The point of this is to NOT think …
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The point of this is to NOT think of it in any way other than with the question applied in real-time.
Does she know anything about the principles of active and passive attraction?
Does she know anything about what has and hasn’t worked for you in the past?
Empty mind.
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- The point of this is to NOT think of it in any way other than with the question applied in real-time.
Does she know anything about the principles of active and passive attraction?
Does she know anything about what has and hasn't worked for you in the past?
Empty mind.
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- A short drill to blow Preconceiveds
Awesome! Keep noticing and it’ll get deeper and deeper. I just had a girl body position me at Starbucks. She was waiting for her drink at the counter.I made a movement that caught her eye. She then looked at me… looked back and then turned about 45 degrees towards me… almost out of position for the waiting counter. She was only about a 7 and I’m busy so she gets no love.
CJ
- How to Meet, Attract and Seduce Women Using Game Dynamics
I would start with eCoaching to get the fundamentals… then “Sexual Framing Mastery” 4 audio program… then Master Strategies.CJ
- How to Meet, Attract and Seduce Women Using Game Dynamics
I would start with eCoaching to get the fundamentals… then “Sexual Framing Mastery” 4 audio program… then Master Strategies.CJ
- Lay Report: Seducing Two Women Back to Back SNLs and a 3some?
Yes, I know. It sucks.I also realized that I had only 1 meal on Sunday so that combined with 2 nights of drinking and not much sleep all conspired to fuck things up.
I really wasn't thinking correctly. 999 times out of 1,000 I would turn that into at least a lay.
Sucks! But such is this adventure called Game!
- Lay Report: Seducing Two Women Back to Back SNLs and a 3some?
Thanks for the traffic!I don't really post on forums anymore.
I'm glad you have had success with the eCoaching!
CJ
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haven’t tried it yet, but i would just smile and say hi
With this in mind. would you still apply the priciples of active and passive attraction? I am somebody who relies on things like teasing and such to gain attraction intially but with this priciple it seems you would go into a more comfort based approahed from the start if your assuming the girl is attracted to you because you will be assuming she is attracted to you and dont have to build it up. Ive learned that hasnt worked for me in the past and this is the reason i use teasing and other things first.
Hello cj, thank you for your insights. I’ve been trying game dynamics and sexual framing dancing in a club but it’s quite difficult to do a rings on finger there. Also, it’s like I’m doing everything well except sexual framing up to the point that I have to stop not to fuck up the set. When I do SF, I’m entering in a logic mode, similar to an interview.
I will keep trying your stuff based on your very useful posts. However, I would like to know how to apply sexual framing and game dynamics in the following scenarios:
a) dancing clubs
b) social circle
It would be a pleasure to understand that.
Thanks CJ!
The point of this is to NOT think of it in any way other than with the question applied in real-time.
Does she know anything about the principles of active and passive attraction?
Does she know anything about what has and hasn't worked for you in the past?
Empty mind.
Owen:
The Dance Floor is a tough place to be, def. not ideal. The girls attention simply isn't where it needs to be, because they want to dance! So as soon as you think she'll comply, move her to some place more quite. Then you can do the SF.
Also, you've already stated what you're doing wrong. Don't be logic, appeal to the emotions! (tease, don't give the answers away right away)
Ex.
You:Ahh interesting..
HB: What what?
You: I'll tell you in a bit.. blablabla
You should really, really watch out applying SF inside you social circle. Ofcourse the anti LTR-framesetter is a topic you can introduce without too much suspicion, but don't go strawberry fiels on your friends. You risk losing your social circle.
CJ: What can I say, pure awesomeness. Your stuff is mindboggling.
I like how you always strive to get at higher ideas.
And it's been said with NLP / hypnosis to go first, and I thought it's something similar. The result of internalizing that she likes you should be that you feel that sexual attraction / tension in yourself first, and if all your actions are from the subconscious, this should get you into sexual topics / framing (and your magnification principals) automatically (or atleast help to get there).
So I'd like to add, get in touch with the good emotions of being attracted, and things will autocorrect themselves.
Good work either way!
The point of this is to NOT think of it in any way other than with the question applied in real-time.
Does she know anything about the principles of active and passive attraction?
Does she know anything about what has and hasn’t worked for you in the past?
Empty mind.
I tried the technique over the weekend with varying results. I found myself assuming that girls were attracted to me when they werent and i was going in with a more comfort approach which wasnt working and found myself going backwrds to build up some attration. I see what your saying because this technique would give confidence on the approach and not get urself into ur head but thats not really my problem. With me its more about being somewhat disqualified and having to use my personality to gain the attraction and this technique doesnt seem to work for me because i have to use those attraction qualities first before i can just get into some basic comfort talk. Regardless wether the girl knows about pasive/ active attraction or what has worked for me in the past. I will continue to try it though as maybe im missing something.
Hey CJ,
I was reading through some of your old posts and found something interesting. In the post “On NOT Gaming Part Deux” you say that “No one has any business working on InnerGame until they’ve done about 1000 sets.”
Recently our posts have been focused a lot on inner game, have you changed your opinion about working on inner game? If so, why?
Thanks!
BTW, I love your posts!