Introducing A New Zen Master From The Poontang Clan!
What follows is a yahoo chat I had with a good friend and student… I fixed a few of his early game sticking points and he made some great progress BUT he had some of the worst Approach Anxiety ever. It was right around my level. His previous solution was to get smashed and work within his extensive social circle to get new girls into the fold.
We installed some new stuff for him the week of April 8th which knocked out his Approach Anxiety… Since then his results have been spectacular.
(I’ll have a LOT more to say on Approach Anxiety in the coming month…)
CaptainJack: i’m really clear on it… making good decisions… what happened with your SNL last night?
ThePrinter: dude, it was like I had a target on my back she tried to have stronger frame and each time she walked away, I had multiple chicks all around
CaptainJack: the target on your back says, “Mantacular”…give me the scoop dude, how did you open?
ThePrinter: she was starring at me across the bar…so I walked over and said, , , “hey, how’s your night”
CaptainJack: WTF? What about “Hey do you believe magical spells work?” haaa
ThePrinter: she said, very well, how about you…I said, good and I would like to introduce you to my group of friends, but we are going to dance first…put out my hand, didn’t even ask…we danced for 1/4 of a song and I did no effort from that point on…brunette, fake tits, size 1/2, 5′5″…she was smoking, 8.7 to me
CaptainJack: FB material then?
(This is me checking his goal progress. He wants 3 FBs in his rotation at all times with a min. score of 8+ each. He wants the ability to keep it full by rotating out ones he’s tired of and using cold approach to fill the vacant spots.)
ThePrinter: YES! she left the bar and text me good bye…I replied: “are you really going to throw me to the lions without a good bye hug”…she replied, I have not left the parking lot yet…I said, up to you, do you have manners? She said she would come in if we could dance, but she had to be good tonight. I said, I don’t feel like dancing, but I have a hug if she wants it. She came back, 10 minutes later, I said, ready to get out of here? She said, “Where?”
ThePrinter: I said we are going to my house to play pool…she said do you have a pool table…I said no…no resistance, no LMR…I didn’t even take off her skirt
ThePrinter: I told her I would invite her back agian if she could squirt…she got REALLY turned on…and said: “is that really ok?”
ThePrinter: she watched 2 girls make out with me last night…and said, you did everything you could do to respect me, but why do girls throw themselves at you? I was thinking, they don’t usually…I said nothing
CaptainJack: did you tell her you were a Zen Master from the Poontang Clan?
ThePrinter: no, I told her that this kind of thing never happens to me… she believed me because I was pushing chicks off constantly. I was so turned on, I made her get on top and I had to plug my ears with my fingers, she came 4 times…first time I listened and didn’t have my fingers in my ears I had to let it rip
ThePrinter: wanna go out?
CaptainJack: it’ll be a game-time decision for me – fucking gets in the way of meditation
CaptainJack: approach anxiety when you went up to her?
(This is me testing again. We’ve taken care of it BUT I’m checking for the possiblity of it’s return. Since taking care of it I’ve also learned there’s another little barrier. We’ve been motivating ourselves with negativity for so long that when we remove it there is a calmness and peace in the Approach environment which makes it FEEL GOOD to just enjoy the lack of negativity. You are really ok to not approach… but, this makes for a lot of standing around. I’ve recently developed a new exercise to install and use positive motivators for approaching (or even better, being approached!) — More to come… )
ThePrinter: NONE…which was weird, I have never approached a chick instantly direct that was eye fucking me
CaptainJack: stumbling around like a drunken pirate?
ThePrinter: sober, red bull only
CaptainJack: fuck yeah, man
CaptainJack: where were her friends?
ThePrinter: I never asked, I assumed it was on and ran it
CaptainJack: good
ThePrinter: expressed zero insecurity
CaptainJack: On an effort scale 1… being lowest to 10 being Highest where was it?
ThePrinter: 3…she didn’t make me try…I led her by letting her believe she was in comp with the other girls
CaptainJack: nice… how did you do that? Did you say it explicitly?
ThePrinter: I told her… “I can tell you are the leader of your group…you must be the boss at work…I am really attracted to women who take charge…we are the same because we both know what we want and have the ability to go for it
CaptainJack: fantastic!
ThePrinter: told her that I know she really wants to kiss me right now, but I am going to kiss her when I am ready…she tried to kiss me and I took her hand and led her to get a drink…she was confused…she didn’t realize that it was close to the side of the bar and a wall was 12 feet away…after we got a drink I walked to a table, she put her drink down next to mine and I pushed her against the wall and kissed her…she was really into that
CaptainJack: sweet…How did you get the number?
ThePrinter: very early…I told her that we needed to hang out soon, but I would have to let her know because my travel schedule was full…and she better get my number before my fan club draggs me off …. huge challenge
CaptainJack: haaa…. did you use the new frame I told you about? The just-relaxing frame?
ThePrinter: she really led, I just guided, she thought I was leading…I was not, I was mostly reading…when she typed her number in my phone I took it back and erased her name…I said, “I’m putting you under H for horny”…she said that she was going to put me under T for tired… I said that I hoped she had gatoraide
ThePrinter: AHH, one important point was overcoming LSE. About an hour in, she said, why me? She said that I could have all these girls, why her? I said: “if I wanted those girls, I could leave for sex an hour ago, but I only talk to people who I find interesting. Those girls are judgemental and do not have the ability to stimulate me like you do.”
ThePrinter: Continued by saying that I thought there was something here and she should correct me if I was wasting my time. She said: “I am not going to sleep with you” I said: “I am not here to judge you, what happens happens, I may take you home so you can clean my house, I like my shirts folded and my pants ironed”
ThePrinter: she laughed and still looked a little insecure, while thinking, WTF, Why, I looked at her and said: “I like you, let yourself enjoy me.” While I said that, I grabbed her hand, squeezed it and then pushed it away to grab my drink…she smiled for like 3-5 minutes straight
CaptainJack: So, what is that now 3 SNL’s, a social circle 3-some, a bad BJ from a SUPER HOT married chick and a sure-lay that you couldn’t close because of drunkeness… all since since we put in the new foundation on April 8th?
ThePrinter: Yep, you are the man!
CaptainJack: I know.
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Thanks for sharing this private conversation. I believe in examples and this one is great!
Very interesting. I am dealing with major approach anxiety and have been working my social circle like this guy.. but I still can’t cold approach for shit. I need to possibly follow the same path as he as it sounds like our situations are quite similar.
Thanks for sharing this… I’m very intrigued.
I’m excited. I’ll be in touch soon.
This is really helpful – it shows, on the one hand, the way things went down on your boy’s side, like an LR.
But what’s better and even more useful [for me] is being able to see the types of questions to ask when trying to actively analyze game/progress, be it someone else’s or your own, especially in order to be more methodical in upping the good, working out the bad, and experimenting with what works for you and what doesn’t.
Thanks, man! And I’m looking forward to the “more on this later”s
My approach anxiety “WAS” unbelievable. I had to pump state, drink a lot, build momentum, keep pushing myself, AND if all continued to go well, I could force myself into set, , ,
Unfortunately, more often than not, I stood around thinking of reasons to delay and/or leverage social circle. Opening was so hard, most of the time I felt I would rather start a fight with a group of guys, than to open a set of girls. I never did this, but nothing was worse.
I will now say, with the ability to demonstrate at will, zero anxiety. Thanks to CJ I have no more issues approaching women than I do men. CJ has discovered the cure, I am happy to have been the first, stay tuned, as this is only the beginning of the massive developments CJ has in the works!
-Printer