Step 1: Find hot girl.

Step 2: Look hot girl up and down.

Step 3: Imagine her smiling and introducing herself to you.

Step 4: Ask yourself, “If she liked me, how would she want me to approach her?”

Step 5: Smile and do it.

Captain Jack

P.S. Do it and let me know how it goes in the comments!

P.P.S. Master Strategies Monthly guys, can you see how this technique was derived from the material in the audios? Can you see why it works?

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

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2. How to Get Back at Your Ex
3. How to Meet, Attract and Seduce Women Using Game Dynamics

I know I’ve mentioned this before BUT it is so effective in getting communication lines back open that I think it deserves it’s own post…

AND… I want you to try it out and post results in the comments, much like we did with the “starting to forget what you look like” text I told you guys about a while back.

It’s real simple.

You can use this on old blurred numbers or even girls you are still texting with but not getting anywhere.

Text: “I met your twin last night.”

If she says, “where? what did she look like?” (The most common responses) I usually text back something like:

“Short, chubby, red hair with freckles and a bowl cut… great personality.”

Then, you can use the killer, “We should hang out soon, I’m starting to forget what you look like” and if she gives a positive response, set up a meet.

Do it and let us know what happens in the comments!

Captain Jack

P.S. Early Sunday afternoons are the BEST time to text because the women are irritated about Fri/Sat night not working out for them.

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Text Message: I’m starting to forget what you look like…
2. JimSmith: Stripper Routines
3. Approaching Women Direct With The Game Dynamics

Anyway, I had a meeting from 7:00-10:00 and met Printer at the standard Thurs. night venue. I think that was the first time I’ve been there since last November.

Surprisingly, I didn’t recognize many people. There’s been a pretty good amount of turnover, which is good.

Printer does his thing of handing me double shots all night long, primarily because I do funny and stupid shit when I’m drunk. Case in point: We were in Scottsdale Az and about 20 minutes to close I walk over and start talking to a cute girl. She was interested and then abruptly left.

Printer said she looked real interested and asked me what happened. She abruptly left after I said, “Girl, gimme a sample of what you’re samplin’”

I guess she thought it was crude or something. I simply meant I wanted to bone her. (Girls are so complicated.)

I don’t do shit for the first 2 hours there except bullshit with Printer and one of his friends. Printer leaves with an FB and I feel like a tool just standing around so I start throwing out LIOs and even using Situationals to practice gauging initial interest and then picking up from where we are in agreement (of sexual interest) and moving from there forwards. (You can actually erase it by keeping your communication at a lesser level of male-female sexual dynamic… then it is a bit harder to get back because there is already an established pathway between you two to move downwards on the sexual dynamic.)

It is actually kind of fun to do this… I think in large part because the level of significance I’m placing on the interaction is much less.

I situationally open a blonde milf. She is wearing those kind of shirts that are elastic waist band on the top that sort of rest on top of the breast. The thin shirt material then drapes over the breats and tightens again at the waist. She isn’t wearing a bra and her breasts are big and bouyant. Her nips are hard.

(GIGANTOR begins to stir a bit.)

However, this is where Printer’s “get CJ drunk so he is amusing” kicks in full force as you will see.

CJ: Patron shots? You are bad, bad, bad.

MILF: I know, my last one, I’m driving.

CJ: Does she know that guy? (I’m referring to a guy in the set who is creepily all over her hot friend.)

MILF: They’re married. What’s your name?

CJ: Omigod, you have a little country accent!

MILF: Really? I’ve never been told that… I went to a catholic school and we were taught proper english.

CJ: Catholic girl! Really? You should leave right now… All the catholic girls I’ve known have been into bondage… tied up, handcuffs

MILF: What?

*** cue dumb drunkeness ***

CJ: Handcuffs, handcuffs, handcuffs. You like to be handcuffed. You know, handcuffs! (It was real loud so I thought she couldn’t hear me, thus the repetition! Oh yeah, the alcohol probably had a little to do with it, too).

