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		<title>Vector Approaching Technique</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Feb 2010 06:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Based on the new definition of Alpha, combined with the principle of Force and Magnification&#8230;
Step 1: Find hot girl.
Step 2: Look hot girl up and down.
Step 3: Imagine her smiling and introducing herself to you.
Step 4: Ask yourself, &#8220;If she liked me, how would she want me to approach her?&#8221;
Step 5: Smile and do it.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Based on the new definition of Alpha, combined with the principle of Force and Magnification&#8230;</p>
<p>Step 1: Find hot girl.</p>
<p>Step 2: Look hot girl up and down.</p>
<p>Step 3: Imagine her smiling and introducing herself to you.</p>
<p>Step 4: Ask yourself, &#8220;If she liked me, how would she want me to approach her?&#8221;</p>
<p>Step 5: Smile and do it.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. Do it and let me know how it goes in the comments!</p>
<p>P.P.S. Master Strategies Monthly guys, can you see how this technique was derived from the material in the audios? Can you see why it works?</p>
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		<title>Approaching Women Direct With The Game Dynamics</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 16:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>captainjack</dc:creator>
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<p>In response to one of my blog posts on <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/09/back-to-back-snls-and-a-3some/">&#8220;Approaching and Seducing Women with Game Dynamics&#8221;</a> a commenter had this question which was enthusiastically echoed by another reader. Here are the comments:</p>
<p><strong><em>Owen said: I have a question about the last article. Considering game dynamics (best way of getting laid and connecting with women) it’s not better to go direct and clarify your intention? I mean the rest is all done by passive acceptance of the frame or I am wrong?</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Jim said:</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Great question! Doesn’t going Direct make it clear to her that you are a Player? Anxiously awaiting CJ’s response </em></strong><strong><em></em></strong></p>
<p>To clarify the Game Dynamics are:</p>
<p><strong>All Games are Based on Agreement.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players in a Game you both want to play. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time. </strong></p>
<p>So, you have to get agreement on all 4 Dynamics and KEEP agreement until you can actually achieve the Game Goal.</p>
<p>I have nothing against Direct Approach to meet women… Direct works. I’ve used it and I’ve seen others use it for great effect. However, I don’t think it is an optimum move. You want your opening move to be the one that gives you the highest probabilities of getting to the next stage.</p>
<p>In some cases, direct has such an effect that it blows past all the stages. If you couple this with the fact that women DO love sex and are sometimes just ready to go at it then you get some success.</p>
<p>The problem is I think it lowers your overall probabilities.</p>
<p>Let’s look at it from a Game Dynamics viewpoint with my last lay report.</p>
<p>Here was a girl who was obviously down… But… she was there with her ex-boyfriend (who still wanted her) and a ‘big brother’-type guy friend. (Now don’t we know that almost all ‘big brother’ types are basically guys who still want to have sex with her but don’t know how to make it happen?)</p>
<p>She and I had exchanged hard eye contact and smiles several times. Would’ve been fairly easy for me to Direct Approach. But, it would’ve blown out Dynamic 4 and ended my chances. Now, I don’t agree with Mys’ idea that everyone else in the set is an Obstacle but in this case they were definitely Obstacles because we had Counter Intentions. An Obstacle is defined by Counter Intentions not by simply NOT being your Target. I’ve had non-Targets be ALLIES in set.</p>
<p>I’ve also had circumstances where I have opened 2sets and discovered the Target was out with her boyfriend’s sister. How would Direct fare, then? Of course, you could decide, “Well, it would save me time!” Perhaps, if you’re not good or you have no intention of getting Supremely Good at Game. But, history shows that a Boyfriend is often a trifling matter!</p>
<p>The Game Strategist opts for <a href="../tag/low-investment-openers">Low Investment Openers</a>, indirect approaches to meet women or the social type openers like, “How’s everyone tonight?” and discovering what’s deal. He picks his optimum move at every step… and she loves him for it.</p>
<p><strong>So, my conclusion is: </strong>Sure you might be passing Dynamic 1 with flying colors by going Direct but could be destroying any chance/opportunity of getting agreement on any other Dynamic by destroying Dynamic 4. You COULD also be violating a few Game Rules (like “Protect Social Reputation”) depending on what Game is her natural preference.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. The Game Dynamics audio has been recorded and is being delivered along with all the past “Master Strategies Monthly” audios. You can read more at <a href="../720/unexplainable-shit-now-explained/">“How to Pick Up Girls Using The Game Dynamics”</a></p>
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<p>It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

<p>I want you to have my new technology.

