Hmm I think this is boiling down to a bit of semantics and how you exactly define it. If I go to a bar with my hot female friends I get tons more AIs that if I go with my male buddies. Sure, if I don’t do anything about it then the AIs will die down over time (except for new girls entering the venue). But either way simply having hot girls with you gets you more interest than not, therefore scientifically proving that social proof is a contributory factor!

It won’t get you laid (you’ll still have to open… duh!) but is sure as dandy helps!

– comment by charliereay on “Opening and Social Proof Versus Player in the Game” post

I am surprised I didn’t get more of these types of comments. When I published the post I expected to get a lot more of these types than the all out positive ones.

Let me start by saying this… I’m not saying Social Proof isn’t “right” or is “wrong.” What I’m saying is that it is INCOMPLETE. I’m pointing out that it leaves A LOT more unexplained than explained.

I discussed quite a few things that it left unexplained in the last post. There is a higher level dynamic at work when attracting, approaching and seducing women that better explains what is going on and that is the player in the game concept.

One GREAT way to know if you have found a better organizing principle is if you experience a surge in motivation to act or a desire to do things differently. Two or 3 commenters noted they felt more pumped to approach women. The reason is because when they adopted this idea it caused a spontaneous release of competing and inefficient ideas leaving more energy and attention available for action. And/or it stabilized a lot of floating thoughts thus lessening confusion (and confusion causes fear and apprehension.)

I’ll show you how it better explains common field phenomena and then I’ll show you how it ALSO explains Sexual Framing.

Social Proof

• Covered in previous post.

Peacocking

• Someone who is peacocking but not opening is a tool. Why? Socially we know, and women know, that Peacocking is something you do when you are Playing the Game. A dude who is Peacocked and not opening is socially weird. Likewise, people with low game awareness call scantily clad women in the club “sluts” not realizing this is what women do to invite the real Players to open. Saying that women open guys who are peacocked because they realize the men are Players in the Game is a leap… but, it is a very small leap. It might be better explained by saying that women can use it to show everyone THEY are playing the Game thus, getting her opened more without making it too obvious.

Pre-Selection

• I covered this a bit in the last post. Pre-Selection is a VERY valid and observable phenom. But, again this only applies to Players in the Game. When they realize you aren’t in the Game their awareness is no longer on you and all invitations and attention shift to find Players.

Jealousy Threads

• Again, you have to be a Player in the Game and have her attracted for a Jealousy Thread to exist. J-Threads are incredibly powerful. They are so powerful BECAUSE the Game has a limited time span (a Game Obstacle) and a limited number of Players (another Game Obstacle). Her desire to win compels her to focus more energy on a proven quantity as does her desire to IMPROVE against competition. (The competition is other females, not the males.) Add to that the fact that she WAS on her way to Winning and you’ve got a deep sense of loss and self-doubt creeping in. The idea that other females could be BETTER was theoretical, now it is all too real. She will do ALMOST anything to beat the competitor.

Disqualifiers

• There are two valid players. It looks like they are headed to winning… but, now one of them seems to be questioning whether or not the other is a Player… the chances of winning drop causing fear and increasing desire to get back in the Game.

DHVs

• I’m skeptical about the real use of DHVs EXCEPT when you are talking to a girl to whom that shit is important AND her logical mind is engaged. She can use that stuff to talk herself into liking you or giving you more time/chances.

Ok, “Player in the Game” refines those a bit without colliding and give us a better understanding.

We KNOW Mystery Method works AND it works very very well for what it is designed to do… Those items listed above are given as the reason MM works… But, what then explains the massive success of Sexual Framing which isn’t built on any of those?

Sexual Framing doesn’t use Jealousy-Threads, Pre-Selection, Demonstrations of Higher Value (DHVs), Merging, Pawning or Social Proof except as a consequence when a set unravels and you have to open a new one.

In fact, Sexual Framing VIOLATES many common MM principles.

Can the “Player in the Game” concept describe it? Yes! Wonderfully!

A Game is made up of Spectators, Players, Winners, Obstacles and Goals.

I’m not using Obstacles in the MM definition here. Although her friends COULD be Obstacles they aren’t by default. They are only Obstacles when they don’t KNOW that you and her friend have AGREED to play the game together.

Approaching, attracting and seducing women is often called The Game.

All Games are Based on Agreement.

Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players. Naturally, this is you making a smooth open, hooking the set and her entering communication with you. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER. By opening Sexual Frames you are telling her what Game you are playing. As she continues talking with you and playing along she is AGREEING that this is a male-female conversation with a sexual dynamic. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal. By being non-judgmental and telling her you LOVE how sexy she is, etc you are showing her this. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time. This can be done explicitly by getting the group to like you… getting her so into you that she does it and/or using an Inoculation Routine like I mentioned in “FR: College Girls!” Then, by baby-stepping her along ever so gently she’ll know/feel that she is having all the good feelings and none of the bad (like she usually does), she gets even more comfortable and puts more trust in you. If you can’t get agreement on this you don’t have a Game.

Also, you can look for her to show you the same! For example, when I ask her “You’re not the jealous type… are you?” and then tell a story about how I was “hanging out” (code for fucking) a girl and she got jealous and I didn’t approve I’m beginning to define what Game we are playing and putting in question her agreement on Dynamic 2. She has to alleviate my concerns by agreeing with me that jealousy sucks.

