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		<title>By: Your page is now on StumbleUpon!</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-948</link>
		<dc:creator>Your page is now on StumbleUpon!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 15:24:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: sunsoo</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-1808</link>
		<dc:creator>sunsoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 07:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is awesome.  This is what inner game is all about</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is awesome.  This is what inner game is all about</p>
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		<title>By: sunsoo</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-934</link>
		<dc:creator>sunsoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 00:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is awesome.  This is what inner game is all about</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is awesome.  This is what inner game is all about</p>
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		<title>By: A Bad Man in a Bad Place &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Women and Their Fantasies</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-917</link>
		<dc:creator>A Bad Man in a Bad Place &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Women and Their Fantasies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 12:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;!--%kramer-ref-pre%--&gt;[...] One of the reason both men and women don&#8217;t stick it out more stems from what I call Low Self-Approval: http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/ [...]&lt;!--%kramer-ref-post%--&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-788</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 00:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i miss you! did you get a girlfriend? whats the deal?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i miss you! did you get a girlfriend? whats the deal?</p>
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		<title>By: GiorgioPUA</title>
		<link>http://www.betheseducer.com/2008/05/low-self-approval-or-low-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-783</link>
		<dc:creator>GiorgioPUA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 20:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good Post... the key is self evaluation, and then taking care of what you find.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Post&#8230; the key is self evaluation, and then taking care of what you find.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful post!!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;What was Buddha talking about?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;State of consiousness =  Being  OR   Mind &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;or &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;State of consiousness =  Complete Awareness  OR { ego  + senses }&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;you can get past the Mind ( No Mind state ) by meditating deeply.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;so when Mind = 0&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;state of consiousness =  Being     &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This is what Buddha was referring to. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;what constitutes the Mind then?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Mind = thinking about worldly things&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;in other words Junk = { Game, women, labels, ego etc } which the senses love&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;as long as Mind = Junk, you are a slave to your senses &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You suffer, Cause the senses are never satisfied.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;when you drop EVERYTHING,  Conquer your senses, state of consiousness =  Being &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This is the ultimate GAME :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful post!!</p>
<p>What was Buddha talking about?</p>
<p>State of consiousness =  Being  OR   Mind </p>
<p>or </p>
<p>State of consiousness =  Complete Awareness  OR { ego  + senses }</p>
<p>you can get past the Mind ( No Mind state ) by meditating deeply.</p>
<p>so when Mind = 0</p>
<p>state of consiousness =  Being     </p>
<p>This is what Buddha was referring to. </p>
<p>what constitutes the Mind then?</p>
<p>Mind = thinking about worldly things</p>
<p>in other words Junk = { Game, women, labels, ego etc } which the senses love</p>
<p>as long as Mind = Junk, you are a slave to your senses </p>
<p>You suffer, Cause the senses are never satisfied.</p>
<p>when you drop EVERYTHING,  Conquer your senses, state of consiousness =  Being </p>
<p>This is the ultimate GAME <img src='http://www.betheseducer.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 22:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously, put up an update. You&#039;re the only blog that&#039;s not full of shit, seriously please put up something new.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously, put up an update. You&#8217;re the only blog that&#8217;s not full of shit, seriously please put up something new.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 04:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Argh! I keep visiting but where has the awesome CJ been! No updates for a while =( , hope all is well big man! &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;~free_spirit~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Argh! I keep visiting but where has the awesome CJ been! No updates for a while =( , hope all is well big man! </p>
<p>~free_spirit~</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 22:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you have any tips or suggestions on getting rid of approval-seeking behavior and especially thinking?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I try to stop myself from doing an action if I realize its just for the approval. But my endless insecurities and such thoughts are still there, with me still wanting approval so badly every moment of the day no matter how hard I fight it off.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Then again, I&#039;m 22, so I suppose I have years to fight this all off.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Great post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you have any tips or suggestions on getting rid of approval-seeking behavior and especially thinking?</p>
<p>I try to stop myself from doing an action if I realize its just for the approval. But my endless insecurities and such thoughts are still there, with me still wanting approval so badly every moment of the day no matter how hard I fight it off.</p>
<p>Then again, I&#8217;m 22, so I suppose I have years to fight this all off.</p>
<p>Great post.</p>
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