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		<title>FR: College Girls!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 01:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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So Tribulus tells me about this new place that is PACKED with hot college girls. Hmm&#8230; Young, hot, college girls, alcohol and me all in the [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, I NEVER write FRs anymore but this was a fun night, I&#8217;ve been rusty and maybe it will help me a bit to get some thoughts down on &#8220;paper.&#8221;</p>
<p>So Tribulus tells me about this new place that is PACKED with hot college girls. Hmm&#8230; Young, hot, college girls, alcohol and me all in the same room. (See picture for my feelings on the subject!)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/borat.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-641" style="border: 10px solid black;" title="borat" src="http://www.betheseducer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/borat-218x300.jpg" alt="" width="218" height="300" /></a> I get there about 10 and it&#8217;s pretty dead. Tribulus SWEARS that it was     good. Of course, I believe him but I&#8217;m just not seeing it. It&#8217;s happened to me MANY times, I go to a place where it&#8217;s been full of hotties one night and then not another. Sucks! and I figure it may have happened here.</p>
<p>But, every few minutes a few HOT, HOT girls would stroll in&#8230; which would keep me in my spot.</p>
<p>By 11:00ish the quality is HIGH and quantity is building. I&#8217;m rusty. It sucks. I&#8217;m battling motivation issues. AceOfHeartSS is there and it&#8217;s good to see him because he gets into set quickly and says other shit that makes me laugh. There&#8217;s another guy there that I met recently through Tribulus. I don&#8217;t know his &#8220;secret community name&#8221; but he&#8217;s cool to hang out with, too. With some work I think he&#8217;ll be good.</p>
<p>Tribulus intros a set by asking them if they&#8217;ve ever taken the strawberry fields test and immediately hands off to me. This super-hot blonde bites but her little friend says, &#8220;I don&#8217;t get it&#8221; and walks off.</p>
<p>Perfect!</p>
<p>I tell the super hot blond that she is hitting on me. I tell her it would never work out between us. I tell her I go to Austin (she is from UT-Austin) every few months and tell her the places I go. She loves those places, too.</p>
<p>Rings on Fingers.</p>
<p>I body rock in and out of her space.</p>
<p>After Rings on Fingers I do Thumb Wars and annihilate her. I make sure to make a big show of it by raising my hands in victory. She wants another go so i destroy her little thumb again.</p>
<p>She asks me how old I am and I make her guess. She&#8217;s &#8220;21 and a half&#8221; haa. The age difference makes her EXTREMELY interested.</p>
<p>We talk a bit more and she&#8217;s CONSTANTLY touching on me and play hitting me. I TB and get her number. We&#8217;ve texted back and forth and I&#8217;m going to try to get her out on Sunday night. She goes back to Austin in a few weeks.</p>
<p>She mentions something about my age and if I want to get married in the future and I say, &#8220;Oh god&#8230; my heart just started beating&#8230; don&#8217;t say relationship or commitment.&#8221; I did it to block that option out of her mind since we only have 3 weeks any holding out would suck, plus I don&#8217;t want a relationship.</p>
<p>Probably could&#8217;ve done that a bit better&#8230; I usually say something like, &#8220;I&#8217;m cool either way. Not looking for it&#8230; not against it. I think a lot of people make a mistake and rush into things if they&#8217;re looking for that&#8230; I like to just let whatever happens happen&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Some more banter and flirting and she is smiling and beaming the whole time.</p>
<p>She has to go the bathroom and says, &#8220;Stay right here, I&#8217;ll be back&#8221; while touching my upper arm. (Naturally, her fingers didn&#8217;t touch because no human fingers could wrap around the guns.)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not gonna lie&#8230; her hotness threw me off my shit and I made the mistake of going back to the MM-based adage of NOT being there when she got back.</p>
