"Because We Like Each Other…"
Here’s a little pattern I heard Sinn use once when Gaming an extremely hot waitress…
He said something like this (a liberal paraphrase):
“…I’m not giving you this big tip because we like each other…I’m doing it because you did a great job as a waitress and I believe people should be rewarded for doing a good job.”
I’m not sure where he got that, if he made it up himself or he drew from the deep Game reservoir in his head but I used to do something similar (although a little sloppier) and after hearing him do it I adopted it instead.
It’s sweet on a few levels.
#1) If you run a lot of neg/disqualification (as Sinn does) then the confirmation that you do like her will give her poor widdle heart a ray of hope.
#2) The ‘we’ part of it assumes that she likes you. Unless she outrightly denies it (which she won’t) then she passively accepts the “we like each other” frame. The very worst thing that could happen is she’ll think, “What made him think I like him?” which will make her unconscious mind start sorting for things she did to demonstrate she liked him, thus strengthening the references.
#3) It allows you demonstrate a piece of your personality so she feels like she knows you better. “I believe people should be rewarded…”
Pretty sweet, huh?
This is one of those cool things that after trying it mentally on the fly 10 or 15 times you could probably use on the fly in-field the very same night.
Let’s practice…
Deep in comfort. Both of you are drinkless.
“I’m going to the bar to get a drink. Keep me company.”
At the bar.
“I’m not buying you this drink because we like each other…I’m buying it because my mother raised me to be a gentleman.”
Or, how about this one.
“Wow, that’s amazing! I LOVE knitting, too! I’m not just saying that because we like each other, my grandmother taught me how to knit because she always wanted a granddaughter but my parents just kept popping out boys…”
Or…
“I didn’t just give you a squirting orgasm because we like each other, I did it because I’m a Sex God and I want you to tell all your friends. Then, they’ll get so curious about me they’ll try to nail me behind your back.”
See, it’s easy.
~ CJ ~
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Hi Cap,
What if you don’t do very much negging/disqualification very much, if at all? Will it still work?
“I didn’t just give you a squirting orgasm because we like each other, I did it because I’m a Sex God and I want you to tell all your friends. Then, they’ll get so curious about me they’ll try to nail me behind your back.”
LOL
Whats your strategy for dealing with other guys trying to steal your girls? Thanks.
money man, i love this post. i’m definitely going to use this one. thanks!