The Most Evil of All Evils

What about LMR? Can this even shed some light on LMR?

Yes!

LMR is primarily an unclear agreement about whether or not you are both playing the same Game (unclear Game Dynamic 2). It can also be that you haven’t shown her that you value her Game Goal (unclear on Game Dynamic 3).

If she is playing “Potential GF Game” and you are playing ONS game and she THINKS you are playing “Potential GF Game” but isn’t exactly sure due to mixed communication signals then… BAM! LMR. You’d have to have told her that your game works like this “Primarily Sexual and then possible grow into GF over time” in order to avoid it.

On the flipside, If you WERE playing to get a GF and she was CONVINCED you were…

…and she WAS playing that Game too…

…and she believed that giving it up wouldn’t destroy that Game (clear on Game Dynamic 3), then…

…she’d have no issue having sex with you the first night.

This is why so many of the PUAs trained in “social” forms of Pick-up have such a hard time getting laid.

They broadcast “social, fun guy — potential fun bf” on Game Dynamic 2 and then wonder why it takes forever to lay her… furthermore, they never make it clear that they VALUE sexuality so she has to be double certain it won’t fuck up that Game before having sex. They have methodically built tons of agreement on a DIFFERENT GAME (fun, cool, social bf) and wonder why the Game Goal of a DIFFERENT GAME isn’t happening.

Those Silly PUAs.

Captain Jack

P.S. Knowing what you know now about The Game Dynamics you should be able to pinpoint on WHICH Dynamic any busted set failed on. All “no-gos” are failure on Game Dynamic 1. All sets that unravel come from failures on Game Dynamic 4, etc. What would you do with said information? Why you’d examine your Game Plan and look for deficiencies in your common routines/stacks/ideas/beliefs in that area, shore it up, set up experiments/solutions and get your ass back in the Field!

P.P.S. Disqualifiers work because they threaten agreement on Game Dynamic 1. See that? If there isn’t agreement on all the Game Dynamics, there is NO GAME, thus no chance of winning. Jealousy Thread threatens Game Dynamic 2.

More on “The Game Dynamics”

Opening and Social Proof versus “Player in the Game”
Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance
Player States of Existence and Nested Games

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2. Approaching Women Direct With The Game Dynamics
3. Player States of Existence and Nested Games

I got back 6 days ago from 10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being. We worked from 8am to about 10:00 (sometimes later) every night. It was awesome! I’ve done this a few times now and each time I get a HUGE boost in my life.

I’m now closer to my Mom, my Sister, Dad and children even though I thought things were great to begin with… I walk with a LOT more confidence. I speak my mind a lot more freely, have become a lot more persuasive and a bunch of other things I don’t have enough space to mention. I have a genuine love for ALL people I encounter… And, I am MUCH, MUCH happier each and every moment and I rest in (or on) a background of peacefulness and expanded awareness.

Like I said, It’s awesome!

I’m gearing up for the “Master Strategies Teleconference” series and I know it’s going to be killer.

One of the keys to effectiveness is strong Commitment and Intention.

Once upon a time when I was in college this hot girl waved at me on campus as we were walking towards each other and I slowed down to see what was what… She was carrying a few folders and books in her arms and a huge smile seemed permanently plastered on her face.

She asked me what class I was going to… then, what sports I liked… where I was born and what I did in my spare time. About halfway through our “conversation” I got the sense something strange was going on. I stuck around though (she was hot) to see where it would lead.

After telling her what I did in my spare time she enthusiastically whipped this flyer out of her book and said, “We’re having this contest and the winner gets to go to Hawaii. I’m ALMOST in the lead and the contest ends soon. Will you help me win? All you have to do is subscribe to magazines… You told me you like x, y, z… we have magazines in those areas….”

Suddenly, she was a LOT less attractive. I couldn’t get away fast enough.

Slimy, eh?

Many in the Community suggest you shouldn’t go out to try to get laid because it reeks of desperation or neediness and girls can sense that right away. Instead, what they suggest is you go out and be the social guy and wait to see if she likes you.

It comes across to me much like the girl in my story (Yuck) because no matter how much you pretend… you ARE going out to get laid.

It IS true that many women can sense neediness… but going out to get laid doesn’t mean you have desperation or neediness.

Desperation or neediness comes from wanting something but feeling you can’t really have it OR the feeling you must give up your values to get it.

You can go out with the intention of getting laid WITHOUT being needy. Neediness does NOT automatically follow the intention to get laid. Neediness is an internal state or belief system that exists because of the habit of disapproving of yourself.

Guys who don’t go out with the intention of getting laid don’t get laid.

I even go so far as to imagine what it would be like with her while I’m talking to her. I allow myself to feel SEXUAL (not horny) as I’m talking to her and even as I’m approaching.

There are others who suggest only focusing on the things you can control. I may have said something like that in the past because it sounds like a good idea. But, I don’t agree with that anymore.

Now, I say you MUST set goals and measure things you can’t control.

Let’s dig a little deeper into this…

You can’t actually control if a girl sleeps with you or not. You CAN set a goal to open 25 sets. BUT, you need to measure and STAT how many of those sets resulted in a lay otherwise your goal is meaningless. If you aren’t doing measuring (at least mentally) then you don’t have a basis of improvement.