<p>Dumb.</p>
<p>Dumb.</p>
<p>Dumb.</p>
<p>I think that was dumb because I&#8217;m so good at this stage of game and it was so ON that I had a REAL shot at pulling her same night. I should&#8217;ve stayed with her and ran some more sexual framing, one or two heart melters and the bounce invite.</p>
<p>Ah well&#8230; I still have the TB and she&#8217;s responded to my s-fields callback text so I&#8217;ve got a shot.</p>
<p>Next set: I open a girl with something situational&#8230; It&#8217;s a short exchange because she is getting a bunch of drinks. She makes eye contact and smiles as she&#8217;s leaving with the drinks and I mentally decide to re-engage with full intention if I see her again.</p>
<p>Next set: Tribulus does the s-fields intro again and immediately hands them off to me.</p>
<p>The girl is cute, not HOT, but certainly very cute. It&#8217;s on from the beginning. Her friends are at a table across the aisle and are watching like hawks. It turns out she is 21, a VIRGIN with some special signature virgin ring that she shows me. She has a boyfriend back home AND an ex in the venue.</p>
<p>Despite all this she is all over me. Hands on my thighs, hands in my hand. I tell her that her dimples are driving me crazy, etc, etc.</p>
<p>I tell her to forget about her bf and ex and concentrate on me. This heats her up a bit more.</p>
<p>I ran Rings on Fingers and that&#8217;s when she showed me the special &#8220;Keeping my legs closed for Jesus&#8221; ring.</p>
<p>But, as DD says, Attraction isn&#8217;t a Choice and it&#8217;s on&#8230; except for one little problem. Do I really want to invest time in this? How fun could LMR from a virgin be?</p>
<p>Had I wanted to invest more time in this I would&#8217;ve had to run the Group Innoculation that I do&#8230;. For the most part I don&#8217;t do a lot of group handling. If you can get her interested SHE will do a better job of handling the group than you could&#8230;</p>
<p>In order to insure this I say something like, &#8220;Your friends seem cool. I have friends like that, too. We protect each other. But, right now they are over there and we&#8217;re here. They don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m feeling or what you&#8217;re feeling or what we&#8217;re feeling together. I like you and I&#8217;m enjoying this a lot&#8230; They might try to break this up or whatever to protect you so if they try then you have to let them know everything&#8217;s cool and we like each other.&#8221;</p>
<p>Final set of the night&#8230;</p>
<p>I open a SUPER hot brunette. We chat for a bit. I&#8217;m not getting the responses I think I should&#8230; I sense she is holding back a bit&#8230; the set swings wildly between super on and cold.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a little confused.</p>
<p>She gets distracted away by a friend and I hang back and watch. Then, I notice she is in the middle of a Jealousy Thread.</p>
<p>ALMOST impossible to break a girl out of the J-Thread.</p>
<p>When I get near her again she brightens up and waves. I go back in and decide it&#8217;ll be cool to at least try&#8230; I go back and flirt a bit and tease some to loosen things up&#8230; I spin her and she loves it&#8230; I spin her again.</p>
<p>She starts asking questions to justify her attraction. I feel momentum building&#8230;</p>
<p>Unfortunately, it&#8217;s past 2am and we get herded out. I make a weak attempt at a TB but she says, &#8220;I don&#8217;t really know you.&#8221; Fair enough&#8230; I made a weak attempt AND it was hurried so I normally wouldn&#8217;t have even tried. She asks my first and last name and says, &#8220;I&#8217;ll facebook you&#8221; I laugh and say, &#8220;You won&#8217;t remember.&#8221; and lightly push her away and walk off.</p>
<p>It sucks because I know under different circumstances I would&#8217;ve gotten her. Such is life.</p>
<p>Overall it was fun and good to be out.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
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<p>I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

