Online Frame: I’m Cooler Than You…

Posted at January 24, 2008

…and probably anyone you know.

My online profile is built to attract a certain girl. I want a girl who thinks traveling is fun and exciting, enjoys talking to people from diverse backgrounds and can enjoy herself in any situation (basically, the EXACT opposite of my ex-wife…)

…AND who is down for some light-hearted fun. There are a LOT of girls out there looking for a serious relationship and/or a Sugar Daddy. Those types can certainly still be gamed but why make it hard on yourself?

My basic frames are:

1. I am adventurous (a traveler), I love to see new places and explore.

2. I am comfortable anywhere. You’ll see a girl often say in her profile “I am just as cool getting all dressed up to go to the club or having a night in snuggling and watching a movie.” That’s her way of saying I am COMFORTABLE in my own skin. I phrased it like this “One night I might be mingling with rich old business men in suits and ties, the next night hanging with my friends at a hole-in-the-wall with a mechanical bull…”

3. My friends are COOL and interesting… My friends range from an ex-navy SEAL to a pro comedian… etc.

4. I DO NOT like to talk about myself but I have my act together.

BUT, one of the most important pieces to my profile is this: I tell her to take the smallest action possible and I’ll handle the rest. “If you’re interested send me an email or wink at me and I’ll take it from there, I won’t bite (well, maybe just a nibble).”

This directive to act sets a Leadership Frame and the “I won’t bite (well, maybe just a nibble)” gives it a playful yet sexual vibe to begin pre-screening the prude’s out.

A lot of the dating sites have “winks” or “pokes” or a step BELOW email in effort level that you can ask them to take. By inviting them to take that small step (rather than having to think of something to say in an email) you can get some interest initially so when you DO email them you aren’t wasting your time emailing someone who is not interested at all…

What is EQUALLY important about how I set up my profile is that I am not telegraphing ANY sort of romantic or courtship vibe. It is entirely about me and my lifestyle of fun and adventure. It will NOT resonate with a girl looking for long-term or marriage. I say nothing about finding a good girl, ‘the one’, settling down, or being tired of the scene. It is clear I am out there and I am having fun…

Have 2 first dates (both time-constrained) set up for tomorrow and one pending. My basic plan is to have a one hour date to use some of my best Stealth Patterns and Sexual Framing to set them up to come over late on a night when I have my daughters…

~ The Dread Pirate, Captain Jack ~

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