Intention, Commitment and Measuring to Improve.

Posted at May 30, 2009

PUAs!!!

I got back 6 days ago from 10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being. We worked from 8am to about 10:00 (sometimes later) every night. It was awesome! I’ve done this a few times now and each time I get a HUGE boost in my life.

I’m now closer to my Mom, my Sister, Dad and children even though I thought things were great to begin with… I walk with a LOT more confidence. I speak my mind a lot more freely, have become a lot more persuasive and a bunch of other things I don’t have enough space to mention. I have a genuine love for ALL people I encounter… And, I am MUCH, MUCH happier each and every moment and I rest in (or on) a background of peacefulness and expanded awareness.

Like I said, It’s awesome!

I’m gearing up for the “Master Strategies Teleconference” series and I know it’s going to be killer.

One of the keys to effectiveness is strong Commitment and Intention.

Once upon a time when I was in college this hot girl waved at me on campus as we were walking towards each other and I slowed down to see what was what… She was carrying a few folders and books in her arms and a huge smile seemed permanently plastered on her face.

She asked me what class I was going to… then, what sports I liked… where I was born and what I did in my spare time. About halfway through our “conversation” I got the sense something strange was going on. I stuck around though (she was hot) to see where it would lead.

After telling her what I did in my spare time she enthusiastically whipped this flyer out of her book and said, “We’re having this contest and the winner gets to go to Hawaii. I’m ALMOST in the lead and the contest ends soon. Will you help me win? All you have to do is subscribe to magazines… You told me you like x, y, z… we have magazines in those areas….”

Suddenly, she was a LOT less attractive. I couldn’t get away fast enough.

Slimy, eh?

Many in the Community suggest you shouldn’t go out to try to get laid because it reeks of desperation or neediness and girls can sense that right away. Instead, what they suggest is you go out and be the social guy and wait to see if she likes you.

It comes across to me much like the girl in my story (Yuck) because no matter how much you pretend… you ARE going out to get laid.

It IS true that many women can sense neediness… but going out to get laid doesn’t mean you have desperation or neediness.

Desperation or neediness comes from wanting something but feeling you can’t really have it OR the feeling you must give up your values to get it.

You can go out with the intention of getting laid WITHOUT being needy. Neediness does NOT automatically follow the intention to get laid. Neediness is an internal state or belief system that exists because of the habit of disapproving of yourself.

Guys who don’t go out with the intention of getting laid don’t get laid.

I even go so far as to imagine what it would be like with her while I’m talking to her. I allow myself to feel SEXUAL (not horny) as I’m talking to her and even as I’m approaching.

There are others who suggest only focusing on the things you can control. I may have said something like that in the past because it sounds like a good idea. But, I don’t agree with that anymore.

Now, I say you MUST set goals and measure things you can’t control.

Let’s dig a little deeper into this…

You can’t actually control if a girl sleeps with you or not. You CAN set a goal to open 25 sets. BUT, you need to measure and STAT how many of those sets resulted in a lay otherwise your goal is meaningless. If you aren’t doing measuring (at least mentally) then you don’t have a basis of improvement.

Any Game has defined results, measures and stats.

The result is a verbal description of the game’s objective. The measure is what can be seen/observed in reality, meaning you observed it did happen or didn’t happen. The stat represents the measure as a numerical fact.

You want your results, measures and stats to be TRACEABLE to WINNING the Game.

Here is an example:

Result: Captain Jack has sexual relationship with 10 new hotties this month.

Measure: Female gets penetrated by GIGANTOR(TM)

Stat: No. of females penetrated.

Okay, got it?

Now, in this Game there are other measures and stats as well:

Measure: Female agrees to TimeBridge.

Stat: % of females who agreed.

(For me personally, if I go a long time with less than 40-50% of the girls saying yes to the TB I know something is off in my initial presentation and I need to examine it. This doesn’t mean all the TB’s will HAPPEN only that they agreed to it at the time I put out the invitation.)

I’m not saying that you power up excel and type this shit in a spreadsheet by any means… what I’m talking about is a mindset and commitment to measuring for the purpose of improving.

You don’t get the results by committing only to what YOU can physically do because it is incomplete in the realm of effectiveness. Do you get to write a Lay Report after saying, “Well, I opened 25 sets this weekend. I can’t control anything else but at least I met my goal.”

No.

That is completely backward. You keep the end goal in mind and keep intelligently analyzing and varying your behavior until you get closer and closer.

Imagine a salesperson going to his boss and saying, “Well, I know I got 0 sales this quarter instead of at least 30 like everyone else but I can’t control that… I made 200 calls and that was my goal.”

Then, imagine that salesperson with a box of all the shit on his desk stuffed into it as he takes an elevator ride down to the street because that is what would likely happen.

My main point is in order to WIN the game you are going to have to set goals for things which are considered outside your control. But, you still need to set the goal if you want to master this area of your life.

Set your Intention and Commitment to win the Game… measure it and be aware of your stats so you can improve each and every time you go out.

And, if you think you might be putting out a creepy vibe read this: “Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?”

Captain Jack

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