Not Gaming

Posted at April 16, 2007

This may sound weird but…

…at certain times I’ve found it easier to NOT game than actually game.

It’s weird because you get to a place where you see/understand the dynamic and you KNOW you could go and own a set but you stay put.

It’s almost like you are “too cool” to bother opening that set. I imagine this happens a lot with the “just be yourself” and “be cool” schools of pick-up. A whole shitload of theorizing about being cool and not much getting laid.

Take tonight, for instance. Fidelio and I are bullshitting and having a great time. There are two hotties that catch my eye. About 6-9 months ago I would’ve rolled into each of their sets.

When one of the girls I previously laid showed up, that should’ve sparked me into using social proof/pre-selection.

Then, another girl, a bonified HB9 who I number closed one night a few months ago who was all over me, yet I never bothered to pursue (I disdain all Day2’s except those which start/end with “come to my place”) showed up. It would’ve been EASY to get something going.

Instead I drank, texted Sinn and Fidelio (who had to leave early due to work at 6am) and whined about it.

Oh well. Someone I told this problem to suggested my Testosterone has declined. I guess that’s possible considering I’m 32 and have a horrible diet and drink a lot.

Or, it could be totally psychological, I know at any point I really want sex I can call any of my past lays and have sex. I also know I can go and seriously game a few nights and have a new FB (or two or 3).

Knowing that sex is merely a phone call away, or a few nights (at most) away, where’s the motivation?

About the only thing that motivates me now is when I see a truly hot FUNusual OR helping students.

I really get a kick out of helping less experienced PUAs. It reminds me of when I sucked at the Game. I get pumped up helping new guys out. It is sheer thrill for me.

Take El Topo. Dude’s a mad man. He’s in the major growth phase and already racked up a shitload of lays. He’s ballsy and I get pumped up watching him defile everything holy.

He has a hot little Mandarin chick right now that would make the writers for Penthouse blush.

Guys like El Topo cause me to sarge. It forces me to put my socially awesome coolness and vibing bullshit away and go and talk to some people.

I like that.

~ Captain Jack ~

P.S. Despite my “too cool to game” phase I have 2 day2’s this week. That’s two day2’s off of two half-assed sets. What could I have done with some effort? Two years ago I would’ve turned cartwheels for two Day2’s in a week, now it’s considered a “bad week.”

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