestly can’t stand bars/clubs/alcohol/smoke/crowds… so I go to my local place with plans to leave at 11:00 for the other place.

Again, not really that many hot girls. There are 2 in a 3set (2 hot girls and one blonde elephant). The hot girls are doing lesbianish dance moves all over each other and I’m liking it because it is them basically broadcasting to all the dudes that they want penis.

Problem #1: They are at a table (hate opening seated sets).

Problem #2: They are at the OTHER side of the bar against the wall. Which means I would have to walk across the bar to open them.

At that point I would have to go direct.

Damnit.

I mentally decide I will do it right before I leave for the other bar if one of the hot ones doesn’t break away and head to the bar. (That’s actually a sign I look for… some girls have realized that breaking away from their gfs for a bit will get them opened so they do it. Watch for it. I promise you’ll start to see it happen. Open them, it puts the odds a bit more in your favor).

Right about that time the Blonde elephant rumbles across the dance floor and she’s heading towards me…

oh, shit.

I’m going to have to deftly reject a fatty without pissing her off and ruining my chances of having sex with one of her human female acquaintances.

The elephant’s momentum grinds to a stop a few feet short of me… She wasn’t coming for me! She came for the blond dude with a little boy haircut and his friend! She takes them to the table to talk to the two hotties.

I find this interesting because the 2 guys are presented with a golden opportunity and it’s so painfully obvious they have no fucking clue what to do.

The girls bail leaving the dudes at their table about 15 minutes later.

Now there are NO hot girls in the venue and I’m getting ready to leave when I spy a Vanessa Hudgens look alike… sitting with 3 dudes.

Oh well, I stare at her and catch her eye. She smiles and stares back.

Hmm… this could be interesting.

I move to my bird’s nest spot putting me right in front of her.

We keep exchanging glances for the next 20 minutes or so. I’m debating what to do… I want her but there will be dozens of girls I want at the venue I’m going to instead of just one in the worst possible situ at this one… decisions, decisions.

She makes it easy on me by walking right past me.

Ninjitsu ensues and about one minute later I am sitting at her table with her.

The guys are pissed.

They are talking shit about me and I act like I don’t hear and keep talking to her. (I am on her left hand side and they are across and to her right).

Long story short, one was her ex bf who wants her back and the other acts like he is her big brother. In between me talking to her they are arguing about my presence.

This makes me want to win even more. What better revenge?

She says that she has to leave and gets my number, kissing me real quick and going with them.

I text her at 2:30 am and she arrives at 3:10am.

One set, one lay.

—–

Early Sunday night I am thinking I am too tired to go out. My stomach muscles hurt. But, it’s a holiday night and it always seems like those end up being crazy!

I talk to Sinn on the phone about the past two nights. He says I need to try to keep the streak going. I decide he’s right and start getting myself mentally geared towards going out.

I see AceOfHeartSS at the bar and I like to see him out because he actually opens. After coming back from the rest room he is talking to a cute tall blonde.

About that time, I open 2 hot asians. I can’t even remember what I said something like “It’s a good thing you are hot because you are tiny.” or something silly like that.

They are immediately all over me. I pick the short one up and she screams and hugs me tight.

I tease them a few times and have a normal conversation for a bit and towards closing time I walk them to the car and get in.

Things are going well so I hatch a plan: Bang Two Hot Asians.

Problem #1: I’m drunk. The 2 nights of drinking caught up with me this night and I only seemd to have half my normal tolerance. This impairs my almost flawless strategic abilities.

Whenever I escalate with one the other interrupts. At one point the shorter asian is straddling me in the back seat giving me a lap dance while I am trying to rub the other’s boobies through her shirt.

I’m thinking… holy shit, this is going to be a cold approach SNL 3some.

Not so fast. (God has other plans.)

They actually start talking about who is going to fuck me. Right in front of me.

I’m sitting in the back seat now. They are in the front.

Asian #1: “I want you to…”

Asian #2: “No, you should go home with him. I can tell you like him.”

Asian #1: “You saw him first.”

I’m sitting back there dumbfounded. I can’t speak. Perhaps they thought they were speaking Asianish instead of English… It’s really strange to have people talking about you like you are not there and this is the 2nd night in a row it has happened to me.

I want to say, “No problemo laides… I’ll pound the shit out of both of you!”

Instead I say, “Let’s go to my hot tub.”

I am confused.

They are confused.

They can’t work out who gets to fuck me and like a dumbass I should’ve just decided. That’s all I would’ve had to do…

Asian #1 says, ‘I have to drop her off at home.’

what would the proper thing for me to do? “Ok, cool, gimme your number.” Then what? Then I wait 15 minutes and text her to come see me.

Simple, right? Not to a confused drunk man. To a confused drunk man that is like Calculus to a retard.

So, I get nothing.

Damnit.

Captain Jack

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Hmm I think this is boiling down to a bit of semantics and how you exactly define it. If I go to a bar with my hot female friends I get tons more AIs that if I go with my male buddies. Sure, if I don’t do anything about it then the AIs will die down over time (except for new girls entering the venue). But either way simply having hot girls with you gets you more interest than not, therefore scientifically proving that social proof is a contributory factor!

It won’t get you laid (you’ll still have to open… duh!) but is sure as dandy helps!

– comment by charliereay on “Opening and Social Proof Versus Player in the Game” post

I am surprised I didn’t get more of these types of comments. When I published the post I expected to get a lot more of these types than the all out positive ones.