Any Game has defined results, measures and stats.

The result is a verbal description of the game’s objective. The measure is what can be seen/observed in reality, meaning you observed it did happen or didn’t happen. The stat represents the measure as a numerical fact.

You want your results, measures and stats to be TRACEABLE to WINNING the Game.

Here is an example:

Result: Captain Jack has sexual relationship with 10 new hotties this month.

Measure: Female gets penetrated by GIGANTOR(TM)

Stat: No. of females penetrated.

Okay, got it?

Now, in this Game there are other measures and stats as well:

Measure: Female agrees to TimeBridge.

Stat: % of females who agreed.

(For me personally, if I go a long time with less than 40-50% of the girls saying yes to the TB I know something is off in my initial presentation and I need to examine it. This doesn’t mean all the TB’s will HAPPEN only that they agreed to it at the time I put out the invitation.)

I’m not saying that you power up excel and type this shit in a spreadsheet by any means… what I’m talking about is a mindset and commitment to measuring for the purpose of improving.

You don’t get the results by committing only to what YOU can physically do because it is incomplete in the realm of effectiveness. Do you get to write a Lay Report after saying, “Well, I opened 25 sets this weekend. I can’t control anything else but at least I met my goal.”

No.

That is completely backward. You keep the end goal in mind and keep intelligently analyzing and varying your behavior until you get closer and closer.

Imagine a salesperson going to his boss and saying, “Well, I know I got 0 sales this quarter instead of at least 30 like everyone else but I can’t control that… I made 200 calls and that was my goal.”

Then, imagine that salesperson with a box of all the shit on his desk stuffed into it as he takes an elevator ride down to the street because that is what would likely happen.

My main point is in order to WIN the game you are going to have to set goals for things which are considered outside your control. But, you still need to set the goal if you want to master this area of your life.

Set your Intention and Commitment to win the Game… measure it and be aware of your stats so you can improve each and every time you go out.

And, if you think you might be putting out a creepy vibe read this: “Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?”

Captain Jack

P.S. The Master Strategies Monthly series begins REAL soon… details below!

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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2. Force*21
3. JUST Be Yourself

Not that anybody cares or anything but I’m feeling a bit depressed.

Why? Look down below this paragraph and you’ll see a little feedburner thingie. It has a number inside it and that number is ridiculously small.

Now, I’m not exactly sure how all this shit works but that is supposedly the number of people on any one day who are subscribed to Captain Jack’s Grande Adventures (the insanely magnificent blog you are now feasting your eyes upon).

Pathetic, huh?

Do you know how many SINGLE people there are in the U.S.?

Well, in 2004, the most recent report I could find, there were 95.7 million. Of those, 95.7 million, 46% were male. (By the way, that means there are 9,570,704 MORE single women in the U.S. than men!)

So there are 44,022,000 single dudes. If we subtract the number above (which at the time of this writing is a measly 704) we’re left with…

44,021,296 Single Guys Who Are NOT Subscribed to My Blog.

Ridiculous.

This doesn’t even include all the guys in the UK, where my biggest fan on earth makes his home, Connor from Sex and The Ninja.

…or, Australians…

…or, the Germans…

…or, the Papua New Guineans…

etc, etc.

Anyway, my main point to all of this depressing math is: I think more single guys should be reading this amazing ridiculously useful shit I’m writing.

So, if you read my blog and you have NOT clicked that little button thingy please do so. (You DO want to cheer Dear Ol’ Captain Jack up, don’t you?)

Also… tell others about this blog. You could probably use the good karma.

Depressed in Dallas,

captain jack

P.S. Whenever I want to cheer myself up I hit up Sex and The Ninja to see if he’s mentioned my name lately. I believe it is TRULY the funniest blog I’ve ever read (besides mine). Here’s an excerpt from his latest post, “Just Like Rocky IV”:

I’m delighted with myself at this stage and just to make me feel even better the waitress wants to give us a new table and asks us which one we want, suggesting she will clear any other people! I think this is the best thing ever and strut over to a table of girls and simply demanded that they BE GONE ! So I’m shouting at these chicks

“GONE! All of you GONE !!!”

Then turning to the waitress

“I want these chicks out of here, NOW!”

And the fucking waitress is actually getting rid of them! I can’t believe it! This must be what its like to be rich and powerful. I like it!

These chicks are pissed and moaning but I am having none of it!

“Out of here paupers, I can SMELL the poverty off you”

P.P.S. Click on this thingy [ ] before you read his blog, though.

P.P.S. What’s that I hear? You don’t care to hear about all my psychological ups and downs… You only read this blog to learn how to get hotties to drop their soaking wet little panties, you say. Fine. I promise my NEXT post will have information so shocking you’ll probably nut immediately upon reading it. (Jerk.)

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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1. Leaving Sydney
2. Ninja Focus (and, a brief history of Captain Jack)
3. She Wore My Ass Out.

I’m sitting in the bookstore right now and the Cafe points directly to the
Sex, Relationships and Romance Novel section. There is an absolute STREAM of
women going over there. Those sections are NEVER empty.

Why?

Women are literally starving for the male-female sexual dynamic. Now, that’s
not the word they use for it.

They call it ‘Romance.’