<p>Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

<p>It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

<p>I want you to have my new technology.

<p>I want you to get to this level, too.

<p><a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2010/03/force21/">>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<</a>
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		<title>Lay Report: Good Girl Face</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been SUPER Busy but still out there having lots o&#8217; fun.</p>
<p>Printer and I went down to Austin last weekend to see about a software project for his Dad&#8217;s Co. but at the last minute his Dad caught a cold or something so it was postponed and we were on standby throughout the weekend in case he felt better&#8230;</p>
<p>Austin, TX on a weekend&#8230; hmmm&#8230; what to do&#8230;</p>
<p>We go out and I use one of my favorite low investment openers. Never really thought about why it works but I&#8217;ve probably used it 30-40 times now in the past year. The only requirement is you can stack forward.</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;How do you know my friend, Printer?&#8221; *** pointing towards the bar where he&#8217;s ordering me more liver-destroying liquids. ***</p>
<p>This can be said if they&#8217;ve never even seen the guy&#8230; or if he just casually said something as he walked by&#8230; or if he&#8217;s already in set.</p>
<p>HB: &#8220;Oh, we don&#8217;t.&#8221;</p>
<p>That seems like a dead-end opener, doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;Wow! I&#8217;m surprised&#8230; He seems to know everyone!&#8221;</p>
<p>Can you FEEL the sexual tension?</p>
<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; you say?</p>
<p>Neither can I. We&#8217;re not there yet, dude. But, watch this.</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;Hmmm&#8230;. You pick interesting fingers to wear your rings on&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">And, we&#8217;re off!</span> </span></p>
<p>But, that&#8217;s not how this one went down.</p>
<p>Instead of &#8220;Rings on Fingers&#8221; it went like this&#8230;</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;Wow! I&#8217;m surprised&#8230; He seems to know everyone!&#8221;<br />
HB: &#8220;Well, we&#8217;re from Dallas.&#8221;<br />
CJ: &#8220;Really? So are we! Figures all the cool Dallas people would find each other.&#8221;</p>
<p>(Anyone want to comment about WHY the above statement is Ninja-esque?)</p>
<p>We do some more fluff talk for about 2-3 minutes. I tease her a little bit and get some kino in&#8230;</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;You know, you&#8217;re kinda throwing me a little bit&#8230;&#8221;<br />
HB: &#8220;What? What do you mean?&#8221;</p>
<p>The following is one of my FAVORITE pick-up routines&#8230; it almost NEVER fails to get the woman attracted hardcore&#8230; it is a bit of sexual framing as well.</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;Well, you have a good girl face&#8230; but&#8230; (dramatic pause)&#8230; bad girl mannerisms.&#8221; *** I stress the BAD GIRL and look her up and down with lust. ***</p>
<p>She went from mildly curious and attracted to downright Porn Starlet in 1.3 seconds.</p>
<p>HB: &#8220;How do you know?&#8221;</p>
<p>Notice she&#8217;s NOT arguing. In fact, she&#8217;s asking me how I know it&#8217;s TRUE!</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;You had better stop.&#8221;</p>
<p>I kept eye-fucking her, looking her up and down while having the most innocent conversation. I made it a point to stare at her lips, back to her eyes and to her tits several times while biting my lower lip.</p>
<p>And then, I said something close to this (can&#8217;t remember exact wording).</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;It must be rough for you. All the guys think you&#8217;re all innocent and it keeps you from getting what you really, really want&#8230;&#8221; as I leaned in closer&#8230; and then lightly pushed her away.</p>
<p>After I pushed her away there was a good 10-12 inches between us. She closed the gap and pushed her whole body against me and gave me those &#8220;Kiss me now, pleeeeeaaaaaase!&#8221; eyes.</p>
<p>Naturally, I obliged.</p>
<p>From then on we were like Siamese Twins joined at the tongue.</p>
<p>Printer told me the next day when talking about the night at lunch that he stayed away because he was embarrassed. People were pointing.</p>
