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		<title>By: TSB Magazine &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Best Weekend Reading From Around the Web</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/04/gun-to-the-head-charred-remains-checklist/comment-page-1/#comment-1348</link>
		<dc:creator>TSB Magazine &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Best Weekend Reading From Around the Web</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 16:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;!--%kramer-ref-pre%--&gt;[...] of you struggling to see results why at the bars and clubs hitting on women, you might want to check out this checklist Captain Jack put together for measuring your pick-up [...]&lt;!--%kramer-ref-post%--&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: RegularJohn</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/04/gun-to-the-head-charred-remains-checklist/comment-page-1/#comment-1809</link>
		<dc:creator>RegularJohn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 19:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alright. Got it! Thank You CJ!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright. Got it! Thank You CJ!</p>
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		<title>By: RegularJohn</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/04/gun-to-the-head-charred-remains-checklist/comment-page-1/#comment-1271</link>
		<dc:creator>RegularJohn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 12:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alright. Got it! Thank You CJ!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright. Got it! Thank You CJ!</p>
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		<title>By: CaptainJack</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/04/gun-to-the-head-charred-remains-checklist/comment-page-1/#comment-1269</link>
		<dc:creator>CaptainJack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 21:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The TimeBridge is for another day/time. Most people think it is to set up an actual date. It&#039;s more about changing the dynamic of the interaction. I noticed when I set TimeBridge&#039;s it made SNLs (and Dates that were little more than come over, hangout, have sex) much, much easier. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;My thinking is because the TB answers the nagging question in her mind (if she likes you) of &quot;Will I see him again?&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I believe it also has a little bit of a Time Distortion effect AND makes you seem a little more real as a person because they&#039;ve had to imagine you and her together in the future.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;There&#039;s also Cialdini&#039;s Commitment and Consistency Principle... all that from a little invitation!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The TimeBridge is for another day/time. Most people think it is to set up an actual date. It&#39;s more about changing the dynamic of the interaction. I noticed when I set TimeBridge&#39;s it made SNLs (and Dates that were little more than come over, hangout, have sex) much, much easier. </p>
<p>My thinking is because the TB answers the nagging question in her mind (if she likes you) of &#8220;Will I see him again?&#8221;</p>
<p>I believe it also has a little bit of a Time Distortion effect AND makes you seem a little more real as a person because they&#39;ve had to imagine you and her together in the future.</p>
<p>There&#39;s also Cialdini&#39;s Commitment and Consistency Principle&#8230; all that from a little invitation!!!</p>
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		<title>By: mmapua</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/04/gun-to-the-head-charred-remains-checklist/comment-page-1/#comment-1266</link>
		<dc:creator>mmapua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 14:43:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>CJ has allready explained this in detail in previous posts.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;for example:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Talk about a cool place you frequent, she’ll probably start asking questions about it and will ask when you’ll be going there again. Eventually when you set for the time bridge tell her to come along to the cool place you were talking about.&quot; CJ&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;and:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, &quot;I don&#039;t want the night to end, I&#039;m really enjoying myself.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If she agrees or says nothing you can say, &quot;Let&#039;s hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can watch that show I was telling you about.&quot;&quot; CJ&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;While the first example isn&#039;t necessarily a TB for a SNL, you could also refer to an after hours club. Moreover, you can talk about some cool movie, cd, game etc. you&#039;ve got at home.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CJ has allready explained this in detail in previous posts.</p>
<p>for example:</p>
<p>&#8220;Talk about a cool place you frequent, she’ll probably start asking questions about it and will ask when you’ll be going there again. Eventually when you set for the time bridge tell her to come along to the cool place you were talking about.&#8221; CJ</p>
<p>and:</p>
<p>&#8220;Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.</p>
<p>As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, &#8220;I don&#39;t want the night to end, I&#39;m really enjoying myself.&#8221;</p>
<p>If she agrees or says nothing you can say, &#8220;Let&#39;s hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can watch that show I was telling you about.&#8221;" CJ</p>
<p>While the first example isn&#39;t necessarily a TB for a SNL, you could also refer to an after hours club. Moreover, you can talk about some cool movie, cd, game etc. you&#39;ve got at home.</p>
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		<title>By: mmapua</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/04/gun-to-the-head-charred-remains-checklist/comment-page-1/#comment-1265</link>
		<dc:creator>mmapua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 14:32:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how about asking her “What’s on the agenda for later?”&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.&quot; CJ&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;CJ has also written about sexual framing. you can use routines like strawberry fields, and rings on fingers for that. by doing that you set the right frame, and can start talking about sexual topics.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how about asking her “What’s on the agenda for later?”</p>
<p>&#8220;The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.&#8221; CJ</p>
<p>CJ has also written about sexual framing. you can use routines like strawberry fields, and rings on fingers for that. by doing that you set the right frame, and can start talking about sexual topics.</p>
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		<title>By: RegularJohn</title>
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		<dc:creator>RegularJohn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 12:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;How Do you attempt a Time Bridge for the same night? Would you be so kind to explain it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Awesome Posts by the way. Seriously, you are the one who - by just reading your posts - helped to skyrocket my game! Thank you indeed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?</p>
<p>How Do you attempt a Time Bridge for the same night? Would you be so kind to explain it?</p>
<p>Awesome Posts by the way. Seriously, you are the one who &#8211; by just reading your posts &#8211; helped to skyrocket my game! Thank you indeed!</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 06:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Can you elaborate on this a little more?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?</p>
<p>Can you elaborate on this a little more?</p>
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		<title>By: CaptainJack</title>
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		<dc:creator>CaptainJack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 02:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, I&#039;m not LDS. I came across his name while reading about Pareto and stuff like &quot;The Theory of Constraints&quot; and the Toyota Production System. I really don&#039;t know much about him other than a few of his ideas that made it into those works.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, I&#39;m not LDS. I came across his name while reading about Pareto and stuff like &#8220;The Theory of Constraints&#8221; and the Toyota Production System. I really don&#39;t know much about him other than a few of his ideas that made it into those works.</p>
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		<title>By: j</title>
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		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 01:13:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thomas monson....? lds prophet.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;you lds?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thomas monson&#8230;.? lds prophet.</p>
<p>you lds?</p>
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