Let me start by saying this… I’m not saying Social Proof isn’t “right” or is “wrong.” What I’m saying is that it is INCOMPLETE. I’m pointing out that it leaves A LOT more unexplained than explained.

I discussed quite a few things that it left unexplained in the last post. There is a higher level dynamic at work when attracting, approaching and seducing women that better explains what is going on and that is the player in the game concept.

One GREAT way to know if you have found a better organizing principle is if you experience a surge in motivation to act or a desire to do things differently. Two or 3 commenters noted they felt more pumped to approach women. The reason is because when they adopted this idea it caused a spontaneous release of competing and inefficient ideas leaving more energy and attention available for action. And/or it stabilized a lot of floating thoughts thus lessening confusion (and confusion causes fear and apprehension.)

I’ll show you how it better explains common field phenomena and then I’ll show you how it ALSO explains Sexual Framing.

Social Proof

• Covered in previous post.

Peacocking

• Someone who is peacocking but not opening is a tool. Why? Socially we know, and women know, that Peacocking is something you do when you are Playing the Game. A dude who is Peacocked and not opening is socially weird. Likewise, people with low game awareness call scantily clad women in the club “sluts” not realizing this is what women do to invite the real Players to open. Saying that women open guys who are peacocked because they realize the men are Players in the Game is a leap… but, it is a very small leap. It might be better explained by saying that women can use it to show everyone THEY are playing the Game thus, getting her opened more without making it too obvious.

Pre-Selection

• I covered this a bit in the last post. Pre-Selection is a VERY valid and observable phenom. But, again this only applies to Players in the Game. When they realize you aren’t in the Game their awareness is no longer on you and all invitations and attention shift to find Players.

Jealousy Threads

• Again, you have to be a Player in the Game and have her attracted for a Jealousy Thread to exist. J-Threads are incredibly powerful. They are so powerful BECAUSE the Game has a limited time span (a Game Obstacle) and a limited number of Players (another Game Obstacle). Her desire to win compels her to focus more energy on a proven quantity as does her desire to IMPROVE against competition. (The competition is other females, not the males.) Add to that the fact that she WAS on her way to Winning and you’ve got a deep sense of loss and self-doubt creeping in. The idea that other females could be BETTER was theoretical, now it is all too real. She will do ALMOST anything to beat the competitor.

Disqualifiers

• There are two valid players. It looks like they are headed to winning… but, now one of them seems to be questioning whether or not the other is a Player… the chances of winning drop causing fear and increasing desire to get back in the Game.

DHVs

• I’m skeptical about the real use of DHVs EXCEPT when you are talking to a girl to whom that shit is important AND her logical mind is engaged. She can use that stuff to talk herself into liking you or giving you more time/chances.

Ok, “Player in the Game” refines those a bit without colliding and give us a better understanding.

We KNOW Mystery Method works AND it works very very well for what it is designed to do… Those items listed above are given as the reason MM works… But, what then explains the massive success of Sexual Framing which isn’t built on any of those?

Sexual Framing doesn’t use Jealousy-Threads, Pre-Selection, Demonstrations of Higher Value (DHVs), Merging, Pawning or Social Proof except as a consequence when a set unravels and you have to open a new one.

In fact, Sexual Framing VIOLATES many common MM principles.

Can the “Player in the Game” concept describe it? Yes! Wonderfully!

A Game is made up of Spectators, Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.

I’m not using Obstacles in the MM definition here. Although her friends COULD be Obstacles they aren’t by default. They are only Obstacles when they don’t KNOW that you and her friend have AGREED to play the game together.

Approaching, attracting and seducing women is often called The Game.

All Games are Based on Agreement.

Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players. Naturally, this is you making a smooth open, hooking the set and her entering communication with you. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER. By opening Sexual Frames you are telling her what Game you are playing. As she continues talking with you and playing along she is AGREEING that this is a male-female conversation with a sexual dynamic. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal. By being non-judgmental and telling her you LOVE how sexy she is, etc you are showing her this. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time. This can be done explicitly by getting the group to like you… getting her so into you that she does it and/or using an Inoculation Routine like I mentioned in “FR: College Girls!” Then, by baby-stepping her along ever so gently she’ll know/feel that she is having all the good feelings and none of the bad (like she usually does), she gets even more comfortable and puts more trust in you. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Also, you can look for her to show you the same! For example, when I ask her “You’re not the jealous type… are you?” and then tell a story about how I was “hanging out” (code for fucking) a girl and she got jealous and I didn’t approve I’m beginning to define what Game we are playing and putting in question her agreement on Dynamic 2. She has to alleviate my concerns by agreeing with me that jealousy sucks.

The Most Evil of All Evils

What about LMR? Can this even shed some light on LMR?

Yes!

LMR is primarily an unclear agreement about whether or not you are both playing the same Game (unclear Game Dynamic 2). It can also be that you haven’t shown her that you value her Game Goal (unclear on Game Dynamic 3).

If she is playing “Potential GF Game” and you are playing ONS game and she THINKS you are playing “Potential GF Game” but isn’t exactly sure due to mixed communication signals then… BAM! LMR. You’d have to have told her that your game works like this “Primarily Sexual and then possible grow into GF over time” in order to avoid it.

On the flipside, If you WERE playing to get a GF and she was CONVINCED you were…

…and she WAS playing that Game too…

…and she believed that giving it up wouldn’t destroy that Game (clear on Game Dynamic 3), then…

…she’d have no issue having sex with you the first night.

This is why so many of the PUAs trained in “social” forms of Pick-up have such a hard time getting laid.