But, most men cringe and think of Romance as flowers, expensive candlelight
dinners, chocolates and kissing her ass.

It’s not that at all! And, women know that. Have you ever READ a romance
novel? They are filled with sexual tension, secret sex liaisons, forbidden
pleasures… I made my way through half of one and I swear nearly every
character had sex with every other character by the midway point. I stopped
reading.. I got it.

Romance = male-female sexual tension.

Not that other shit we’ve been trained to think. Romance can occur anywhere.
A bookstore, a sidewalk, an expensive restaurant… wherever. It’s not the
environment, it’s the tension. If you make her feel feminine and sexy,
she’ll WANT to have sex with you.

And, there’s no better way to create that male-female sexual tension than
with Sexual Framing.

Mastering Sexual Framing will give you the absolute power to have sex pretty
much whenever you want it.

(It has NOTHING to do with dirty talk or being a creepy horny guy… It’s
MUCH MUCH MORE than Strawberry Fields or Rings on Fingers, too.)

Not only can you have a life filled with sex, you could easily use it to get
a girlfriend. Or, have a few girlfriends at a time. If you were really
perverted you could use it to create a Harem of chicks who basically act as
personal assistants. (That’s right, they’ll run your errands and shit and
ENJOY IT! Strange, I know but I’ve done it and so have countless others.)

And, you can have these types of relationships without lying or drama. See,
YOU set the rules by your frames. The problem is when you go around Gaming
you have no friggin’ clue what Frames you are setting.

Even worse, you have no idea of the Frames SHE is setting and you are
unwittingly AGREEING to…

Shit man, you could even use it to get married.. and, then, keep the
marriage alive and spicy for years to come.

Sexual Framing and understanding the female psychology of sex really
decomplicates things… Do you feel pick-up is hard or draining or
complicated or takes too much time?

Sexual Framing makes it easy.

While I’ve talked about it on my blog and a little in my eClass it is
something that requires a little more delving into. Framing is derived from
NLP and relies heavily on Presuppositions.

It’s just as much a mindset and understanding female psychology as it is a
framework of techniques. You need ALL 3 to really make it work.

Once you get it you will look so smooth people will watch you and
swear you’ve been good with women all your life.

No one understands it better than I do and I can TEACH you how to apply it
every day no matter where you are or what you’re doing.

Shit, you can even apply it to business. About a month ago, I got 6 experts
in the spiritual self-help field to hand me 4 detailed lessons for a new
membership program for FREE because I understood their values and framed it
so that if they DID NOT do it for me they’d be violating their values.
(That’s right… I CHARGE $49.00 per month for the lessons I got them to
give me for free. But, they will gain valuable exposure to several hundred
thousand people as a result.)

It’s pure mental Ninjitsu. You can discover it as well.

And, the women? Well, they will be so relieved, so glad, so HAPPY that
they’ve met a guy who REALLY GETS IT they will do pretty much anything you
want.

CJ

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

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3. Podcast: CJ on Frames!

Question: A 31 year old, Network Developer from Maryland asked:

Answer:

Ok, calibration is a useful skill because it allows you to baby-step. In every Pick-up you are trying to increase her Response Potential whie simultaneously avoiding Snap Back. If you pump her state too high she will hit a threshold where she tries to downregulate her BT. (Sounds like we’re working on a jet engine or something.)

Calibration will allow you to notice when these things are happening thereby adding it into your unconscious so in the future you can do the right thing without thinking about it.

Calibration can also help you know when you are DONE and you don’t need to actively Game anymore. You can just chill with her and wait for the right time to pull.

But, the question you really need to ask is: “What am I really in this for?” — If you just want a girlfriend or a little more active dating life then I’d forego Calibration drills because the dividends come after months and months of working at it.

If you want to become REAL good at pick-up then here are 6 Ways to Ninja Calibration:

1. You need a Game Plan. You can’t calibrate what you’re not measuring. A Game Plan (or Routine Stack) will provide more consistency to your Game so you can start noticing patterns. Calibration is DERIVED from noticing patterns and then noticing what happens LEADING up to that pattern.

Having a Game Plan also makes writing FR/LRs much easier. People think I have an amazing memory because I can write such detailed FR/LRs… The reason I can is because I run the same basic Stack over and over, so when I sit down to write all I have to do is ask myself “What did I open with?” — “What did she say?” — “What did I run next?” — so what I’m really remembering is what SHE said. The points in my stack act as RECALL triggers for my memory. (Another tactic is I usually write the FR/LR or at least some notes about it as soon as I get home when it is fresh on my mind.)

2. Use Sticking Point Analysis. If someone put a gun to my head and told me I could only write one last post to help guys with women I’d probably just create a link to Sticking Point Analysis.

3. Debrief the women you have success with. I usually only debrief girls I’ve just had sex with because female orgasms seem to be a truth serum of sorts (has something to do with Oxytocin). Standard debrief questions are:

• When did you first notice me?
• What did you think when I first came up?
• When did you first realize you wanted to kiss me?
• When did you decide you wanted to have sex with me?

Then I try to get them on the subject of guys hitting on them in general to see what their main complaints are…

4. Make an assumption, then verify. I used to do all sorts of fun things. I’d look at a male-female set and think, “hmm… wanna open but they’re probably together.” I caught myself and I’d say, “You don’t know that man, go in and see…” I’d roll in and chat and then ask, “How do you guys know each other?” to verify your assumption. I found out a LOT of the time that the dude was an Orbiter.