<p>I heard people talking and one girl said, &#8220;Oh-my-god!&#8221; as she walked by&#8230;</p>
<p>Whatever. A good girl needed to get some bad girl lovin&#8217;&#8230;</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;Man, this sucks&#8230; the bar is closing.&#8221;<br />
HB: &#8220;What do you want to do?&#8221;<br />
CJ: &#8220;Um, we could go watch a movie at my hotel&#8230; It&#8217;s not far. But I have to be up early for a meeting.&#8221;<br />
HB: &#8220;We hardly know each other.&#8221;<br />
CJ: &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to make you do anything you don&#8217;t want to do&#8230;&#8221; &#8211; Tongue down again.</p>
<p>She handled the obstacles for me, one girl and one guy, when they tried to pull us apart by the cabs.</p>
<p>Got to the hotel and wrecked it.</p>
<p>~ Captain Jack ~</p>
<p>P.S. Not even Strawberry Fields! This is an example of &#8220;Less is More.&#8221; If I would&#8217;ve gone into my routine stack or done all my Heart Melters and shit she could&#8217;ve developed different feelings for me and tried to put off the SNL. You develop a sense of knowing when you&#8217;re done and all you need to do is chill out. I&#8217;ve gotten pretty good at that.</p>
<p>P.P.S. She has a boyfriend.</p>
<p>P.S #3: She texted that she wants to see me this week.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2007 16:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m getting world class at LIOs (Low Investment Openers).A Wing and I pulled a 2set of 21 year old hotties last sat. night. My Opener? &#8220;This song was real popular when I was in High School.&#8221; Then, I plowed for 2 minutes. Until said Wing came in and occupied obstacle. 
We ended up pulling the [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp3.blogger.com/_W5UKEVhV2HE/RkCi9hY_ptI/AAAAAAAAAAw/CcAImkEAoZ0/s1600-h/AtlasShrugged.gif"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://bp3.blogger.com/_W5UKEVhV2HE/RkCi9hY_ptI/AAAAAAAAAAw/CcAImkEAoZ0/s320/AtlasShrugged.gif" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5062225158983362258" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">I&#8217;m getting world class at LIOs (Low Investment Openers).</span><br />A Wing and I pulled a 2set of 21 year old hotties last sat. night. My Opener? &#8220;This song was real popular when I was in High School.&#8221; Then, I plowed for 2 minutes. Until said Wing came in and occupied obstacle. </p>
<p>We ended up pulling the 2set to the Pirate Pad. I got mine totally naked (awesome fit 21year old perfect body &#8212; Day2 is tonight) but I got LMR and ended up fingering her instead. She tried to give me a handjob but it&#8217;s near impossible for me to get off that way.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s one from last night which also went well: &#8220;Red shoes. Interesting.&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">I&#8217;m also getting world class at getting girls to open me off of their AI. </span>I wrote a post about it &#8220;Why Old Ladies Love CJ&#8221; or something a week or so ago. </p>
<p>And, I&#8217;m pleased with the overall increase in Youth and Quality of my last month or so of Gaming. Some time ago, not sure exactly when, I made a decision to upgrade the quality. I recommend quantity for beginners, even intermediates with huge Outer Game SPs, but it&#8217;s time for me to focus on hotter specimens.</p>
<p>Finally, here&#8217;s an excerpt which I included and discussed in the &#8220;How to Get More Newsletter&#8230;&#8221; </p>
<p>   “How do you propose to force your ideas on them?”<br />   “I don’t propose to force or be forced. Those who want me will come to me.”<br />   Then the Dean understood what had puzzled him in Roark’s manner.<br />   “You know,” he said, “you would sound much more convincing if you spoke as if you cared whether I agreed with you or not.”<br />   “That’s true,” said Roark. “I don’t care whether you agree with me or not.” He said it so simply that it did not sound offensive, it sounded like the statement of a fact which he noticed, puzzled, for the first time.<br />   “You don’t care what others think – which might be understandable. But you don’t care even to make them think as you do?”<br />   “No.”<br />   “But that’s…that’s monstrous.”<br />   “Is it? Probably. I couldn’t say.”<br />   (Excerpted from “The Fountainhead” by Ayn Rand, p.26)</p>
<p>~ Captain Jack ~</p>
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<p>It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

