Isolation. Do you need it?
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I have an interesting Facebook chat going on with a fellow who has had a bootcamp but is having some troubles getting isolation. He asked me about the Cosmo routine but that is for use in Isolation (usually) and won’t necessarily help.
Here’s the thing about Isolation: It’s merely symbolic.
If you do it right you and her will BE in isolation even if her friends are hanging on every word. I think of Isolation as a description of the level of your communication with her. At a certain point, a few minutes into the interaction, I begin focusing almost entirely on her. The conversation should become AT LEAST 50/50. In fact, I’d say it should be 60% HER, 40% you. Females are wired to talk more so if it’s not that way it seems strange to them.
I don’t see anyone else. I don’t hear anyone else. It’s just us two. There is a bubble around us. We are communicating and focusing much more on each other than anyone or thing around us. I bring the energy down. I talk slower, I move slower. I begin telling her she is a sexual being. That it is only natural. That it is a good thing.
That’s Isolation.
Do you need to get her away from her friends?
I often do it if they are much higher energy than I am… but usually what happens is the friends “get it” and give you some space.
AND… the normal view of Isolation is you taking her to the other side of the room. I suggest this if you are trying to create the “PUA Aura” but often a few steps away is plenty of space.
Think of it more as a change in the tone of communication and how you guys are relating to each other.
Focus on her, feel masculine and imagine her as a sexual woman who WANTS to be valued for her feminine sexuality, then tune all other shit out.
Captain Jack.
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All hail to master Jack!!!!
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Awesome. As soon as I read this post i went and wrote it down. *Salute* I will follow you to Tequila hell my captain.
Yep, that's what it's all about, creating that little bubble where just the two of you are in.
It's just easier to do when you have less distractions, i.e. her friends interrupting.
“In fact, I’d say it should be 60% HER, 40% you. Females are wired to talk more so if it’s not that way it seems strange to them.”
Hey CJ,
There were many times where I lost the girl in isolation because either I talked way too much or asked too many questions because she wasn't talkative enough.
Do you have any tips on how to establish this 60/40 ratio?
Thanks in advance!
try talking less and asking questions. Be genuinely interested in her. Unless you want a girl with no ambition or drive, then ask her about the latest song on the radio.
Gotta disagree here. You haven't been out in the field lately and I think its clouded your discernment.
-Tribulus
Dude, I haven't formally isolated in a LONG time. And being out in the
field lately or not it doesn't matter. Female psychology and responses
in relation to a skilled PUA isn't changing from week to week.
Gotta disagree here. You haven't been out in the field lately and I think its clouded your discernment.
-Tribulus
Dude, I haven't formally isolated in a LONG time. And being out in the
field lately or not it doesn't matter. Female psychology and responses
in relation to a skilled PUA isn't changing from week to week.
AND, I really have to wonder what you'd be disagreeing with in the post. I think you are still caught up in the formal rigidity of the pick-up system instead of taking a more “Bruce Lee” approach to flowing like water.
Captain Jack flows like water. It's fun and the sex is cool too.