Another thing I’d do when I used to use Mystery Method was guess who would try to pull the Target away. It got to the point where I could not only guess but I could see it about a minute before hand.

A friend of mine got to see this uncanny ability of mine a few weekends ago on his way to pulling another SNL. I texted him that her friends were about to try to pull her away… not even a minute later they came over and made the pull away attempt. (Which failed because he had moved her, thus locking her in even tighter. See: Sinn’s 2 Bounce Rule.)

5. Could I let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than what I think it is? This question kicks ass. Remember, we are all trying to develop NEW ideas, beliefs, behaviors… even a new World View. Realize that your first assessment of the situation is GROUNDED in old data and interpretations that HAVE NOT served you! So, be willing to let them go and allow it to be something else.

Another similar tactic is to generate all of the possibilities and pick the most positive one.

6. Debrief other PUAs. When I help my friends out in Gaming the first question I ask when they come back from a set is “What happened?” I do this because I want to see if what I SAW from the outside MATCHES what they think happened. When I used to help Sinn with bootcamps I’d have aspiring PUAs leave a perfectly good set. I’d say, “What happened?” and they’d say, “She was being bitchy, she said she’s not really into skydiving so it fucked up my skydiving dhv story. Bitch.” Many a time I wanted to take them by their lapels and say, “DUDE! She doesn’t like skydiving! It was ON! Go back into that set now!”

Once you begin to see the mismatch between what they say is going on and the body language and dynamics of the set you’ll realize that you, too, are probably NOT seeing a lot of the positive things going on.

And, as always, if you have any other questions about this feel free to post them in the Comments section!

~ Captain Jack ~

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

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2. Sticking Point Analysis
3. Kiss Tests

Printer and I went down to Austin last weekend to see about a software project for his Dad’s Co. but at the last minute his Dad caught a cold or something so it was postponed and we were on standby throughout the weekend in case he felt better…

Austin, TX on a weekend… hmmm… what to do…

We go out and I use one of my favorite low investment openers. Never really thought about why it works but I’ve probably used it 30-40 times now in the past year. The only requirement is you can stack forward.

CJ: “How do you know my friend, Printer?” *** pointing towards the bar where he’s ordering me more liver-destroying liquids. ***

This can be said if they’ve never even seen the guy… or if he just casually said something as he walked by… or if he’s already in set.

HB: “Oh, we don’t.”

That seems like a dead-end opener, doesn’t it?

CJ: “Wow! I’m surprised… He seems to know everyone!”

Can you FEEL the sexual tension?

“No,” you say?

Neither can I. We’re not there yet, dude. But, watch this.

CJ: “Hmmm…. You pick interesting fingers to wear your rings on…”

And, we’re off!

But, that’s not how this one went down.

Instead of “Rings on Fingers” it went like this…

CJ: “Wow! I’m surprised… He seems to know everyone!”
HB: “Well, we’re from Dallas.”
CJ: “Really? So are we! Figures all the cool Dallas people would find each other.”

(Anyone want to comment about WHY the above statement is Ninja-esque?)

We do some more fluff talk for about 2-3 minutes. I tease her a little bit and get some kino in…

CJ: “You know, you’re kinda throwing me a little bit…”
HB: “What? What do you mean?”

The following is one of my FAVORITE pick-up routines… it almost NEVER fails to get the woman attracted hardcore… it is a bit of sexual framing as well.

CJ: “Well, you have a good girl face… but… (dramatic pause)… bad girl mannerisms.” *** I stress the BAD GIRL and look her up and down with lust. ***

She went from mildly curious and attracted to downright Porn Starlet in 1.3 seconds.

HB: “How do you know?”

Notice she’s NOT arguing. In fact, she’s asking me how I know it’s TRUE!

CJ: “You had better stop.”

I kept eye-fucking her, looking her up and down while having the most innocent conversation. I made it a point to stare at her lips, back to her eyes and to her tits several times while biting my lower lip.

And then, I said something close to this (can’t remember exact wording).

CJ: “It must be rough for you. All the guys think you’re all innocent and it keeps you from getting what you really, really want…” as I leaned in closer… and then lightly pushed her away.

After I pushed her away there was a good 10-12 inches between us. She closed the gap and pushed her whole body against me and gave me those “Kiss me now, pleeeeeaaaaaase!” eyes.

Naturally, I obliged.

From then on we were like Siamese Twins joined at the tongue.

Printer told me the next day when talking about the night at lunch that he stayed away because he was embarrassed. People were pointing.

I heard people talking and one girl said, “Oh-my-god!” as she walked by…

Whatever. A good girl needed to get some bad girl lovin’…

CJ: “Man, this sucks… the bar is closing.”
HB: “What do you want to do?”
CJ: “Um, we could go watch a movie at my hotel… It’s not far. But I have to be up early for a meeting.”
HB: “We hardly know each other.”
CJ: “I’m not going to make you do anything you don’t want to do…” – Tongue down again.

She handled the obstacles for me, one girl and one guy, when they tried to pull us apart by the cabs.

Got to the hotel and wrecked it.