MILF looks at me weird.

I manage to partially recover. A few minutes later her friend gets her attention and they walk away. She doesn’t look back.

Damnit.

Two girls stroll by. I forgot what I opened them with but they are both attentive from the get-go. The slightly cuter one gets asked to dance by some guy.

I remember telling her she was tiny. She responds well and I use that to get her giggly. I ask her things like, “When you go to a restaurant do you get a booster seat or climb up into a big people chair?”

She is giggling hardcore so I tell her I like girls who laugh at my jokes.

She says no one has ever said stuff like that to her before.

Strawberry fields.

She number closes me as we are being kicked out of the bar.

HB: Sooo… are you going to call me?

CJ: We’re here together right now. Drive me to my car.

She drives me over and we make out for quite a bit.

The cops actually shine flashlights on us through the window and tell us to leave.

CJ: “That sucks, I’m still having fun. Come to my place. I don’t have alcohol but I have water, Coke Zero or tea.”

She follows me. I put on “knocked up” dvd and escalate on the couch.

Seems too easy, doesn’t it? It is that easy sometimes. Knowing where she is at in the interaction is one of the things that separates the advanced PUA from the intermediate. The Intermediate would’ve set the Timebridge and then pushed too hard or too soft to get a bounce. He would’ve wasted time and put sexual vibe in jeopardy by withdrawing sexual intention while running comfort.

The problem with most people’s calibration skills is that they are calibrating to the wrong thing. You don’t calibrate to attraction or whether or not she likes you or whether or not she is paying attention. You calibrate to whether or not she becomes more engaged when you are sending sexual communication.

If you are aware of where she is then it becomes easy to just gently lead, baby-steps along a gradual incline.

Captain Jack

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Force*21
2. Lay Report: Good Girl Face
3. Lay Report: Ass Parade

Your best lines fall flat.

Time Bridges get declined.

Phone numbers blur…

and, before you know it you’ve gone weeks without making the “Beast with Two Backs.”

You begin to sweat a little. “Shit, was the run just a bit of luck? Have I lost ‘IT’?”

No worries, man. Even top pro athletes go through slumps. Here’s what I’ve done in the past to bust myself out of pick-up slumps:

1. Take a bit of time off.

You may have depleted your mental and physical energy, especially if you’re doing the extremely hard club/bar scene. Irregular sleep patterns. Too many patron shots. Taking the girl to IHOP and stuffing yourself full of bacon, eggs and pancakes… and, then getting an hour of LMR. Get some sleep. Go outside during the day and rediscover what things look like when illuminated by the Sun.

2. Redo your stack.

I remember Sinn and I both being in a slump about the same time once. We instinctively began examining our status quo stacks and started dumping certain items and replacing them with other things that had worked in the past. After about an hour we both had fresh stacks, got a little rest, and went on a 5-day run of glory.

3. Kill a Sacred Cow.

You know that principle or idea of Gaming that you think is ‘The Truth.” ??? Kill it. Whatever it is, and do something else, maybe even the complete opposite. If your Sacred Cow is “Indirect” stop it for awhile and go Direct. If your Sacred Cow is I’ve got to be a bad boy, mix it up and dress like a good boy for a few nights. Mix it up. Kill the Sacred Cow, at least for a few days to see what happens. (I do this ‘Kill a Sacred Cow’ technique quite often.)

4. Have Someone You Trust (Who Actually Gets Laid) Give You Some Feedback.

The key in that phrase is ‘Who Actually Gets Laid.’ They might be able to spot something or simply ask you questions about what is going on that could jar you into something new/novel to try. Of course, if you don’t have someone in your life like that, you might resort to a tape recorder. (Come to think of it, you could do that anyway).

5. Use Sticking Point Analysis.

If you’ve read this blog for any amount of time you’re probably tired of hearing about it but it’s simplicity and effectiveness is proven. If you’re new here hit the “Youtube” button on the right hand side of the screen.