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		<description><![CDATA[After you&#8217;ve spent a few months using Opinion Openers or OMG Openers try this&#8230;
Lately I&#8217;ve been doing very low volume, low energy approaches. In fact, lately I haven&#8217;t even been opening groups.
After thinking about how my style has morphed in the last 6 months I&#8217;ve noticed that a LOT of my openers are very simple, [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After you&#8217;ve spent a few months using Opinion Openers or OMG Openers try this&#8230;</p>
<p>Lately I&#8217;ve been doing very low volume, low energy approaches. In fact, lately I haven&#8217;t even been opening groups.</p>
<p>After thinking about how my style has morphed in the last 6 months I&#8217;ve noticed that a LOT of my openers are very simple, mundane and directed at the Target.</p>
<p>I noticed that my goal has been to open the girl with the lowest investment possible and then use my calibration skills to keep the conversation escalating towards sex.</p>
<p>The best openings have the feeling of being light touches rather than bold strokes. If I can make it seem like we opened each other, all the better.</p>
<p>The Austrasian looked at me and smiled, I smiled back and slowed down as we were passing each other. She slowed down so I opened her. We were chatting away immediately.</p>
<p>I also realized that my &#8220;Clown Grin&#8221; that I stumbled on a LONG time ago is a LIO.</p>
<p>The very last night I was in Australia I opened a cute Hawaiian chick by tapping on her shoulder with &#8220;Were you here for Karaoke the other night?&#8221;</p>
<p>By 1:30 am we were &#8220;married&#8221; and she invited me to &#8220;watch tv at the hotel&#8221; with her later. (I laughed because her bounce statement sucked but I guess being a female bouncing is simple for her.)</p>
<p>The proponents of &#8220;Short Sets&#8221; use LIO&#8217;s and now many of the group dynamics practitioners use &#8220;Pre-Openers.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, use a simple Low Investment Opener and guage her attitude/interest to being opened. Then, stack forward.</p>
<p>Will it work with a &#8220;protection shield?&#8221; Probably not. But, here&#8217;s the thing. It&#8217;s not a real blow out. If she is snotty or whatever it&#8217;s real easy to walk off, open someone else and there are MORE girls in the venue it will work with than not so I say use it on them and build social proof and reopen later.</p>
<p>What about the obstacles? I&#8217;ve found that if you can get a girl attracted and into comfort fairly quickly that the Target will rebuff (man, I&#8217;ve been waiting to use that word for awhile &#8211; rebuff) the obstacles by giving them subtle cues to back off.</p>
<p>MOST of you guys are (necessarily) overdoing attraction and overselling yourselves. After you can get attraction consistently throttle back and find out how LITTLE attraction you can get before moving to next phase.</p>
<p>At each phase you want to use the MINIMUM necessary to use the next step. This gives the interaction a feeling of mutual seduction.</p>
<p>What (exactly) are Low Investment Openers? Here are a few of my favorites:</p>
<p>* The Clown Grin * If she smiles back or slows down or stops ask &#8220;You having a good night?&#8221;<br />* &#8220;You having a good night?&#8221;<br />* &#8220;Were you here on xyz night?&#8221; &#8211; Then, I&#8217;ll mention something about that night I found unique/unusual/interesting.<br />* &#8220;How&#8217;s it going?&#8221;</p>
<p>So, basically EVERYTHING we told you NOT to use when you first started out. Now, if you&#8217;ve been consistently sarging for 4-5 months then throttle back, give this a shot and make your seductions seem mutual.</p>
<p>~ Captain Jack ~</p>
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<p>Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

<p>It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

<p>I want you to have my new technology.

<p>I want you to get to this level, too.

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