Great stuff as always, CJ! The only thing …
Comment posted Getting Women to Approach You and The Recognition of Non-Verbal Communication on a Gradient Scale by Phil.
Great stuff as always, CJ! The only thing I’d like to point out is that too many guys seem to try to circumvent approaching by relying on this “let her approach me” attitude and that generally turns out to no success at all.
In my opinion, you can only use that kind of non-verbal stuff once you got the basics (being able to approach) properly down.
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If you are a good looking guy or “stand out” then they will approach you. If you are not then what? This is all nice and good but what if you go thru those steps and she does not open you? What if she is too shy? What if she just is giving you the eye out of curiousity and then does not open you?
There are too many variables here.
Please fill us in on that.
Great stuff as always, CJ! The only thing I’d like to point out is that too many guys seem to try to circumvent approaching by relying on this “let her approach me” attitude and that generally turns out to no success at all.
In my opinion, you can only use that kind of non-verbal stuff once you got the basics (being able to approach) properly down.
Interesting stuff man. What you’re talking about here is actually exactly what Cory Skyy has been talking about for years. Of course, he can’t break things down the way that you can, and his stuff is less scientific and more touchy feely, thus not conducive to learning, but either way, it’s definitely interesting to see somewhat of a convergence between PUA and naturals. All of the best guys in the community essentially admit that naturals are pretty much across the board better than all PUAs, but it seems like you’re approaching being able to teach what naturals do.
“We have a Day2 set up. (She’s ridiculously hot so I don’t mind doing a Day2).”
Day2? What’s going on here? Is CJ in love? Is he getting soft?
Very good post! I do something similar exept that I tend to summon girls over by waving my hand towards myself in a sort of come here motion when ive made eye contact and smiled. Often when I have done this girls wont come over immediatly, but after 5 minutes are curious enough to come and ask me what i want. Thats when i deny calling them over at all and the banter begins…. I would never have thought of the body repositioning though which I am sure i will find very helpful, so thank you muchly for that little golden nugget of knowledge kind sir! I am truly grateful!!!
One of my favourite things is waving to
girl to come over. You gotta do it really
matter-of-fact though like you know she’s
gonna walk over.
You expect it.
But then you gotta calibrate
accordingly cos that was a big
investment for her so early.
Great post.