in my eyes you are on a great way right now. you’re replacing a negative motivator with a positive one. this will boost your game through the rooftop and will affect more areas of your life than you can think of. just as the negative motivation did as well. the only difference is, negative motivation like your extreme AA leads downwards and you find yourself where you are right now: cluelessly lacking of ambition.

my positive motivator is pretty simple:
I’M A MAN. that’s my job. that’s what i do. i love life and i love being with women. i enjoy talking to them as much as i enjoy fucking them. and what greater gift could there be than having the skillset to reach those goals and to live that life? it’s fulfilling. it’s plain simple awesome!

replace your hope that there is a solution for massive AA with the gratefulness of knowing the game, the mm, the tactics, routines and all the guys that come along with it.
a man with hope does always come from a place of scarcity whereas a man with gratefulness does come from place of abundance.

besides that, when *my* AA kicks in, i know one thing for sure: with opening the first set, it’s gone!

much love,

paracal

The key question is – Do you REALLY want that many lays?

AA, etc. are all beliefs and interpretations.

When you say you have AA or you have no motivation or any other barrier to action, what you are really saying is -
i do not have congruence in what i consciously think I want and what I subconsciously believe is good for me. And therefore I am selfsabotaging myself via various ‘excuses/reasons/rationalizations’.

you can get my contact info via Kenneth via Jon if you want to discuss further.

Yeah, I used EFT to get my AA to a level where I could actually just ignore it. It worked really well.

The guy I’m seeing knows EFT, TFT, Applied Kinesiology and he’s the creator of REMAP.

I decided to go see someone because it seemed to me like I wasn’t able to ferret out the deeper shit on my own. So I needed someone to guide me into probing things.

~ CJ ~

I’m an NLP and EFT Practitioner. I have worked with a bunch of people to get over their AA (as well as my own). I have seen issues like this before.

The way I like to think of it is that the emotional issues in your life are like layers of an onion, you get rid of one and you find your behaviour changes… but it’s not necessarily what you want and you have to get rid of the next layer as well.

At the end of the day as a man you are naturally motivated to want to approach hot girls… it’s ingrained in your biology… it’s just a matter of peeling away all the BS.

Anyway check out my friends Magnus’
websites http://www.innergametapping.com and http://www.tapping.com

They have free videos you can try out.

It’s all a bit wierd and seemingly new-agey but it’s by far the best stuff I’ve found for getting rid of AA.

NLU

First you’ve got to recognize that if you weren’t doing this you wouldn’t be getting nearly as many women.

Then think, ‘How would I feel about that?’ Would you feel better or worse?

Perhaps you have a saturation point beyond which any extra women will make you no more happy. Perhaps the more you sleep with the better. If you don’t know what you’re aiming for it doesn’t matter what target you hit, you’ll never be satisfied.

Have a goal.

cj, if you don’t mind sharing, what kind of therapist did you see and how did you find out about him/her?

So stop thinking, act. Get AA? Get over it, if you have done it once you can do it how many times you want, you know the ways, C&B, warm ups rounds motivate you with bets whatever…
Dont focus on WHY you get AA, that’s completly useless.
I dont care if my AA is evolutionary high wired or if it’s from a girl who rejected me on high school, I simply dont like it so I dont even want to name it I just ignore it, the less I know about it is better for me.
Focus on WHAT you want in that moment and in your life. Want new pussy? Move your ass and get it.

It is that easy and that’s all you need to know, the other stuff just confuse you and brigs you to circular menatl masturbations about why you act like in such a way that you dont like. Dosent matter why you act in a way you dont like, just act in the way you do like and forget about all the other bullshit wich is confusing you. Get me?

Sounds stupid but for me it really is that easy.