~ Captain Jack ~

P.S. Not even Strawberry Fields! This is an example of “Less is More.” If I would’ve gone into my routine stack or done all my Heart Melters and shit she could’ve developed different feelings for me and tried to put off the SNL. You develop a sense of knowing when you’re done and all you need to do is chill out. I’ve gotten pretty good at that.

P.P.S. She has a boyfriend.

P.S #3: She texted that she wants to see me this week.

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I’m about to glaze her so I ask her where she wants it. She moans and says, “Inside me.” Then she says, “No, wait. I’m not on the pill.” I say, “I already got 2 kids” and thrust a few times to try to pull out to finish on her beautiful breasts. Right as I’m about to nut she says, “cum inside me!” and clinches her legs to keep me in. I pull out and almost immediately go limp.

Fuck!

We mess around again and I go back in. I’m about 10 thrusts away when Sinn and his HB come out to smoke on the patio.

Damn!

We start again and in the middle she says, “Let’s go to your place. I want you to fuck me all night and all day!”

I go, “Cool.”

We start getting dressed and we run out of the apt. giggling like two teenagers who just toilet papered the neighborhood grumpy old man’s house.

We get down to the parking garage and I’m looking for my car.

Then, I start laughing because I forgot Sinn picked me up that night. She wasn’t so amused.

—————————
The Pick-Up – Friday Night
—————————

Sinn’s on fire and he’s all over the place. I’m chilling, practicing my Zen nature and seeing how far I can take this non-approaching system.

I’ve been opened a couple times. One was by a tall latin girl who I thought was at least a solid 8. (Sinn didn’t like her at all.) She was also very cool, elegant and down to earth.

I had just ordered a Shiner Bock draft and it didn’t taste right at all so I got the bartender’s attention to get a different kind of bear.

HBTallLatina: “Are you being difficult?”
CJ: “Yes, I’m very picky.”

We made a LOT of what is usually called “fluff” talk. She was into it. I think the idea that I wasn’t pursuing at all made her start pursuing me. A couple of times when she’d talk she’d lean into me and put her cheek on mine.

I seem to remember that this is significant…something in my brain senses a slight remembrance to…oh fucking yeah…not even a week before I wrote a post on Kiss Tests in which I, like a GrandMaster Sex Escalation Wizard said,

What I do now…
Now that I use sexual framing it is actually advantageous for me NOT to kiss her until the car ride home. It builds anticipation and sexual tension to talk dirty, fill her mind with dirtiness and let it build. I WILL tease by getting real close to her like I’m about to kiss her and then not do it. I’ll also talk in her ear a lot for the closeness and heat in her ear.

Which brings me to another point. If you are talking in her ear and she presses her cheek to yours, she wants to be kissed.

In any case, I lost this one and after mentally reviewing I thought it was because I missed the sexual escalation window so she had to figure that either I wasn’t really interested or I didn’t know what I was doing.

I took another shot at her later but when I switched from being Zen to pursuing it wasn’t there.

Damnit.

I post up at the middle bar and almost immediately there’s a really hot girl with a shirt that is about 1/4 of an inch from revealing her nipples staring at me. She is being extremely blatant about it…

…and there’s a hot girl in these gray tight cottony pants who keeps rubbing her ass on my hand and looking back. She does this no less than 10 times.

I look over and say, “If we’re going to be this intimate we should at least get to know each other.” She giggles and waits for a second for me to say something else. I don’t so she turns back around.

I stay there enjoying the music for awhile. She’s still staring and I keep saying mentally, “If you want it you need to come and get it.”

Another girl walks by and says something to me briefly and when I don’t keep the convo going she stays about two feet off to my left with her friend. They keep looking over.

At about closing time HBFreakazoid comes over right next to me and says, “I’m HBFreakazoid” but I wasn’t looking at her so I didn’t know if she was saying it to me or someone else. I decide it was for me as she was staring at me all night. I say something like “How’s it going…”

We small talk for a bit and I invite her to go eat with us. She says ok but she has to close her tab first. She is EXTREMELY drunk, though, and her friend is obviously driving. So when I come back around and tell her to follow us south, she says they are going north.

I already have her number so I pat her on the head and Sinn and I roll out.

She calls me on the way home but she is making NO SENSE. It was so funny I put her on speaker so Sinn can hear.

The next morning she sends me two texts. I text back and she calls. We chat briefly and I tell her I’ll be heading out tonight but I’m not sure where. She says she wants to hang out and I tell her to give me a call later to see where I am.

I’m still not pursuing and everything is framed that she has to do the work.

———-
The Close
———-

The girl texted me earlier and I told her where I’d be but don’t hear anything back.

Saturday night we end up at the same bar. Her friend recognizes me and starts chatting and then says, “HBFreakazoid is here! Wait right here!”

When the friend comes back Sinn starts seeding the pull. There was a cute enough Mexican girl who was burning holes in me with her eyes. I finally hold out my hand and she comes over. We talk a bit before she heads back to her friends.

A little later we start talking again and I number close her in the parking lot right before HBFreakazoid comes out. We’ve been texting back and forth so I’m going to get her on a Time Constrained Day2 this week.

By the time we get to her friend’s car we’re making out. I finger her in the backseat.

Get back to Sinn’s pad and we both close no LMR.

~ Captain Jack ~

P.S. You can read Sinn’s version here.