They broadcast “social, fun guy — potential fun bf” on Game Dynamic 2 and then wonder why it takes forever to lay her… furthermore, they never make it clear that they VALUE sexuality so she has to be double certain it won’t fuck up that Game before having sex. They have methodically built tons of agreement on a DIFFERENT GAME (fun, cool, social bf) and wonder why the Game Goal of a DIFFERENT GAME isn’t happening.

Those Silly PUAs.

Captain Jack

P.S. Knowing what you know now about The Game Dynamics you should be able to pinpoint on WHICH Dynamic any busted set failed on. All “no-gos” are failure on Game Dynamic 1. All sets that unravel come from failures on Game Dynamic 4, etc. What would you do with said information? Why you’d examine your Game Plan and look for deficiencies in your common routines/stacks/ideas/beliefs in that area, shore it up, set up experiments/solutions and get your ass back in the Field!

P.P.S. Disqualifiers work because they threaten agreement on Game Dynamic 1. See that? If there isn’t agreement on all the Game Dynamics, there is NO GAME, thus no chance of winning. Jealousy Thread threatens Game Dynamic 2.

More on “The Game Dynamics”

Opening and Social Proof versus “Player in the Game”
Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance
Player States of Existence and Nested Games

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Anyway, I had a meeting from 7:00-10:00 and met Printer at the standard Thurs. night venue. I think that was the first time I’ve been there since last November.

Surprisingly, I didn’t recognize many people. There’s been a pretty good amount of turnover, which is good.

Printer does his thing of handing me double shots all night long, primarily because I do funny and stupid shit when I’m drunk. Case in point: We were in Scottsdale Az and about 20 minutes to close I walk over and start talking to a cute girl. She was interested and then abruptly left.

Printer said she looked real interested and asked me what happened. She abruptly left after I said, “Girl, gimme a sample of what you’re samplin’”

I guess she thought it was crude or something. I simply meant I wanted to bone her. (Girls are so complicated.)

I don’t do shit for the first 2 hours there except bullshit with Printer and one of his friends. Printer leaves with an FB and I feel like a tool just standing around so I start throwing out LIOs and even using Situationals to practice gauging initial interest and then picking up from where we are in agreement (of sexual interest) and moving from there forwards. (You can actually erase it by keeping your communication at a lesser level of male-female sexual dynamic… then it is a bit harder to get back because there is already an established pathway between you two to move downwards on the sexual dynamic.)

It is actually kind of fun to do this… I think in large part because the level of significance I’m placing on the interaction is much less.

I situationally open a blonde milf. She is wearing those kind of shirts that are elastic waist band on the top that sort of rest on top of the breast. The thin shirt material then drapes over the breats and tightens again at the waist. She isn’t wearing a bra and her breasts are big and bouyant. Her nips are hard.

(GIGANTOR begins to stir a bit.)

However, this is where Printer’s “get CJ drunk so he is amusing” kicks in full force as you will see.

CJ: Patron shots? You are bad, bad, bad.

MILF: I know, my last one, I’m driving.

CJ: Does she know that guy? (I’m referring to a guy in the set who is creepily all over her hot friend.)

MILF: They’re married. What’s your name?

CJ: Omigod, you have a little country accent!

MILF: Really? I’ve never been told that… I went to a catholic school and we were taught proper english.

CJ: Catholic girl! Really? You should leave right now… All the catholic girls I’ve known have been into bondage… tied up, handcuffs

MILF: What?

*** cue dumb drunkeness ***

CJ: Handcuffs, handcuffs, handcuffs. You like to be handcuffed. You know, handcuffs! (It was real loud so I thought she couldn’t hear me, thus the repetition! Oh yeah, the alcohol probably had a little to do with it, too).

MILF looks at me weird.

I manage to partially recover. A few minutes later her friend gets her attention and they walk away. She doesn’t look back.

Damnit.

Two girls stroll by. I forgot what I opened them with but they are both attentive from the get-go. The slightly cuter one gets asked to dance by some guy.

I remember telling her she was tiny. She responds well and I use that to get her giggly. I ask her things like, “When you go to a restaurant do you get a booster seat or climb up into a big people chair?”

She is giggling hardcore so I tell her I like girls who laugh at my jokes.

She says no one has ever said stuff like that to her before.

Strawberry fields.

She number closes me as we are being kicked out of the bar.

HB: Sooo… are you going to call me?

CJ: We’re here together right now. Drive me to my car.

She drives me over and we make out for quite a bit.

The cops actually shine flashlights on us through the window and tell us to leave.

CJ: “That sucks, I’m still having fun. Come to my place. I don’t have alcohol but I have water, Coke Zero or tea.”

She follows me. I put on “knocked up” dvd and escalate on the couch.

Seems too easy, doesn’t it? It is that easy sometimes. Knowing where she is at in the interaction is one of the things that separates the advanced PUA from the intermediate. The Intermediate would’ve set the Timebridge and then pushed too hard or too soft to get a bounce. He would’ve wasted time and put sexual vibe in jeopardy by withdrawing sexual intention while running comfort.

The problem with most people’s calibration skills is that they are calibrating to the wrong thing. You don’t calibrate to attraction or whether or not she likes you or whether or not she is paying attention. You calibrate to whether or not she becomes more engaged when you are sending sexual communication.

If you are aware of where she is then it becomes easy to just gently lead, baby-steps along a gradual incline.

Captain Jack

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I got back 6 days ago from 10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being. We worked from 8am to about 10:00 (sometimes later) every night. It was awesome! I’ve done this a few times now and each time I get a HUGE boost in my life.

