A Key Under Utilized Frame
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I got another SNL the other night from winging one of Sinn’s sets. Nothing special really to report. She was kinda chubby, cute face, dimples, etc but would never have opened her on my own…
But, there were a few take-aways for me from that night.
Number 1: The power of ignoring is truly awesome. I literally ignore anything/everything that doesn’t serve me. I’ve completely given up trying to come up with witty/clever/smooth comebacks for things girls say or do that I don’t like. Instead, I completely ignore it. The principle here is what I’ve called “Magnification.” When you talk about something you are magnifying it… if you don’t want it then ignore it.
Here’s an example… With Sinn’s set we went to eat and while we were sitting there the following convo took place.
Ob: “Do you have any tattoos?”
CJ: “Naw… I’m too fickle. I’d get one and then immediately decide I don’t like it…”
Ob: “I have one.”
CJ: “where?”
Ob: “It’s right here (pointing to her hip)… It’s a four leaf clover… but it’s not really lucky, my dad died the day after I got it.”
CJ: (looking up at the lights) “It’s really bright in here…”
Number 2: Discretion is a key, underutilized and rarely talked about Frame but it is truly powerful. In my version of Rings on Fingers I talk about keeping secrets. That night another of Sinn’s sets the obstacle was really, really hot… she was just my type Brunnette, nice eyes, beautiful ass, great smile and great perfectly straight white teeth… I didn’t say more than about 15 sentences to her but one of them was:
“I don’t kiss and tell…”
It had a profound impact on her. She number closed me at closing time. She texted me about 2:30ish
Hottie: “I’m horny”
CJ: “Be there in a minute.”
Hottie: “You don’t know where I live”
CJ: “text me directions”
She did and I REALLY wanted to roll over there but I (mistakenly) thought Sinn was in it for the long haul for his Target so I continued winging.
When I texted and called later she didn’t pick up. Damnit! I would’ve put her at #3 in the rotation and then played my favorite game: “Get a hotter hottie…”
So, I went and boned the chubby girl instead.
~ CJ ~
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nice post.
you and sinn have written about that concept before and i think it’s smart.
you can also use it in bf objections, i’ve had plenty of girls saying they got a bf but still give me their #.
either ignore it or act like you don’t give a shit.
here also the discretion part comes in handy.
tell them that you don’t kiss and tell and that as long as he doesn’t find out it won’t matter.