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After charring your doubters with the flamethrower you’ll probably want to get some fresh air and reflect.
What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?
Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.
“When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” – Thomas Monson
Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.
1. How many sets did I open? (If it’s less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)
2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?
3. When something didn’t go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?
4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didn’t serve me?
5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
6. Of the TimeBridge’s I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?
7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?
8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?
9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?
10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?
13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?
14. Did I attempt a kiss close?
15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?
16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?
17. Did I “drunk-n-lonely” text about 10 minutes after close?
What is measured improves.
Captain Jack
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Damn…
Again, you're making the rest of us look bad…
I can personally say that CJ's probably the best teacher out there. The results of his students from Mass Sexual Framing were ridiculous.
You guys would be stupid to miss this…
S
P.S: Is the second post in 2 days a trend? I hope so…
Porno broner
thomas monson….? lds prophet.
you lds?
No, I'm not LDS. I came across his name while reading about Pareto and stuff like “The Theory of Constraints” and the Toyota Production System. I really don't know much about him other than a few of his ideas that made it into those works.
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
Can you elaborate on this a little more?
Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
How Do you attempt a Time Bridge for the same night? Would you be so kind to explain it?
Awesome Posts by the way. Seriously, you are the one who – by just reading your posts – helped to skyrocket my game! Thank you indeed!
how about asking her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
“The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.” CJ
CJ has also written about sexual framing. you can use routines like strawberry fields, and rings on fingers for that. by doing that you set the right frame, and can start talking about sexual topics.
CJ has allready explained this in detail in previous posts.
for example:
“Talk about a cool place you frequent, she’ll probably start asking questions about it and will ask when you’ll be going there again. Eventually when you set for the time bridge tell her to come along to the cool place you were talking about.” CJ
and:
“Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.
As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, “I don't want the night to end, I'm really enjoying myself.”
If she agrees or says nothing you can say, “Let's hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can watch that show I was telling you about.”" CJ
While the first example isn't necessarily a TB for a SNL, you could also refer to an after hours club. Moreover, you can talk about some cool movie, cd, game etc. you've got at home.
The TimeBridge is for another day/time. Most people think it is to set up an actual date. It's more about changing the dynamic of the interaction. I noticed when I set TimeBridge's it made SNLs (and Dates that were little more than come over, hangout, have sex) much, much easier.
My thinking is because the TB answers the nagging question in her mind (if she likes you) of “Will I see him again?”
I believe it also has a little bit of a Time Distortion effect AND makes you seem a little more real as a person because they've had to imagine you and her together in the future.
There's also Cialdini's Commitment and Consistency Principle… all that from a little invitation!!!
Alright. Got it! Thank You CJ!