I’m now closer to my Mom, my Sister, Dad and children even though I thought things were great to begin with… I walk with a LOT more confidence. I speak my mind a lot more freely, have become a lot more persuasive and a bunch of other things I don’t have enough space to mention. I have a genuine love for ALL people I encounter… And, I am MUCH, MUCH happier each and every moment and I rest in (or on) a background of peacefulness and expanded awareness.

Like I said, It’s awesome!

I’m gearing up for the “Master Strategies Teleconference” series and I know it’s going to be killer.

One of the keys to effectiveness is strong Commitment and Intention.

Once upon a time when I was in college this hot girl waved at me on campus as we were walking towards each other and I slowed down to see what was what… She was carrying a few folders and books in her arms and a huge smile seemed permanently plastered on her face.

She asked me what class I was going to… then, what sports I liked… where I was born and what I did in my spare time. About halfway through our “conversation” I got the sense something strange was going on. I stuck around though (she was hot) to see where it would lead.

After telling her what I did in my spare time she enthusiastically whipped this flyer out of her book and said, “We’re having this contest and the winner gets to go to Hawaii. I’m ALMOST in the lead and the contest ends soon. Will you help me win? All you have to do is subscribe to magazines… You told me you like x, y, z… we have magazines in those areas….”

Suddenly, she was a LOT less attractive. I couldn’t get away fast enough.

Slimy, eh?

Many in the Community suggest you shouldn’t go out to try to get laid because it reeks of desperation or neediness and girls can sense that right away. Instead, what they suggest is you go out and be the social guy and wait to see if she likes you.

It comes across to me much like the girl in my story (Yuck) because no matter how much you pretend… you ARE going out to get laid.

It IS true that many women can sense neediness… but going out to get laid doesn’t mean you have desperation or neediness.

Desperation or neediness comes from wanting something but feeling you can’t really have it OR the feeling you must give up your values to get it.

You can go out with the intention of getting laid WITHOUT being needy. Neediness does NOT automatically follow the intention to get laid. Neediness is an internal state or belief system that exists because of the habit of disapproving of yourself.

Guys who don’t go out with the intention of getting laid don’t get laid.

I even go so far as to imagine what it would be like with her while I’m talking to her. I allow myself to feel SEXUAL (not horny) as I’m talking to her and even as I’m approaching.

There are others who suggest only focusing on the things you can control. I may have said something like that in the past because it sounds like a good idea. But, I don’t agree with that anymore.

Now, I say you MUST set goals and measure things you can’t control.

Let’s dig a little deeper into this…

You can’t actually control if a girl sleeps with you or not. You CAN set a goal to open 25 sets. BUT, you need to measure and STAT how many of those sets resulted in a lay otherwise your goal is meaningless. If you aren’t doing measuring (at least mentally) then you don’t have a basis of improvement.

Any Game has defined results, measures and stats.

The result is a verbal description of the game’s objective. The measure is what can be seen/observed in reality, meaning you observed it did happen or didn’t happen. The stat represents the measure as a numerical fact.

You want your results, measures and stats to be TRACEABLE to WINNING the Game.

Here is an example:

Result: Captain Jack has sexual relationship with 10 new hotties this month.

Measure: Female gets penetrated by GIGANTOR(TM)

Stat: No. of females penetrated.

Okay, got it?

Now, in this Game there are other measures and stats as well:

Measure: Female agrees to TimeBridge.

Stat: % of females who agreed.

(For me personally, if I go a long time with less than 40-50% of the girls saying yes to the TB I know something is off in my initial presentation and I need to examine it. This doesn’t mean all the TB’s will HAPPEN only that they agreed to it at the time I put out the invitation.)

I’m not saying that you power up excel and type this shit in a spreadsheet by any means… what I’m talking about is a mindset and commitment to measuring for the purpose of improving.

You don’t get the results by committing only to what YOU can physically do because it is incomplete in the realm of effectiveness. Do you get to write a Lay Report after saying, “Well, I opened 25 sets this weekend. I can’t control anything else but at least I met my goal.”

No.

That is completely backward. You keep the end goal in mind and keep intelligently analyzing and varying your behavior until you get closer and closer.

Imagine a salesperson going to his boss and saying, “Well, I know I got 0 sales this quarter instead of at least 30 like everyone else but I can’t control that… I made 200 calls and that was my goal.”

Then, imagine that salesperson with a box of all the shit on his desk stuffed into it as he takes an elevator ride down to the street because that is what would likely happen.

My main point is in order to WIN the game you are going to have to set goals for things which are considered outside your control. But, you still need to set the goal if you want to master this area of your life.

Set your Intention and Commitment to win the Game… measure it and be aware of your stats so you can improve each and every time you go out.

And, if you think you might be putting out a creepy vibe read this: “Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?”

Captain Jack

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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We spent a lot of time reminiscing about girls we made sweet love to, 2-sets that we cold-approached and handled like seduction Ninjas, sets that blew up in ridiculous ways. Nights of drunken Tomfoolery in distant cities and so forth.

The biggest injustice during this whole time period was that we didn’t have a third party chronicling these adventures. That sucks.

I remember one night Sinn opened this absolutely hot brunette girl with big knockers and her cute enough little friend.

Now, at this time there was ALSO a girl I had number closed a few days earlier who was at the bar. Sort of a dilemna because I need to wing. There’s a lot of shit to keep track of… I need to wing but do it in a way I don’t fuck up my lay with the Wisconsin girl. On the flip side, I can’t torpedo this 2set and fuck up Sinn’s chances with the hottie.

