These Interesting Facts Can Get You Laid…
The following is a collection of interesting quotes and ideas that have EVERYTHING to do with seduction …
- When a person perceives you to be of higher authority they unconsciously shift their voice and speech style to match yours. (Gregory & Webster,1996).
- “There are definitely differences in outlook and perspective between men and women that require a higher level of communication sophistication. For example, women generally respond better to stories, anecdotes, and metaphors, while men are more fact-oriented and statistical… The biggest difference between the genders is in response to tone. Women react much more negatively to negative messages than do men. They don’t like companies that trash the competition… Cola wars, beer wars, and burger wars are entertainment to men… and noise to women. When you articulate what you are for or about, you reveal something of yourself. [Emphasis mine] – “Words That Work” by Dr. Frank Luntz
- “When the barrier was high enough to be a true obstacle, however, the boys went directly to the obstructed toy, making contact with it three times faster than with the unobstructed toy.” – Influence by Cialdini
- “No matter what their self-proclaimed sexual orientation, they showed, on the whole, strong and swift genital arousal when the screen offered men with men, women with women and women with men… And with the women, especially the straight women, mind and genitals seemed scarcely to belong to the same person. The readings from the plethysmograph and the keypad weren’t in much accord.” New York Times article titled “What Do Women Want – Discovering What Ignites Female Desire” (Hmm… this has interesting implications, doesn’t it? I know a lot of people have wondered why I don’t bother with a lot of kino escalation to arouse her. Maybe kino escalation is worthless, even detrimental, if her mind aint’ in it.)
- “Laboratory experiments have confirmed that exciting experiences can enhance the feelings of attraction.” – “Why We Love” by Helene Fisher
- “If you have this dyad, and one part is pumped full of testosterone, is more interested in risk taking, is probably more aggressive, you’ve got a very strong motivational force. It wouldn’t make sense to have another similar force. You need something complementary. And I’ve often thought that there is something really powerful for women’s sexuality about being desired. That receptivity element.” – Dr. Chivers (Do you think this might explain why me saying, “You should really stop doing that… If you don’t quit turning me on, I’m going to lay you down on this table and fuck you right here” has such an effect?)
- “A man typically has sex with thousands of partners in his imagination over the course of his life. Women are much more likely to fantasize about people they know.” Survival of the Prettiest by Nancy Etcoff
Do you find those quotes intriguing? I know I sure do. All of them provide a template or backing for using a language construct to get what you want.
For example, when I say “I like it when girls do X” it isn’t just something I say to fill out time. I say it because
1. If they like me it gives them an opportunity and directions to SHOW it.
2. Women LIKE to do things for the men they like because it makes them feel more feminine and shows their value.
Here’s something else I found both interesting and useful…
Once upon a time I was in a bar talking to a hottie. Things were going good and we were discussing male-female interactions and I was in the middle of telling her I loved it when girls put their hand on my forearm or chest when they are trying to make a point.
Not 5 minutes later she placed her hand on my forearm looked across the bar at some Jackass and said, “That guy is hot!”
What!!!
Wait a minute… I want to be hot, too!
Where’s my hotness compliment?
From that moment on I worked even HARDER to woo her. I focused more intently.
Naturally, that got me to thinking… What if *I* started doing the same thing? What would happen then?
I’ll tell you what: Pretty much the same thing. It seemed to make a girl try a bit harder.
But, I found that it seems to work better if you make the statement with your eyes instead. But, once or twice is enough… more than that and you’ll destroy her confidence or she’ll just think you’re a perv.
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nice insights, one comment tough, i think you are confusing kino with creepy purposeless touching. Physicality is more about leading, look at salsa dance and tango for example. The guy Leads the girl he makes her abandon herself in the moment . women fantasize about a leading dominant man, they line up just to dance with him if he's a good dancer. The “elbow touching man” is just creepy and indecisive, leading is a form of dance and is a sexual frame in itself.
my 2cents.
Oh yeah, if you go to salsa clubs people hookup A Lot in there and its not by chance girls feel more free and less juged, cause she can just say she was being lead by a guy, she isn't responsible. Girls access their freaky side when their is no judgement.
CJ
could you tell us more about the kino not being the main thing?
what he's saying is that kino probably isn't effective if her mind isn't into it.
thus implicating that when a woman doesn't think she want's you it's useless to try to arouse her with touching.
I think that's true when she's sure she's not attracted to you.
But, when she's neutral it could probably convince her that she does want you, and when she allready knows she wants you it will only progress the pickup.
since, amongst other things, it shows her that you like her and it makes her feel good.
Therefore, I think that it's best to use a combination of words and touching to arouse her.
In addition, other pua's have said that the routines are just used to distract her logical mind while physically escalating.
So, since you say that you don't use a lot of kino to arouse her, would you please share your thoughts about this CJ?
Awesome shit man. I finally realize what living I'm your own reality after this weekend and I can only describe it as a shift. It's powerful. If you truly understand this it is all you need! And these quotes I'm going to apply to my social interactions and see what happens, I'll let ya know.
You'll like this one:
“The human spirit is prey to the most astounding impulses. Man goes constantly in fear of himself. His erotic urges terrify him. The saint turns from the voluptuary in alarm; she does not know that his unacknowledgeable passions are her own are really one.” (Goerges Bataille, 1957)
Okay, so I realized “Women react much more negatively to negative messages than do men.” is prolly the biggest one. That REALLY clicked for me this weekend. I thought about all the “negative” times with women or whenever I would think negatively with them how they would react to me and realized it was never good and it would always leave a sour taste in my mouth. (Just a feeling more of I was losing some connection with the girl). This goes for even “negging” or being C/F, or trying to be a dick to get attention… it doesn't work, all you have to do is … (I guess even what I do is called “reframing”), misinterpret things sexual, almost. But so the girl realizes that it's sexual and not you… but really you do and pretend not to have done that… OMG do I do ninja frames now and not realize it?
Anyway…
I had many interesting interactions but one with a Married woman really sticks out. She had her hands all over me and her husband was completely fine with it, and her flirting with me, because the topic of the conversation was how married couples can still go out and have fun…. (And the married woman “steered” the conversation this way… I did little work) HMMMMM…. All I did was take that idea above…
Thanks CJ! Sweet stuff man.
“I’ll tell you what: Pretty much the same thing. It seemed to make a girl try a bit harder.”
So you're saying if you wanna make her chase you back, you touch her chest then yell “that girl is hot!!!!” while looking at a different girl?
I'm confused.
“I’ll tell you what: Pretty much the same thing. It seemed to make a girl try a bit harder.”
So you're saying if you wanna make her chase you back, you touch her chest then yell “that girl is hot!!!!” while looking at a different girl?
I'm confused.