A short drill to blow Preconceiveds

Posted at March 7, 2010

This post contains a short drill to destroy Preconceiveds (a coined word, short for preconceived thoughts/ideas/notions). It is based on the newest stuff that will be discussed in Force21. But, first I want to reply to a few comments from the last post…

A comment from “Hammer” of hammer86blog.com on my post “Getting Women to Approach You”:

Interesting stuff man. What you are talking about here is actually exactly what Cory Skyy has been talking about for years. Of course, he can’t break things down the way that you can, and his stuff is less scientific and more touchy feely, thus not conducive to learning, but either way, it’s definitely interesting to see somewhat of a convergence between PUA and naturals. All of the best guys in the community essentially admit that naturals are pretty much across the board better than all PUAs, but it seems like you’re approaching being able to teach what naturals do.

Thanks for the props. I do have to disagree with the thing about naturals. Every one of them I’ve seen has disappointed me. The few I befriended and tried to learn from were better than the average PUA but have severe weak spots. They are also less consistent. Take them out of their element and they are usually pretty bad.

On the same post, Matt said:

If you are a good looking guy or “stand out” then they will approach you. If you are not then what? This is all nice and good but what if you go thru those steps and she does not open you? What if she is too shy? What if she just is giving you the eye out of curiousity and then does not open you?

There are too many variables here.

Please fill us in on that.

I don’t see a lot of approaching by females out of social circle or “club social circle.” There are plenty of guys on PUA bootcamps considered “good looking guys” who were essentially invisible. You’ll see older cougars hitting on younger “good looking guys” but cougars are chemically imbalanced and not what we are going for so they hardly count.

All of your questions are beside the point… do the drills so you can reproduce. Worry about that other shit when/if it comes up. Besides, no one said you should stop approaching. It IS something that will change how you look at things. I noticed a body position shift from 60 feet away earlier today.

Phil said:

Great stuff as always, CJ! The only thing I’d like to point out is that too many guys seem to try to circumvent approaching by relying on this “let her approach me” attitude and that generally turns out to no success at all.
In my opinion, you can only use that kind of non-verbal stuff once you got the basics (being able to approach) properly down.

I agree with getting the basics down. But, there’s another aspect to this… what if you build your basics on bad observations? You’ll have a ceiling on pick-up skill that no amount of practice will cure. The only way to break to another level would be the removal of the bad data, casting off the “observations” as “the way things are” and getting Begginer’s Mind in. The earlier you start on this stuff the better.

The very first drill I’d teach any newbie coming under my wing would be simple but powerful. Here would the whole drill for hours on end:

“Notice that girl noticing that guy.”

“Notice that girl noticing that guy.”

“Notice that girl noticing that guy.”

‘that guy’ might be the student or might never be that student.

The end result would be a blowout of preconceiveds (coined, short for preconceived thoughts/ideas/notions) and we’d have a PUA who would rely much less on his internal (bad) data on interactions between males and females.

There are 4 of these in total:

Girl to Guy

Guy to Girl

Student to Girl (“Notice that girl.”)

Girl to Student (“Notice that girl noticing you.”)

Captain Jack

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