6. Go Freestyle.

Go out with No Agenda, No Stack and No Pressure. Just hang out. Talk to friends if they’re there. Talk to people if you want but be totally ok with just being there. If you get the sudden urge to Game do it, if not then chill. If you DO Game then don’t use your normal routine stack… just chat, get as far as you can with playful small talk and genuine interest.

7. Put Your Back Against the Wall

Anytime I’m working on SNL Game and I hit a slump the FIRST thing I do is delete all my female numbers. All of them, including FBs… no one is spared. NO ONE. Man, come to think of it I do this even when I’m not in a slump. This frees you up a bit. You can’t fall back on texting girls and trying to set up dates… you can’t booty text… it’s either get some new opportunities in a hurry or start stocking up on the vitamin E lotion.

Realize slumps don’t last forever. Try a few of these slump busters and you’ll get back in the groove.

If you have a favorite method for getting out of a slump let me and all the other PUAs know in the comments.

The REAL Captain Jack

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Force*21
2. Creation of Pick-up Ability Part 2
3. Same Night Lay the FORCE21 Way…

What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?

Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.

“When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” – Thomas Monson

Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.

1. How many sets did I open? (If it’s less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)

2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?

3. When something didn’t go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?

4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didn’t serve me?

5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?

6. Of the TimeBridge’s I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?

7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?

8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?

9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?

10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?

11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?

12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?

13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?

14. Did I attempt a kiss close?

15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?

16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?

17. Did I “drunk-n-lonely” text about 10 minutes after close?

What is measured improves.

Captain Jack

P.S. I’m starting the “Master Strategies Monthly Teleseminar” soon… details below.

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I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Force*21
2. Attract Women: Gun to the Head Gaming
3. Creation of Pick-up Ability Part 2

Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.

You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.

Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”

One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”

Gun to the head. Shot in the face.

Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?

Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?

Not unless you enjoy face shootings.

What WOULD you do differently?

Here’s what I’d do…

1. Dress like almost everyone else  but a tad better.

2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.

3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”

4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.

5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.

6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.

7. Set the sexual frames early.

8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”

This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.

Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,

Buddy: “What’s going on man?”

You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”

Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”

You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”

But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”

Do you think that’d change things a bit?

Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.

Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”

Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.

The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.

9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.

10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.

11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.

12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)

12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.

13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.

14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”

15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.

16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.

17. Begin escalating heavy.

18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.

19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.

20. Make sweet love.

Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.

Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.

Captain Jack

P.S. I thought about using the Grenade Launcher instead of the Flame Thrower. But, I felt like Grenade Launcher was a little too obvious. I feel Flame Thrower gives that extra little bit of twist.

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Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

Related posts:

1. Gun to the Head: Charred Remains Checklist
2. Force*21
3. Lay Report: Seducing Two Women Back to Back SNLs and a 3some?

It’s closing time so Sinn and I roll out. I send my standard text to HBs who I’ve timebridged. “Hi sexy lady, where you at?”

This is my “Drunk and Lonely Theory.” Here’s the theory:

Point 1. Women go out to get laid.
Point 2. 99.9% of guys’ game sucks.
Point 3. A female CANNOT have sex with a guy she is not attracted to. Due to Point 2 she is sexually frustrated.
Point 4. At 2:30 am the girl is at home, sexually frustrated, drunk and lonely.

This is the best time to send a text.

So one of my friends is in town from London and we’ve just finished a night of Gaming. We’re at the local Steak-n-Shake and I’m going over a few technical points with him… His body language is perfect. He spins the girl. He locks in. He can stay in set pretty much as long as he wants to. He’s already got pretty good game but I notice a few things that will help him skyrocket in the next few months and I’m giving him the breakdown.

After that I begin my usual thread about how females are sexual beings. That they want sex and they are extremely frustrated. Then, I tell him about Drunk-n-Lonely Texting…

He ran a pretty good two-set and he TimeBridged her. Her friend was really hot, too, but I don’t wing so he’s forced to handle them all by their lonesome.