At one point, Sinn and his hottie have wondered off a bit and I’m actually talking to BOTH the girls (the obstacle and my previous number closee).

I look across the bar and Sinn’s Hottie has this concerned look on her face. I look at Sinn and he just doesn’t look right. He is wavering a bit and twitches awkwardly every 10-15 seconds.

I’m thinking, “Oh shit, what’s happening? Somebody has spiked his drink and it’s fucking with his nervous system.” I get a little scared, put my beer down and begin to walk over.

“Stay calm, get him some water, see what he is feeling,” I tell myself in an effort to calm my nerves. I have visions of my friend being put in an ambulance and driven to a hospital with IVs and shit stuck in his arm.

I’m pushing my way through the mass of people and as I’m about half way there, he dips his right shoulder and then snaps his fingers. Hmm, that’s weird. Maybe he’s trying to play it off. I take a few more steps and he then dips his left shoulder and snaps his fingers again.

Then, it hits me…

Sinn isn’t having an adverse drug reaction or suffering
from a rare spinal cord disorder. He’s Dancing!!!

Can you imagine my relief?

Then, I started to chuckle. Everything was going to be alright. That night we pulled the two-set and laid them. A few days later I got the Wisconsin girl. (LR: The Acrobatic Monkey and LR:www-horny-wisconsin-girls-com).

Now, you probably think this post is ONLY about me reminiscing about our adventures and making fun of one of my friends, don’t you?

You don’t think dear Ol’ Captain Jack is going to be able to pull a nice pick-up lesson out of this little story do you?

O Ye of Little Faith!

When I thought Sinn was suffering from a Neurotransmitter Deficiency on the dance floor and I was walking towards him, what types of behaviors, scenarios and possibilities was I thinking about?

• Getting him some water
• Calling an ambulance
• Getting him to sit down and asking about his experience so I could later relate it to the Paramedics
• Picturing Him in the hospital with IVs and such
• Collecting his drink for lab analysis and the fingerprints of the Perp

But, once it hit me that he was “dancing,” what types of behaviors, scenarios and possibilities was I imagining then?

• Pointing and laughing
• Challenging him to a dance-off to boost my club cred
• Taking video for future black-mail possibilities
• Pretending like I didn’t know him and quietly exiting the back way with the Wisconsin girl
• Teasing him mercilessly to make myself feel better

Aren’t those all VASTLY different from the previous?

Let’s bring this home…

Let’s imagine a common pick-up artist talking to a hottie. (Not any of my readers, of course.) He’s talking to the hottie who has herself all dolled up complete with mini-skirt and push-up bra and he’s telling her all these stories that demonstrate he has high value and that he’s a social guy, blah, blah, blah…

In other words, he’s royally boring the shit out of her.

But, let’s say he stumbled on “The Greatest Pick-up Blog On the Entire Internet”* and he picked up a little sumpthin’-sumpthin’ about Framing and in the midst of utterly boring her he lobs this gem into the convo,

“So, what’s on the Agenda for later?”

Simple question, right?

NO!!! Not at all, my fellow pirate**.

That question is MAGIC!

(I wish I could take credit for it but I learned it from Brent of Absolute Power Dating.)

Why is it Magic? Because, NOW you’ve alluded to the possibility of seeing her LATER… she is pretty likely to assume you are leading towards something like an after-party or you and her doing something later at night, when the club is closed… And, if we’re honest with ourselves, we all know what happens when the club closes, don’t we?

Boys and Girls Do Naughty Things to Each Other in Private!

Which is something she could be interested in.

That question makes her reframe all the other shit you said previously as having Probable Sexual Intent!!!

Now, what behaviors, scenarios and possibilities are opening up in HER mind?!

Do you get it? Do you see it!

Fuck man, if you don’t see it I think you should consider the priesthood or something.

Whatever.

Love,
The One and Only Captain Jack

* The Blog you are now reading
** “Pirate” in the sense of someone who enjoys adventures, tasty alcoholic beverages, gold and wenches. Not one who steals shit.

P.S. Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.

Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.

The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).

I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.

The calls will be recorded and transcribed in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.

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A few days after you sign up I’ll send you the schedule. You’ll have 30 days AFTER the first call to decide if you want to keep going. If not, then I’ll send you a refund. No questions asked, no big deal.

P.P.S. I took a few liberties with this post for educational purposes… Sinn was actually dancing with the girl because I told her that he loved to dance with girls but was too shy to ask. As she dragged him to the dance floor, he flipped me off.

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I’m sitting in the bookstore right now and the Cafe points directly to the
Sex, Relationships and Romance Novel section. There is an absolute STREAM of
women going over there. Those sections are NEVER empty.

Why?

Women are literally starving for the male-female sexual dynamic. Now, that’s
not the word they use for it.

They call it ‘Romance.’

But, most men cringe and think of Romance as flowers, expensive candlelight
dinners, chocolates and kissing her ass.

It’s not that at all! And, women know that. Have you ever READ a romance
novel? They are filled with sexual tension, secret sex liaisons, forbidden
pleasures… I made my way through half of one and I swear nearly every
character had sex with every other character by the midway point. I stopped
reading.. I got it.

Romance = male-female sexual tension.

Not that other shit we’ve been trained to think. Romance can occur anywhere.
A bookstore, a sidewalk, an expensive restaurant… wherever. It’s not the
environment, it’s the tension. If you make her feel feminine and sexy,
she’ll WANT to have sex with you.

And, there’s no better way to create that male-female sexual tension than
with Sexual Framing.

