I think a big part in developing your …
Comment posted What’s this Pick-up Thing REALLY About? by MarquisdeSade.
I think a big part in developing your own beliefs is through experience and observation. You see a lot of guys that just get stuck with reading about other peoples experiences and take that as gospel for how things are for themselves, without ever walking down that road themselves.
It's funny that you also pointed out the 'Happiness' thing. If you really look, no one is 100% happy, unless their on drugs. I think most of out lives are spent chasing happiness. But do you ever get there? That's not to say that everyone is miserable either, though.
Also, I like what you said about 'past programing'. I think that also ties into experience and seeing the world through your own eyes. After all, the way we 'program' ourselves today, will one day be considered 'past programing'.
Alot of guys get into this 'PUA' thing thinking that all their problems with women will be solved. They don't realize how many stones they may have to turn over, and that they actually learn more about themselves than with women. Which is probably best.
Even when you think you're 'good' at this, you'll still probably experience failure. But that's what makes you that much better in the end.
This is a good topic and can get pretty deep.
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Now, to your next statement:
“Of course, it’s cool that guys learn how to attract beautiful women.
But, it’s much more fulfilling to find a wonderful woman who you enjoy spending time with outside of the bedroom as well. Really? Much more fulfilling for who? Remember, you are talking about yourself.”
Finally.
Someone unafraid to speak their own truth.
Good to see some classical working practice as well. Nobody talks about eliciting values anymore, and it's critical. In fact, it's critical even in a committed relationship.
“When you are happy you can do more, you cut out the stupid shit you do trying to get happy or avoid bad feelings, and you are generally more positive and feel better so you can focus more and make the best decisions.”
So true and just when I needed some good life coaching.
Captain Jacks got skeeeelz!
just a question, since you say most most of the community's book list id crap what kind of books do you enjoy reading. And if there are what are some books that changed the way live?
-Matt k
ew, banging her? …. I liiiike…. how much ? ;] but seriously, I get the zen-ness of this article.
I hit an epiphany.
Look down a few and you'll see two posts about that, “Just Say Yes” and 5 Profound Volumes.
Whooops… This was meant in response to “Matt”'s comment.
I don't like the moralizing tone of Louise Hay. Of course she is only talking from her perspective, and from what would seem to be good for women. On the other hand, it is indeed an issue for a lot of community guys that they learn to pick-up women fairly consistently, and yet, they fail over and over again to keep them around, whether as FB or as (m)LTR.
wow, that was really a powerful post! loving it!
this is why sinn keeps talking about your ninja powers. amazing concept!
I think a big part in developing your own beliefs is through experience and observation. You see a lot of guys that just get stuck with reading about other peoples experiences and take that as gospel for how things are for themselves, without ever walking down that road themselves.
It's funny that you also pointed out the 'Happiness' thing. If you really look, no one is 100% happy, unless their on drugs. I think most of out lives are spent chasing happiness. But do you ever get there? That's not to say that everyone is miserable either, though.
Also, I like what you said about 'past programing'. I think that also ties into experience and seeing the world through your own eyes. After all, the way we 'program' ourselves today, will one day be considered 'past programing'.
Alot of guys get into this 'PUA' thing thinking that all their problems with women will be solved. They don't realize how many stones they may have to turn over, and that they actually learn more about themselves than with women. Which is probably best.
Even when you think you're 'good' at this, you'll still probably experience failure. But that's what makes you that much better in the end.
This is a good topic and can get pretty deep.
“When someone writes or talks about a subject they are giving out their map of the world.”
Yes, indeed. What a great way to put it.
This is exactly what A Course in Miracles teaches: “There is nothing outside you. That is what you must ultimately learn, for it is the realization that the Kingdom of Heaven is restored to you.”
That's why my nickname for it is “God's Ultimate Guide to Inner Game.”
cheers,
Erika from http://www.awakeningfromthedream.blogspot.com
Of course she’s making a generalization with that statement.
However, that doesn’t have to mean that she’s merely talking about herself.
It could also be inductive reasoning, based on her observations.
You have made a good point though, that when one speaks in general terms it's quite possible that they're actually talking about themselves.
Of course she’s making a generalization with that statement.
However, that doesn’t have to mean that she’s merely talking about herself.
It could also be inductive reasoning, based on her observations.
You have made a good point though, that when one speaks in general terms it's quite possible that they're actually talking about themselves.