The Non-Judgmental Frame

Posted at January 17, 2008

My ability to pull SNL’s made a steep jump when I discovered the power of the Non-Judgemental frame. I picked up on it quite by accident and lucky for me I had some analytical tools in place to realize what I had done so I could add it to my repertoire.

Read this entire LR and you’ll see how I invoke the “People are Sexual Beings” and “Non-Judgmental” Frames to make my lays super easy…

This was originally posted on Mystery’s Lounge on Sat Oct 15, 2005 12:06 am

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Hi PUAs,

I opened a 5+ set at a new venue one night will waiting for AsianPlayboy and one of his wings (don’t know what he’s called). My Target had a Sombrero on with crazy shit on it like condoms and decorations and shit…

I was peacocked in a black cowboy hat with the silhoutte of two naked chicks on the front.

CJ: “Awesome! Where can I get one of those!”
HB: *everyone laughs* “Ohhh, my friend made this for me – it’s my birthday!”
CJ: “mine was last week, I turned 30″

HB: “me too! I’m 30!”
CJ: “Cool, wanna get married?”
* group laughs *
HB: “I’m already married, but thanks!”
CJ: “have fun guys!”
****
I open a couple more sets and then a little girl in a pink top and mini skirt comes up to me.

I’m on the patio and I just got a message from AsianPlayboy that he’s here so I’m fucking with my phone messaging system when I feel a slight tug on my shirt…
HBGirlNextDoor: “Here, this is from Michelle.” * handing me a jell-o shot *

CJ: “who is michelle?”
HBGirlNextDoor: “Over there…”
CJ: * I look over and the HB waves and smiles – the whole group is looking at me – I wave and mouth
“thanks” and walk off to meet AsianPlayboy *

A few minutes later AsianPlayboy pulls over a 2set with a really cute blonde. AsianPlayboy’s target is the brunnette and he goes to work on her leaving me to occupy obstacle.

AsianPlayboy told them I was engaged and he needed to find a good place for a bachelor party. This was great because the Blonde is also engaged and her fiance is out of town visitng family.

I role-played and started talking about how chicks are more mature than guys and are able to “compartmentalize” their relationships much better than “most” men (i.e. i’m different).

I then tell her that I’m not judgmental and understand there are different kinds of sex, different kinds of love and differing needs. She goes along with all of this agreeing with me 100% and talks about how dumb guys are to think that gf’s go out and are innocent.

I had already took her around the bar to get myself a drink ( I might have bought her one, too – not sure)holding her hand all the way as I pulled her around. She held my hand completely, no hesitation at all.

CJ: “Does your bf come here? or have friends that come here?”
HB: “no, never…” *smiling seductively*
CJ: “good”

By this time, AsianPlayboy has his Target on the dance floor and I am sitting on a couch with obstacle with my arm around her.

CJ: “how old are you? too young to be getting married.”
HB: “noooo, I’m 24″
CJ: “24! Oh god, you’re just a baby! But, I like girls that age…”
HB: “why?”
CJ: “They are so gullible”
HB: “whaaaaat?”
CJ: * i lean into her ear and pull my arm tighter around her and act like I’m talking to a girl that age *
“noooo, baby, anal sex is NORMAL when you get engaged. promise.”
HB: * she gives me a doggy-dinner bowl look and then starts giggling * “Yeah, I like it. i’ve done it with other guys. My fiance is mad because I won’t do it with him.”
CJ: * pops a boner *

About this time AP’s target comes back and somehow we get separated. I go open up more sets. HBGirlNextDoor reopens me and I talk to her group. They are asking to take pictures with me and put this pink boa on me and crowd around for pics.

After about 10 minutes of working on HBGirlNextDoor my phone buzzes and it is a text from AP “mini-isolate or pull to a table”

I agree. I pull her to the bar to get myself a diet coke. Making sure to hold her hand so others see us. Then, i lock into the bar to make sure it looks like she is gaming me.

We go back to the table section and I start talking to her. I do juggler’s gf test and go for the neck kisses.

She pulls away and says, “I hardly know you” but smiles.

I smile and get real quiet. The Blonde from earlier sits in the booth in front and gives me “fuck me” eyes. If you’ve seen that before then you know what I am talking about. there is no mistaking it.

HBGND: “You want me to leave you alone so you can talk to other girls?”
CJ: “no, I’m just sitting here enjoying the moment.”

We start making out.

The night ends and I pass on an opportunity to fuck her that night (she told me this later that I could’ve come over)…

After a week or two and a slew of text messages we finally get together last wednesday for a Day2 – but she brings 12 friends!!!! aaaaargh!

I wasn’t expecting this. I text AsianPlayboy a whiney message about her bringing 100 friends (it seemed like we would be alone) and he tells me to work them like a set and be the social center. I do it and it works well.

I make up a DHV about rings on fingers to set a framework for getting sexual.
“Did you know that what fingers you have rings on says stuff about your personality?”
I point to the right pinky ring and say, “that means you are good at keeping secrets.”

HB: “i tell my brother everything.”
CJ: “just your brother?”
HB: “that’s ok. that’s like a diary, plus he’s family.”
CJ: “and your right ring finger, that means when you find the right person and you’re attracted (pointing to
myself), you become sexually aggressive”
HB: “yessssssss!”
Then, I look at my left middle ring and say, “This means I’m not judgmental.”
HB: “mmmmmmm….”

Finally about 1:00 I completely isolate her and we do some rapport stuff.
I run “Discovery Channel” on her and she gets hot.

We make out hot and heavy again and then go back to our cars. I do the hair pull and she goes fucking nuts.

During this time she plays with my left middle ring and says, “not judgmental”
But, I decline going to her house again because 1) i was dog tired, 2) she lives with mommy (college girl) and 3) it is about 3:00 am and she has to get up for work at 5:30 or 6:00 am

HB: “what are you doing fri?”
CJ: “have my daughters so I’ll be staying in.”

HB: “ooooh, I could come over and bring a movie and popcorn!”
CJ: “cool, let’s do that”

She came over tonight and it was pretty much on from the time she got here. In fact, I waited too long to start making out with her.

She has a super hot body. Very slender, perfect tits, wonderful ass. Only problem is she is not exotic enough for me. She is sort of “Girl next door” innocent looking and a little plain. But, then again she never wears make-up so who knows – if she made herself up maybe she would look more exotic.

LMR? Minimal – she stopped my hand the first time I tried for the bra and the first time I tried for the pants – we were well into 10 hours by now and there had been 2 opportunities that I didn’t take before.

While we were fucking 3 people called (but I didn’t answer):

1) HBPuertoRico I met with AsianPlayboy last sat. – voice mail said, “Hey handsome, call me!”

2) Mommy (mothers have this weird sense when their sons are getting pussy and they decide to call about mundane shit at about midnight )

3) KinoMaster – figured I was done already and was calling for a report

– CaptainJack

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