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Sexual framing works just as well (maybe even better) on the first date. I gamed this girl a few weeks ago for about 20 minutes. I remember using the Nose Ring Low Investment Opener, then teasing her quite a bit, using the “Jealous Ex Deleted Numbers” to seed the Hookah TimeBridge, doing Strawberry fields and then number closing with Hookah TB. The venue was closing so I wrapped up. Sinn had pulled a hot little brunnette with a LIO he made up on the spot which he’s used successfully many times now. (Not sure he wants to share it but it involves a yellow brick road.)

In keeping with The Drunk and Lonely Principle, I texted her around 2:30am and she said she was going home and had to get up early in the morning. I tried to get her out but no go.

Time passed. I forgot what she looked like but remembered that I liked her booty.
I texted her and set up the Day2. She arrives and El Topo and his Cambodian Refugee are sitting with me. They chill for a few minutes and then Bounce.

I ask her what she remembers about the first night so I know what I’ve covered with her.

She remembers Strawberry Fields but not much else. She said she didn’t remember what I looked like but remembered I was “hot.”

I started Sexual Framing with the assumption that the thing she most wants in the world is great sex with me.

I told her that the thing that attracted me to her was her obvious sexuality and sensuality and her beautiful booty because I’m a booty man (not really, but I go through phases, each phase lasting a few months until I switch favored body parts…)

I switch to High Status DHVs by telling her I travel a lot, work only 4 hours a day and 2 hours of that is telling my employees what to do.

She tells me what she does for a living (insurance) and I IOI her that she seems intelligent.

Flip back to sexual framing. I tell her that i appreciate a woman who isn’t afraid to express her sexuality, that I think it’s bad to hold desire inside.

This is an additional frame I came up with when Sinn and I were in the hotel room discussing sexual framing. He had about 15 pages of notes and a well-designed Game Plan that incorporates all of our new stuff…I noticed that AFTER you set the “I’m not judgmental frame” an extremely effective follow-up frame is “I APPRECIATE and VALUE your sexuality and sexual freakiness.”

I kiss her.

She adds to the interaction with her own framing and a reward for me kissing her, she said, “Guys these days are such pussies! They’re scared to talk to girls, they’re scared to make the first move, it’s so annoying.” (TRANSLATION: Be dominant because I like it.)

The conversation turns even more sexual. She switches chairs because “Everyone coming in can see my crack.” I tell her we could make money. Twenty dollars per crack view and I get ten. Then I make her stand up so I can look at her ass. She LOVES this. I’m taking a physical feature she probably often feels self-conscious about and showing her I value it. (If you want to get an idea of her ass just go to assparade.com )

I move her outside to the patio because the rain has stopped and they’ve taken the plastic covers off the couches. I sit her down on the couch and make out with her.

She talks dirty to me and I tell her if she doesn’t stop I’m going to put her on the table and fuck her in front of anyone.

Make out again. I pull her hair and she goes crazy and almost straddles me.

Sinn texts me where they’re at and I decide it’s time to take my first shot at f-closing. I tell her we’re going to meet my friends but I have to stop by the hotel firs to use the restroom and get my gum.

As we walk to my room I stop the sexual talk and bs about random subjects like the pool and where we ate today, blah, blah.

We get in the room and she goes to the restroom. As soon as she comes out I grab her throat shove her against the wall, and start making out.

Her clothes start flying off. Both nipples pierced. While I go to work on those she undoes my pants and then gets on her knees gives me a great BJ. I stop her, flip her around and take her from behind. Her booty was unreal! Her clit was pierced, too.

She tells me to let her know when I get close because she wants me to stick it in her ass and finish in her ass!!! This accelerates my orgasm and I instead pull out and start jerking it to completion. She puts it in her mouth and sucks me dry but it’s too intense so I push her back. Wow!

It’s about 11ish and I’m thinking I can still go game but she won’t get the hint that it is time to leave so she comes with.

The Printer has us on the list using his mad negotiation skills so we bypass the line and Sinn is in set with a cute blonde.

She’s grinding on me and kissing me and I’m trying to decide if I should take her back to the hotel and do more dirty things to her when the urge to game takes over.

Printer is in set with a hot little brunette girl and is parading her around.

I ask El Topo to occupy her and then Sinn and I leave the Venue. El Topo told me she was looking around for me all night haaa. She texts me and I tell her we had drama and had to go rescue a friend. She wants to see me again but, of course, that’s probably not gonna happen because I’ll be out trying to get some Fresh.

~ CJ ~

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It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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Sinn and I hit the venue. It’s friggin’ dead the whole night until about midnight.

I spy a tall brunette (5’ 8” but with heals almost 6’) with a nose ring so I open with the Nose Ring LIO. She smiles immediately and answers yes and starts to tell me about all her other piercings. I finish the back story and she asks me why I was in NYC.

This allows me to get my cosmo routine in but it so damn loud in that place I’m not sure if it hit. We turn back around and I pull her to a stool and get locked in.

Now I can tell she’s really into me so I continue with my “ambition” campaign and then roll into Strawberry Fields.

She’s with 3 dudes who I don’t bother to befriend because a) They look like they’re in the mafia and I don’t wanna get whacked b) she was so into me it was no longer necessary.

I get distracted for a second (can’t remember why) and back turn her. She backturns me and starts talking to the Mafia again.