Mastering Sexual Framing will give you the absolute power to have sex pretty
much whenever you want it.

(It has NOTHING to do with dirty talk or being a creepy horny guy… It’s
MUCH MUCH MORE than Strawberry Fields or Rings on Fingers, too.)

Not only can you have a life filled with sex, you could easily use it to get
a girlfriend. Or, have a few girlfriends at a time. If you were really
perverted you could use it to create a Harem of chicks who basically act as
personal assistants. (That’s right, they’ll run your errands and shit and
ENJOY IT! Strange, I know but I’ve done it and so have countless others.)

And, you can have these types of relationships without lying or drama. See,
YOU set the rules by your frames. The problem is when you go around Gaming
you have no friggin’ clue what Frames you are setting.

Even worse, you have no idea of the Frames SHE is setting and you are
unwittingly AGREEING to…

Shit man, you could even use it to get married.. and, then, keep the
marriage alive and spicy for years to come.

Sexual Framing and understanding the female psychology of sex really
decomplicates things… Do you feel pick-up is hard or draining or
complicated or takes too much time?

Sexual Framing makes it easy.

While I’ve talked about it on my blog and a little in my eClass it is
something that requires a little more delving into. Framing is derived from
NLP and relies heavily on Presuppositions.

It’s just as much a mindset and understanding female psychology as it is a
framework of techniques. You need ALL 3 to really make it work.

Once you get it you will look so smooth people will watch you and
swear you’ve been good with women all your life.

No one understands it better than I do and I can TEACH you how to apply it
every day no matter where you are or what you’re doing.

Shit, you can even apply it to business. About a month ago, I got 6 experts
in the spiritual self-help field to hand me 4 detailed lessons for a new
membership program for FREE because I understood their values and framed it
so that if they DID NOT do it for me they’d be violating their values.
(That’s right… I CHARGE $49.00 per month for the lessons I got them to
give me for free. But, they will gain valuable exposure to several hundred
thousand people as a result.)

It’s pure mental Ninjitsu. You can discover it as well.

And, the women? Well, they will be so relieved, so glad, so HAPPY that
they’ve met a guy who REALLY GETS IT they will do pretty much anything you
want.

CJ

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Here’s the thing about Isolation: It’s merely symbolic.

If you do it right you and her will BE in isolation even if her friends are hanging on every word. I think of Isolation as a description of the level of your communication with her. At a certain point, a few minutes into the interaction, I begin focusing almost entirely on her. The conversation should become AT LEAST 50/50. In fact, I’d say it should be 60% HER, 40% you. Females are wired to talk more so if it’s not that way it seems strange to them.

I don’t see anyone else. I don’t hear anyone else. It’s just us two. There is a bubble around us. We are communicating and focusing much more on each other than anyone or thing around us. I bring the energy down. I talk slower, I move slower. I begin telling her she is a sexual being. That it is only natural. That it is a good thing.

That’s Isolation.

Do you need to get her away from her friends?

I often do it if they are much higher energy than I am… but usually what happens is the friends “get it” and give you some space.

AND… the normal view of Isolation is you taking her to the other side of the room. I suggest this if you are trying to create the “PUA Aura” but often a few steps away is plenty of space.

Think of it more as a change in the tone of communication and how you guys are relating to each other.

Focus on her, feel masculine and imagine her as a sexual woman who WANTS to be valued for her feminine sexuality, then tune all other shit out.

Captain Jack.

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Women’s magazines and “mainstream, clorox-bleached” dating gurus often say it… Hell, I’ve even heard girls say it after debriefing them.

Are they all wrong?

Well, yes (mainly because they disagree with me)…

AND NO!

You see, from the Females’ viewpoint, when she HAS been picked up that’s exactly how it appeared to her.

Let me give you the run down of how these things happen in “real” life:

Some dude was just being himself and chatting her and as he was she thought to herself, “I’m horny, he’s not weirding me out… I should start sending him signals.”

So, she twirls her hair. Thrusts her chest (or ass) out. Plays with her hair. Touches his arm. Laughs at all of his “jokes.” Leans into him…

Of course, he completely misses all of her signals and concentrates on saying something funny or cool.

At some point, usually after she’s given up all hope of getting laid that night, he thinks. “Damn, this chick has been talking to me for nearly an hour. I wonder if she likes me? Probably not, but I should try to get her email or something anyway.”

He gets her email or phone number. Then chases her for a few weeks trying to take her to dinner or a movie. She hasn’t been laid in weeks (or months) and she is super horny and the batteries have run out on her vibrator, so finally, she decides the offer of a movie and dinner for free is the perfect way to try to get laid without scaring the guy off or being considered a slut.

She responds to his 5th voice mail.

Eventually, they kiss.

A few weeks later they have sex.

See that? To her, he was just being himself. And, she eventually had sex with him. The massive amount of TIME he spent resulted in her having feelings of familiarity with him. The sex hormones combined to create a feeling of relationship.

Her experience based conclusion? He was just being himself, he got laid.

Now, what about the One-Night Stand or quicker lays?

Usually the same thing just compressed a bit.

Now, let’s take another facet of this…

When have girls been hurt and pissed off by guys? When the guys MISLED or LIED to them. So, when guys were “just being themselves” the girls got sex and/or a boyfriend… when they weren’t they got USED or found out they had been lied to!

What’s the lesson here?

The lesson is simple: Do the LEAST amount of work necessary to get laid AND be upfront about your intentions. This doesn’t (necessarily) mean you announce your intentions but if she is getting the wrong idea or trying to set a frame that you have no intention of maintaining nip that shit in the bud.

