Archive for May, 2008

Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?

I think what you NAME things matters a great deal. One of the problems with innovating is you are stuck with the vocabulary of the system/environment… We have a VERY extensive vocabulary in Pick-Up.
But, I think much of it is extremely inaccurate.
LSE or Low Self-Esteem is one such word. It SEEMS to describe a personality [...]

Dating Tips for Men, InnerGame, Seduce Women, Social Calibration

The Only DHV You Need

How many DHV’s are there? (DHV=Demonstration of Higher Value) Shit man, I don’t even know… I think there are 5 or 6 standard ones and the list just seems to keep growing.
That’s the problem with not understanding root causes. Since the root cause isn’t really known a solution based on the faulty cause can at [...]

Sexual Framing

Lay Report: Juggs.

When I was a kid my dad and I moved in with my Grandparents for awhile after my mom and dad got divorced.
It was cool with me… They had a big backyard, a big front yard and plenty of quiet streets to do wheelies on my bike. I ordered a bunch of stuff from “Asian [...]

Lay Report, Lay Reports, Sexual Framing

Introducing A New Zen Master From The Poontang Clan!

What follows is a yahoo chat I had with a good friend and student… I fixed a few of his early game sticking points and he made some great progress BUT he had some of the worst Approach Anxiety ever. It was right around my level. His previous solution was to get smashed and work [...]

Approach Anxiety, SNL