I have him text her and this is how it went down (I had him email me the text message exchange):

IrishPUA : Hey Sexy (notice the complexity of this text message I had him send!!! haaa)

Hotel Girl : Hey!!

IrishPUA: Where you at?

Hotel Girl : Plano

IrishPUA :

Hotel Girl : Why the sad Face?

IrishPUA : I’m not really tired, we should hang out

Hotel Girl : I’m in Plano @ a hotel

IrishPUA : Come see me

Hotel Girl : Come see me!!

IrishPUA : What hotel?

Hotel Girl : X inn I-XX and X-Street

IrishPUA : Ok sexy what room number?

Hotel Girl : 214 you coming

IrishPUA : My friend is dropping me off, be there in 20

Hotel Girl : K

Hotel Girl : Where you at?

Now, this is NOT a rare occurence. I do this quite often. Remember, they went out for SOMETHING and they didn’t get it! But, out of the blue, comes a man… A man with balls… A man who LIKES them and wants to make them feel good!

By going to bang her you are making the world a better place! She will feel less frustrated, more feminine and satisfied. This means she’ll be nicer to everyone around her the next day. All of those people will be happier that a girl was nicer to them than usual… Puppies and babies will be happy.

It’s a giant ripple effect!

Back to our story… She calls as we are nearing the exit. He tells me it sounded like someone else was in there.

Hmmm…

I have to make a decision. Do I have him go it alone for experience’s sake? Or, do I roll in so I can occupy the friend to give him more chances to escalate.

We debate a bit and then I decide to throw it back to the girls. I have him text her something like, “Do you want my friend to come in too?”

She says, “Sure.”

We go in. The obstacle is hotter than I remember. This is a good thing. She has nice blue eyes, is skinny with big tits and that long wavy type hair I dig.

My friend immediately lays down on his Target’s bed. I sit towards the edge of the obstacle’s bed and we begin chatting.

To make a long story short I elicit her values, run the cosmo pattern and two other standard pieces. I do a few kino tests and she is responsive.

At one point she says she’s going to sleep and turns and lays on her pillow facing me. I touch her hand and she looks at me with a submissive look (don’t know how else to describe it). I grab her hand and she interlocks her fingers with mine. I whisper, “Come closer.” she inches forward a bit on her pillow and I kiss her.

From there I did a lot of whispering in between kissing, saying things like:

“This will be our secret.”

“Don’t worry they have no idea what’s happening over here.”

“They’re making out, too. So, this is ok.”

She kept saying stuff like, “We have to be good. I have a date tomorrow night.”

I’d respond, “Since nobody else knows about this, it technically never happend.”

I put my hand down the back of her sweats and wrap all the way around her tiny ass and touch her pussy. Super wet. I begin fingering it and she’s breathing heavy.

After a minute of that I put her hand on my cock and say, “Look what you’ve done to me.” She starts rubbing it and slowly moving her hips.

She turns around puts her ass on it. I pull down her sweats slowly. She wiggles her hips and I push it in.

At one point I was slowly fucking her from behind and she was trying to pretend like nothing was happening and still trying to talk to her friend in the other bed. Haa.

She said, “We shouldn’t be doing this, but I’m going to cum…” and that made me get close to coming and then I realized I didn’t have a condom on!!!

I put one on and re-entered.

But, with the other girl interrupting I never really got to tear it up. Oh well, another time.

My friend got LMR. In hindsight I realized that she wanted to know if WE were fucking because if we were then she would’ve given in. I believe this because several times my friend’s Target tried to use code phrases and shit to ask her friend if we were or had fucked but my girl missed them and so did I.

Then again on Sat. night I used Drunk-n-Lonely texting to pull a tall, hot, innocent looking girl. I was pooped from thurs and friday but got bored sat. night around midnight so I headed to a local venue.

I opened my second set (first set was a no-go) at 1:40a.m. and talked with her till closing. I opened her by saying,

CJ: “Hi, I noticed you from over there and I wanted to come meet you but you had all these guys all over you.”

TallHottie: “I know. It’s not usually like that.”