You want to be smooth?

The SOONER you start stripping shit out of your game the better. If you feel like you are working your ass off in set, it probably shows and then you are not matching her mental template of “a guy just being himself.” This scares her BECAUSE it is associated with past pain and rejection.

After a few months of steady progress using the same basic game plan, strip shit out. See how LITTLE you can do to get the same results.

Play.

Experiment.

For Example: Dump your “standard” openers for awhile. Go out for a few nights and say “Hi” and make small talk for a minute or two before introing your first major Piece.

Another exercise: See if you can small talk your way all the way to a TimeBridge.

Experiments like this lead to pure smoothness.

~ Captain Jack ~

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It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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It’s closing time so Sinn and I roll out. I send my standard text to HBs who I’ve timebridged. “Hi sexy lady, where you at?”

This is my “Drunk and Lonely Theory.” Here’s the theory:

Point 1. Women go out to get laid.
Point 2. 99.9% of guys’ game sucks.
Point 3. A female CANNOT have sex with a guy she is not attracted to. Due to Point 2 she is sexually frustrated.
Point 4. At 2:30 am the girl is at home, sexually frustrated, drunk and lonely.

This is the best time to send a text.

So one of my friends is in town from London and we’ve just finished a night of Gaming. We’re at the local Steak-n-Shake and I’m going over a few technical points with him… His body language is perfect. He spins the girl. He locks in. He can stay in set pretty much as long as he wants to. He’s already got pretty good game but I notice a few things that will help him skyrocket in the next few months and I’m giving him the breakdown.

After that I begin my usual thread about how females are sexual beings. That they want sex and they are extremely frustrated. Then, I tell him about Drunk-n-Lonely Texting…

He ran a pretty good two-set and he TimeBridged her. Her friend was really hot, too, but I don’t wing so he’s forced to handle them all by their lonesome.

I have him text her and this is how it went down (I had him email me the text message exchange):

IrishPUA : Hey Sexy (notice the complexity of this text message I had him send!!! haaa)

Hotel Girl : Hey!!

IrishPUA: Where you at?

Hotel Girl : Plano

IrishPUA :

Hotel Girl : Why the sad Face?

IrishPUA : I’m not really tired, we should hang out

Hotel Girl : I’m in Plano @ a hotel

IrishPUA : Come see me

Hotel Girl : Come see me!!

IrishPUA : What hotel?

Hotel Girl : X inn I-XX and X-Street

IrishPUA : Ok sexy what room number?

Hotel Girl : 214 you coming

IrishPUA : My friend is dropping me off, be there in 20

Hotel Girl : K

Hotel Girl : Where you at?

Now, this is NOT a rare occurence. I do this quite often. Remember, they went out for SOMETHING and they didn’t get it! But, out of the blue, comes a man… A man with balls… A man who LIKES them and wants to make them feel good!

By going to bang her you are making the world a better place! She will feel less frustrated, more feminine and satisfied. This means she’ll be nicer to everyone around her the next day. All of those people will be happier that a girl was nicer to them than usual… Puppies and babies will be happy.

It’s a giant ripple effect!

Back to our story… She calls as we are nearing the exit. He tells me it sounded like someone else was in there.

Hmmm…

I have to make a decision. Do I have him go it alone for experience’s sake? Or, do I roll in so I can occupy the friend to give him more chances to escalate.

We debate a bit and then I decide to throw it back to the girls. I have him text her something like, “Do you want my friend to come in too?”

She says, “Sure.”

We go in. The obstacle is hotter than I remember. This is a good thing. She has nice blue eyes, is skinny with big tits and that long wavy type hair I dig.

My friend immediately lays down on his Target’s bed. I sit towards the edge of the obstacle’s bed and we begin chatting.

To make a long story short I elicit her values, run the cosmo pattern and two other standard pieces. I do a few kino tests and she is responsive.

At one point she says she’s going to sleep and turns and lays on her pillow facing me. I touch her hand and she looks at me with a submissive look (don’t know how else to describe it). I grab her hand and she interlocks her fingers with mine. I whisper, “Come closer.” she inches forward a bit on her pillow and I kiss her.

From there I did a lot of whispering in between kissing, saying things like:

“This will be our secret.”

“Don’t worry they have no idea what’s happening over here.”

“They’re making out, too. So, this is ok.”

She kept saying stuff like, “We have to be good. I have a date tomorrow night.”

I’d respond, “Since nobody else knows about this, it technically never happend.”

I put my hand down the back of her sweats and wrap all the way around her tiny ass and touch her pussy. Super wet. I begin fingering it and she’s breathing heavy.

After a minute of that I put her hand on my cock and say, “Look what you’ve done to me.” She starts rubbing it and slowly moving her hips.

She turns around puts her ass on it. I pull down her sweats slowly. She wiggles her hips and I push it in.

At one point I was slowly fucking her from behind and she was trying to pretend like nothing was happening and still trying to talk to her friend in the other bed. Haa.

She said, “We shouldn’t be doing this, but I’m going to cum…” and that made me get close to coming and then I realized I didn’t have a condom on!!!

I put one on and re-entered.

But, with the other girl interrupting I never really got to tear it up. Oh well, another time.

My friend got LMR. In hindsight I realized that she wanted to know if WE were fucking because if we were then she would’ve given in. I believe this because several times my friend’s Target tried to use code phrases and shit to ask her friend if we were or had fucked but my girl missed them and so did I.