I pull her shoulder and then go straight for the number close.

We text back and forth for a few days and then she comes up to meet me, Juice (aka Dr. Dave) and Sinn at a different bar after ending her shift at Wing House. But, she won’t come into the bar and she won’t say why. Finally, it dawns on me. She’s not yet 21.

CJ: “aaaaaah, you’re not over 21 are you?”
HBCan’tTakeIt: “well, almost….”
CJ: “How old?”
HBCan’tTakeIt: “20”
CJ: “oh – my – God. You’re just a Baaaaaaby!”
HBCan’tTakeIt: “Stop! I’m not like most 20 year olds…”

Haaaa…

We chat for about 20 minutes in the parking lot before she leaves. (I thought she was 19 but I was getting her confused with a super hot 19 year old cocktail waittress that I gamed and number closed earlier that night.)

Day2: Out with Juice, Sinn, El Topo.

That bitch Sinn pulled (again) and we were all eating at this cool little after hours place that Juice knows about while hating Sinn.

HBCan’tTakeIt and I had been texting back and forth all day and she said she wants to hang out after I’m done. I convince her to come eat with us and she does.

She rolls in sits with us. El Topo and Juice were having some cool conversation about history that I wanted to jump in on but I started the process of warming her up instead.

We get to the Pirate Pad and she brings in a bottle of Grey Goose. I pour myself a thimble shot into my glass of juice and hook her up Twitchy-Style with her drink (by Twitchy-Style I mean about 2 ounces of Juice and filled to the brim with Vodka).

We start making out and I get LMR. Her ass is so fucking beautiful I literally want to take a picture of it for those lonely nights. I could just curl up with the picture. Get some of the finest lotion around. Have the towel or sock already to go and then practice self-love. But, alas, she tells me she’s too shy and she’s a “good girl.”

CJ: “I want you to be a good girl with everyone else and be a really, really bad girl for me.”

Doesn’t work.

My boner is so hard I could use it to bust rocks. I’m grinding hardcore and then I stop…

…wait, a second…

We already have solution for situations like this. Sinn told me he’s given up on LMR and instead he just jerks off on the girls.

So, that’s what I did. But I didn’t expect her reaction. She LOVED it. She went nuts and started rubbing herself and pinching her nipples.

I filled her hot little pierced belly button (with those fucking sweet abs) with my Man Jam.

We fell asleep and she took me back to my car the next day.

Day 3:

She arrives at my place at about 1:00 am. She tried to flake earlier but I got real stern on the phone.

CJ: “What? I didn’t go out tonight because you said you were coming over. Get out of bed and get your ass over here! And bring a bathing suit.”

She paused for about 5-10 seconds and I’m thinking shit, she’s either going to cry, hang up or say something snotty.

Instead,

HB: “God, that was so hot.”
She arrives and we hit the hot tub. Earlier I got a text from Sinn “sex in hot tub check.” I’m thinking that sounds like a good idea.

But, no go.

Instead we have a frame battle. She’s trying to get into gf/dating frame and I’m telling her I’m bad news, that I’m only good for sex.

I also start my “don’t like jealous/clingy girls” framing (which I should’ve started on the Day2).

I also do quick, intense make-outs and then push her away. This drives her crazy until she attacks me in the hot tub.

We get out of the hot tub and go back inside. I’m hungry so we hit Whataburger. While I’m eating I say, “Do you want some?”

She says, “Oh yes.”
CJ: “Ok, here’s some fries.”
HBCantTakeIt: “I wasn’t talking about the food.”

She suddenly starts making out again but I’ve only chewed the last chicken strip about ½ way. Clumps of partially chewed chicken end up in her gum. Haa. Romantic. Sexy.

She plays Scarface Game on the Playstation for awhile.

I throw on X-men 3.

I ignore X-men and start working on her. More LMR. But, my framing has taken hold.

HBCan’tTakeIt: “You want me to be bad for you?”
CJ: “Yes, bad girls are fucking sexy.”

Then, its just a matter of breaking through her remaining LMR through 2 minor freeze-outs.

I go down on her but she won’t let me take off her panties. No problem. I pretend like they’re not there.

Panties soon come off.

And, the rest is history.

She said that’s the first time she’s had sex in a year. She’s called “HBCan’tTakeItAnyMore” because while I was fucking her like Peter North from behind she was screaming “I – just – can’t – take – it – any – more” in cadence with my strokes.

~ Captain Jack ~

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Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

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I’ve been using this Low Investment Opener I designed on the fly for awhile now that has proven extremely effective. In fact, it has never NOT opened. I usually go direct on the target.

CJ: “Hey, is that nose ring real?”
HB: blah, blah
CJ: “Oh man, I was in NYC a few weeks ago at a club and I was talking to a girl and I made her laugh. Her nose ring fell off and it started rolling around on the floor. She said, “Omigod, help me find it…” I was like “umm, I hardly even know you…” Now, I have one less fan in New York.”

Stack Forward.

You can talk about other piercings, about tattoos, etc, etc. Or, just qualify. “Who are you?”…”and you’re special because?”

Simple, quick and easy.

~ Captain Jack ~

P.P.S. Feel free to copy and past to other lair boards, blogs, forums, etc. just please include a link back to my blog. Thanks.

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Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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