I felt like I wanted to tell her why but refrained because it wouldn’t have led anywhere. But, I’ll tell you guys. She was with one of her friends who was all over a guy she’s been seeing for about a month. With her friend so occupied she looked bored so she might as well have been a single AND she was at the end of the bar giving guys the perfect opportunity to open her from her right side without having to engage the guy-girl seated on her left.

From there I made some small talk and then stacked strawberry fields with rings-on-fingers. She got EXTREMELY curious/intrigued when I talked about the Non-Judgmental finger. But, when I interlaced the “sexually aggressive” finger with the amount of strawberries she ate she said,

TallHottie: “Well, I’m a good girl. I go to church.”

Haa.

I ignored that statement. Tell her she’s cool AND extremely sexy and Hookah TimeBridge.

Cosmo pattern and the lights come on. But, she is entranced and stands there for a second just staring at me.

Her friend nudges her and they all smile and walk off.

Good thing I got her number…

Text message, 2:05 am.

CJ: “Hey sexy, it’s semi-handsome CJ. Where u at?”

TallHottie: “In my car, where r u?”

CJ: “In my car too. Come see me.”

TallHottie: “Where?”

CJ: “Best Buy parking lot.”

About that time I get a text message from the girl I closed thursday night: “Come see me!!!” — Damnit. I want to bang her again because she’s fucking hot and I feel like I have unfinished business since I didn’t get to let loose on her big tittied skinny ass.

But, in the battle between Already Banged Vagina and New Vagina, New Vagina always wins.

The Tallhottie rolls up next to me and smiles. I get out of the PirateMobile and hop in her car. I say, “Gosh, I wish I would’ve met you earlier.”

We small talk for another 5 minutes and then I say, “I don’t think I’m going to sleep for a few hours. I’m not tired at all. Do you like Wedding Crashers or Old School?”

TallHottie: “Yes, I like both of them but I have only seen parts of Old School.”

CJ: “Cool, let’s go watch them at my place.”

She says “Ok” and just like that we’re off.

Unfortunately, she gives me LMR so no close BUT hopefully this gives you an idea of Drunk-n-Lonely and prompts you to begin trying it. Get the TimeBridge in every set possible and around 15-20 minutes after closing simply text, “Hey sexy” and see what happens.

After several years of doing this I’m STILL amazed it’s this easy. Try it, you’ll like it.

Captain Jack

Force21 -

Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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But, I think much of it is extremely inaccurate.

LSE or Low Self-Esteem is one such word. It SEEMS to describe a personality trait (or function/behavior) but it is really not descriptive.

I’ve been telling friends/puas/students for awhile now to NOTICE how MOST of the people at bars are LSE. In EVERY instance I’ve shared it they have come back to me saying something like this, “Holy shit man! How the fuck did I miss that?”

The reason lies in the concept and the vocabulary. It has NOTHING to do with esteem.

Here’s the dictionary def:

–noun
1. a realistic respect for or favorable impression of oneself; self-respect.
2. an inordinately or exaggeratedly favorable impression of oneself.

WTF does that mean? Sure we can think we know what it means but it is so ultimately non-descriptive that when you try to dig deeper into solutions you quickly discover how meaningless it is.

There is, however, an often used phrase in The Community that is more functional and more descriptive than LSE. In fact, if I had it my way I’d say let’s strike LSE out of the Canon and just use Approval Seeking or Seeking Approval.

That’s right on the fucking money.

Everybody is Seeking Approval. And, when do you feel more approved of than when a member of the opposite sex wants to have sex with you?

Letting the girl KNOW you APPROVE OF her as a female and APPROVE OF her as a sexual being is the end-all of Sexual Framing.

Here’s the kicker.

Think about a time when you did something you felt proud of yourself about… something you really gave yourself a nice big pat on the back about. Maybe you felt great when graduated college… Got a promotion at work… Got a girl you thought was out of your league…

Now, ask yourself where did those feelings come from (literally)?

Inside you.

