Make Her Feel It.
I’ve been saying for awhile “All you gotta do is make her feel it.”
It’s part mantra for me as I am using repetition to install a better thought-feeling link at the very end of the automatic Strategy chain that fires off when I see a hot girl or a hard situation I want to go into…
I also say it to PUAs I’m talking to for the same reason.
One of the blogs I read is A Bad Man In A Bad Place. The writer, in addition to being a PUA, is also interested in BDSM and such. (His tumblr is AWESOME! and he inspired me to create one myself -> see my tumblr feed on the right hand side)
He posted an interesting question (see Poor Submissives Need Not Apply?) to his readers most of which are not PUAs but into exploring all the interesting sexual possibilities out there.
While I don’t know much about the sexual situation he is discussing I DO know a lot about applied persuasion, so I felt compelled to respond.
Read the post Poor Submissives Need Not Apply (only a few paragraphs long) and I’ll elaborate below.
Here was my comment:
Giving thought to a person’s financial situation shows that they are logically engaged and not emotionally engaged.
If Axe can improve his ability to affect her emotions, to really make her FEEL all the emotions necessary for her to move forward with this type of relationship then financial status will no longer matter.
In fact, when you get good enough at it, the attribute or status that she wouldn’t LOGICALLY choose becomes PROOF of her true feelings for you!
“I must really, really like him because I feel this way even though he’s not X.”
~ CJ ~
Let me elaborate even a little further.
If you watched the 5:00 minute video in my last post, Words Matter, you noticed a huge difference in the EMOTIONAL impact of the two different sentences written on the sign. One phrase garnered very little for the blind man, the second phrase, even though it logically MEANT the same thing, packed so much more power.
There’s a saying in copywriting that people buy with emotions and then justify with logic.
We could just as easily say, “People fuck because of emotions and then justify with logic.”
The simplest PU system could be described in these 3 steps:
- Heighten sexual emotions
- Remove mental-societal barriers
- Structure closing opportunity
So, the question is HOW? How do you make her feel it?
Here’s the kicker: She’s probably already feeling it, or just felt it, or about to feel it again real soon.
Let me ask you a question: Is the only time you get horny right after you see a hot woman? No. Feelings and images and thoughts are popping into your head constantly. You could be locked in a room with nothing but Calculus textbooks and I’ll guarantee your mind will drift to sex and you’ll get horny.
(Of course, seeing a hot woman will trigger it as well. But, if you’re a normal healthy male you get horny several times a day (an hour, if your PUA name is Printer).)
I could make the case that all you have to do is ATTACH it to you when it comes again. Strawberry Fields and Rings on Fingers do exactly that.
Almost all women are sexually frustrated. They don’t get it enough. They don’t get it with who they want. They often don’t get it the way they want it. Society makes them hold back.
This is pent-up demand. When you release that pent-up demand it gets attached to you.
If they are already feeling it or about to feel it and all you have to do is attach it to you, remove the barriers and structure the opportunity, where did Axe go wrong?
Axe (probably) went for step 3 BEFORE she felt it. Since she wasn’t feeling “it” she used the income excuse as the logical reason for her emotional decision.
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This is an excellent point, CJ. It's so tempting to think that wealth and status are necessary to get sex from the top women. But that's only if they're considering you logically. Appealing to the emotions is the key to undercutting all of that. Well put!
thanks!