Comments on: Intention, Commitment and Measuring to Improve. http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/ The Leader in Sexual Framing and Same Night Lays... And, How to Become Your Own Pick Up Guru! Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:54:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: CaptainJack http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1794 CaptainJack Mon, 15 Jun 2009 00:16:45 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1794 Hey Bolo, don't worry about it... You are designed to be a father. <br><br>Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100% -- when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.<br><br>CJ Hey Bolo, don't worry about it… You are designed to be a father.

Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100% — when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.

CJ

]]> By: CaptainJack http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1350 CaptainJack Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:16:45 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1350 Hey Bolo, don't worry about it... You are designed to be a father. <br><br>Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100% -- when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.<br><br>CJ Hey Bolo, don't worry about it… You are designed to be a father.

Set aside specific blocks of time to be with them and when you are with your child focus on him/her 100% — when you make decisions about your future, keep them squarely in mind.

CJ

]]> By: Bolo http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1337 Bolo Mon, 08 Jun 2009 15:26:38 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1337 You have children? As someone who may or may not be a father soon (Please no) how does a PUA lifestyle and fatherhood max up? You have children? As someone who may or may not be a father soon (Please no) how does a PUA lifestyle and fatherhood max up?

]]> By: Ron http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1324 Ron Wed, 03 Jun 2009 06:02:05 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1324 Wait a minute, wait a minute! You can't just start your post off with "10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being" and not say where the hell you were. Tell us what that's all about, mate!<br><br>Come on, that's like leading us down a path and then shifting us into another venue. Kind of like your Time Bridging habit with women, but we're not women - we're loyal readers. Wait a minute, wait a minute! You can't just start your post off with “10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being” and not say where the hell you were. Tell us what that's all about, mate!

Come on, that's like leading us down a path and then shifting us into another venue. Kind of like your Time Bridging habit with women, but we're not women – we're loyal readers.

]]> By: Anon http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1322 Anon Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:00:15 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1322 10days, its got to be the LandMark Forum. 10days, its got to be the LandMark Forum.

]]> By: Richard Brian Penn http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1321 Richard Brian Penn Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:34:35 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1321 Cap Jack - Your article is dead on. I can't recall a time that I have ever gone out and gotten laid the same night I met a woman without having the intention of doing so. Yes, there have been a zillion nights that I've just gone out because I wanted to socialize and hang out with my boys and my female friends with no intention of bringing a woman home. Guess what? I didn't :) Cap Jack – Your article is dead on. I can't recall a time that I have ever gone out and gotten laid the same night I met a woman without having the intention of doing so. Yes, there have been a zillion nights that I've just gone out because I wanted to socialize and hang out with my boys and my female friends with no intention of bringing a woman home. Guess what? I didn't :)

]]> By: Benedict M. Smith http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1318 Benedict M. Smith Sun, 31 May 2009 20:13:22 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1318 the only way to ascertain whether or not you're getting better is to keep track of the number of approaches and the end results. it can be depressing at first, but over time, if you've got the will to stick through the ego bashing blow outs etc, you'll see improvement. great post. the only way to ascertain whether or not you're getting better is to keep track of the number of approaches and the end results. it can be depressing at first, but over time, if you've got the will to stick through the ego bashing blow outs etc, you'll see improvement. great post.

]]> By: WK13 http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1317 WK13 Sun, 31 May 2009 13:37:40 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1317 Awesome article, Once again Sir CJ!!<br>I would like to thank you for the brilliant audio i purchased on the last post ( to do with mental barriers) I have tried a lot of things but that what you taught well and truly has changed my reality (or the way i perceive it) excellently. I thank you muchly.<br><br>Onto this article, i was actually thinking along the same lines about a month ago, but surprise surprise, i never actually COMITTED to it! Funny eh!?!<br>You see, i am honest enough to admit, after reading/watching waaaay too much community stuff, i believed i must not go out to get laid but be the 'fun social guy'. Now theres nothing wrong with the fun social guy but to deny yourself of a real purposeful intention to go out and get laid is ludicrous! Yet, i myself have been following this frustrating path. I am really happy you have highlighted these facts as it never felt right to be just the fun social guy with no sexual intention. I will now go out with Purity of Purpose and Intention to get laid. Thank You once again.<br><br>I will now end my long ramblings!! But i would say that the monthly teleconferences sound immense. I unfortunately cannot afford these, due to tough financial situation i am in, but this is no sympathy 'poor old me' plea, it is quite simply an honest view of my situation which i am working on improving! So that i CAN purchase more brilliant CJ audio's.<br><br>Thanks for reading<br>~WK13~ Awesome article, Once again Sir CJ!!
I would like to thank you for the brilliant audio i purchased on the last post ( to do with mental barriers) I have tried a lot of things but that what you taught well and truly has changed my reality (or the way i perceive it) excellently. I thank you muchly.

Onto this article, i was actually thinking along the same lines about a month ago, but surprise surprise, i never actually COMITTED to it! Funny eh!?!
You see, i am honest enough to admit, after reading/watching waaaay too much community stuff, i believed i must not go out to get laid but be the 'fun social guy'. Now theres nothing wrong with the fun social guy but to deny yourself of a real purposeful intention to go out and get laid is ludicrous! Yet, i myself have been following this frustrating path. I am really happy you have highlighted these facts as it never felt right to be just the fun social guy with no sexual intention. I will now go out with Purity of Purpose and Intention to get laid. Thank You once again.

I will now end my long ramblings!! But i would say that the monthly teleconferences sound immense. I unfortunately cannot afford these, due to tough financial situation i am in, but this is no sympathy 'poor old me' plea, it is quite simply an honest view of my situation which i am working on improving! So that i CAN purchase more brilliant CJ audio's.

Thanks for reading
~WK13~

]]> By: shark http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1316 shark Sun, 31 May 2009 10:36:28 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1316 I would also like to know what 10D program was that... As for the main theme of the topic and can only agree to everything. :) I would also like to know what 10D program was that… As for the main theme of the topic and can only agree to everything. :)

]]> By: Phil http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/05/architecting-a-better-game/comment-page-1/#comment-1315 Phil Sun, 31 May 2009 06:41:41 +0000 http://www.betheseducer.com/?p=610#comment-1315 OK,<br>What was the 10 day course you did?<br>I've seen a few things around that say they shift your paradigm, (none ten days though) and personal recommendation IS usually best.<br>(yes I met you personally in a MM bootcamp in Phoenix 2007....when John was going through his bad stage...yes it showed in the bootcamp haha) OK,
What was the 10 day course you did?
I've seen a few things around that say they shift your paradigm, (none ten days though) and personal recommendation IS usually best.
(yes I met you personally in a MM bootcamp in Phoenix 2007….when John was going through his bad stage…yes it showed in the bootcamp haha)

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