If you weren’t feeling them one second and you were the next second, where did they REALLY come from?

You.

So, who gave you the Approval?

You did.

If you gave yourself the Approval, who was holding the Approval away?

You were.

We’ve been conditioned by Society to get approval OUTSIDE. Of course. How else could you Mass Control everyone?

If everyone gave themselves approval they would give everyone else approval, too. This would SEVERELY reduce all other problems. People who approve of themselves DO NOT do destructive things.

(The mind, being linear, treats other people like you treat yourself and vice versa.)

On the other side, can you see that you’ve been giving yourself disapproval? And, because you’ve been disapproving of yourself it has caused an intense craving for approval inside you?

And, knowing yourself intimately, could you see how someone else (a complete stranger) would be hesitant to give you approval IF your behavior, speech, mannerisms and body language gave them the intuitive impression-feeling that you disapproved of yourself?

Could you decide (right now, as best you can) to stop disapproving of yourself?

Then, could you decide (right now, as best you can) to give yourself approval?

Could you DECIDE to do it for no reason?

Don’t do it for anyone else. Do it for yourself. Decide now to approve of yourself.

This constant seeking of happiness OUTSIDE of you is what Buddha was talking about when he said things like, “Attachment to Desire (craving) is the root of all suffering.”

Going even deeper, Buddha’s “Twelve Links of Causation” start off with Ignorance.

Ignorance of what? Ignorance that you are a complete, infinite Being already. (Even if you don’t feel like one, act like one or think like one… what separates you from knowing it is FEELINGS and THOUGHTS… relinquish those and you’re done.)

Giving yourself Approval is a NATIVE ability and it’s only a decision. Everyone can do it.

When you get your own approval back, you can approve of others fully BECAUSE of who they are, not IN SPITE of who they are.

Then, people will gravitate towards you magnetically because they sense intuitively that you ARE closer to your innate being and everyone is trying to get BACK to that state.

But, it all starts with YOU.

If you can feel Superior to someone you can feel Inferior to someone. Both are Ego functions, and they can’t exist separately.

Remember in my post LR: Juggs how I THOUGHT the girl was being bitchy? And, remember how I made the decision to quit being so smart and allow it to be other than what I thought it was…

…and it turned out to be very different?

Well, I’m going to propose that you think about, consider, ponder, contemplate the idea that MOST of the negative experiences (and even NO-GO sets) you’ve had (or imagine having) with women are due to your MISTAKING her Low Self-Approval statements and behaviors for stuff that is consistent with “Your Story.”

It’s actually pretty comical from my new viewpoint.

You put a bunch of people in the room who don’t know how to love themselves… give them a shitload of alcohol, turn up the music so loud you can’t even think (let alone talk) and then you expect them to get together…

… the fact that people DO IT every night across the world is a testament to how compelling and pervasive this need for Approval is.

Anyway, that’s a very SLIGHT and basic groundwork into the newer AA stuff I’ve been working on… this has to be understood before the processes can be taught and have an effect.

What if, instead of asking you to give yourself approval, I had asked you to give yourself some Esteem?

Not quite the same effect is it? Now, imagine developing, describing and constructing exercises to help people “get it” while using bad naming all the way through.

The entire Community’s vocabulary and conceptual framework was built haphazardly over years by guys who didn’t get it… by guys who were still trying to figure it out.

Is it any wonder it’s such a mess?

~ CJ ~

Force21 -

Crack the Back of Your Most Persistent Sticking Points, Go to A Level Never Seen Before...

 

I have created a program to help you crack the back of your most persistent sticking points. It is called Force*21 and it has the potential to spring you to the next level in a mere 21 days.

Force*21 Is not a bunch of theory. It is not a bunch of rehashed techniques. It is the application of my newest technology to YOUR Game with me as a guide.

It will crack the back of your most persistent sticking points and spring you to the next level.

I want you to have my new technology.

I want you to get to this level, too.

>>> Click Here to Learn More About Captain Jack's FORCE21 Program <<<

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