Then again on Sat. night I used Drunk-n-Lonely texting to pull a tall, hot, innocent looking girl. I was pooped from thurs and friday but got bored sat. night around midnight so I headed to a local venue.

I opened my second set (first set was a no-go) at 1:40a.m. and talked with her till closing. I opened her by saying,

CJ: “Hi, I noticed you from over there and I wanted to come meet you but you had all these guys all over you.”

TallHottie: “I know. It’s not usually like that.”

I felt like I wanted to tell her why but refrained because it wouldn’t have led anywhere. But, I’ll tell you guys. She was with one of her friends who was all over a guy she’s been seeing for about a month. With her friend so occupied she looked bored so she might as well have been a single AND she was at the end of the bar giving guys the perfect opportunity to open her from her right side without having to engage the guy-girl seated on her left.

From there I made some small talk and then stacked strawberry fields with rings-on-fingers. She got EXTREMELY curious/intrigued when I talked about the Non-Judgmental finger. But, when I interlaced the “sexually aggressive” finger with the amount of strawberries she ate she said,

TallHottie: “Well, I’m a good girl. I go to church.”

Haa.

I ignored that statement. Tell her she’s cool AND extremely sexy and Hookah TimeBridge.

Cosmo pattern and the lights come on. But, she is entranced and stands there for a second just staring at me.

Her friend nudges her and they all smile and walk off.

Good thing I got her number…

Text message, 2:05 am.

CJ: “Hey sexy, it’s semi-handsome CJ. Where u at?”

TallHottie: “In my car, where r u?”

CJ: “In my car too. Come see me.”

TallHottie: “Where?”

CJ: “Best Buy parking lot.”

About that time I get a text message from the girl I closed thursday night: “Come see me!!!” — Damnit. I want to bang her again because she’s fucking hot and I feel like I have unfinished business since I didn’t get to let loose on her big tittied skinny ass.

But, in the battle between Already Banged Vagina and New Vagina, New Vagina always wins.

The Tallhottie rolls up next to me and smiles. I get out of the PirateMobile and hop in her car. I say, “Gosh, I wish I would’ve met you earlier.”

We small talk for another 5 minutes and then I say, “I don’t think I’m going to sleep for a few hours. I’m not tired at all. Do you like Wedding Crashers or Old School?”

TallHottie: “Yes, I like both of them but I have only seen parts of Old School.”

CJ: “Cool, let’s go watch them at my place.”

She says “Ok” and just like that we’re off.

Unfortunately, she gives me LMR so no close BUT hopefully this gives you an idea of Drunk-n-Lonely and prompts you to begin trying it. Get the TimeBridge in every set possible and around 15-20 minutes after closing simply text, “Hey sexy” and see what happens.

After several years of doing this I’m STILL amazed it’s this easy. Try it, you’ll like it.

Captain Jack

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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Q: How do you release her inner Sex Fiend?

A: All of sexual framing is designed to get her to be cool with a short-time frame until the first sexual encounter. So, what I’m assuming is that you are asking, “How do you get them to be freaky in bed.” The good news is if you’ve used sexual framing you are 90% of the way  there.

First, you’ve demonstrated that she has an abnormally high sex drive.

Second, you’ve told her that she doesn’t REALLY care about society’s rules and regulations regarding sex and sexual relationships.

Third, you’ve told her you’re not judgmental.

Fourth, you’ve told her that you’re good at keeping secrets.

Fifth, you’ve told her that she becomes aggressive when she finds someone she’s really attracted to.

What that has done is created a framework where short time frame sex is acceptable and O.K.

So, you’re most of the way there…

The next part reminds me of a scene in “The Office” where Andy Bernard is trying to get Pam to hook him up with Angela. When Pam can’t think of anything he says, “Well, maybe you should try looking in the smart part of your brain.”

Now, if you want her to get really crazy you need to create another framework where slutiness is OK *AND* it is valued. You’ve got to get her accessing the slut part of her brain and relating it to you.

You can start with the Question Game and make it sexual (if someone wants to post a link to the Question Game in the comments I’ll update the post with it)…

I try one or two sexual questions to see if she reciprocates, if she does I’ll keep going. If not, I’ll match her type of questions and end about 4-6 questions in with Mystery’s Kiss Close as my last question.

A slut type question would be: “What’s something you love to do in bed but are usually too scared to do it or request it?”

Or, you could say something like this, “You should probably leave now… You are so elegant and sexy but I KNOW behind closed doors you’re probably really crazy… I’m thinking handcuffs and whips.”

Or, “I bet it can be frustrating for you sometimes. I bet a lot of guys mistake you for a good girl… not realizing that you just want to be treated respectfully in public, but, they don’t realize you don’t want that behind closed doors… you want to be a bad, bad girl. And, of course, everybody is bad in her own special way…”

Those are all types of comments I make a lot when talking to a girl. I haven’t tried it but I’ve heard about PUAs talking about fetish clubs in set to see if she takes the conversational thread.

In the bedroom…

Once you have her in the bedroom you can say something like, “I want to make you cum hard, but you gotta let me know what you like… now’s not the time to be shy.”

I LOVE it when a girl squirts. I’ve posted quite a few times about how when I started ASKING girls if they could squirt when they come it seemed like almost ALL of them could. Before I started asking them it was almost like it only happened when the girl lost control.

The girls want to do a good job for you in bed. That is why El Topo’s Kung Fu Penis is so awesome. She wants to do a good job BUT she’s not! So, she has to try harder. That means she has to be sluttier.

If you have a question, or you have a tactic you’d like to contribute, post it in the comments.

~ Captain Jack ~

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Force21 -

Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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