LR: Last Call
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It’s been a while since I’ve written an LR. One reason is because I don’t really learn much from writing them down anymore. At first, when you are learning and practicing a lot it is GREAT, I’d say even required, in order to get really good.
Anyway, I had a meeting from 7:00-10:00 and met Printer at the standard Thurs. night venue. I think that was the first time I’ve been there since last November.
Surprisingly, I didn’t recognize many people. There’s been a pretty good amount of turnover, which is good.
Printer does his thing of handing me double shots all night long, primarily because I do funny and stupid shit when I’m drunk. Case in point: We were in Scottsdale Az and about 20 minutes to close I walk over and start talking to a cute girl. She was interested and then abruptly left.
Printer said she looked real interested and asked me what happened. She abruptly left after I said, “Girl, gimme a sample of what you’re samplin’”
I guess she thought it was crude or something. I simply meant I wanted to bone her. (Girls are so complicated.)
I don’t do shit for the first 2 hours there except bullshit with Printer and one of his friends. Printer leaves with an FB and I feel like a tool just standing around so I start throwing out LIOs and even using Situationals to practice gauging initial interest and then picking up from where we are in agreement (of sexual interest) and moving from there forwards. (You can actually erase it by keeping your communication at a lesser level of male-female sexual dynamic… then it is a bit harder to get back because there is already an established pathway between you two to move downwards on the sexual dynamic.)
It is actually kind of fun to do this… I think in large part because the level of significance I’m placing on the interaction is much less.
I situationally open a blonde milf. She is wearing those kind of shirts that are elastic waist band on the top that sort of rest on top of the breast. The thin shirt material then drapes over the breats and tightens again at the waist. She isn’t wearing a bra and her breasts are big and bouyant. Her nips are hard.
(GIGANTOR begins to stir a bit.)
However, this is where Printer’s “get CJ drunk so he is amusing” kicks in full force as you will see.
CJ: Patron shots? You are bad, bad, bad.
MILF: I know, my last one, I’m driving.
CJ: Does she know that guy? (I’m referring to a guy in the set who is creepily all over her hot friend.)
MILF: They’re married. What’s your name?
CJ: Omigod, you have a little country accent!
MILF: Really? I’ve never been told that… I went to a catholic school and we were taught proper english.
CJ: Catholic girl! Really? You should leave right now… All the catholic girls I’ve known have been into bondage… tied up, handcuffs
MILF: What?
*** cue dumb drunkeness ***
CJ: Handcuffs, handcuffs, handcuffs. You like to be handcuffed. You know, handcuffs! (It was real loud so I thought she couldn’t hear me, thus the repetition! Oh yeah, the alcohol probably had a little to do with it, too).
MILF looks at me weird.
I manage to partially recover. A few minutes later her friend gets her attention and they walk away. She doesn’t look back.
Damnit.
Two girls stroll by. I forgot what I opened them with but they are both attentive from the get-go. The slightly cuter one gets asked to dance by some guy.
I remember telling her she was tiny. She responds well and I use that to get her giggly. I ask her things like, “When you go to a restaurant do you get a booster seat or climb up into a big people chair?”
She is giggling hardcore so I tell her I like girls who laugh at my jokes.
She says no one has ever said stuff like that to her before.
Strawberry fields.
She number closes me as we are being kicked out of the bar.
HB: Sooo… are you going to call me?
CJ: We’re here together right now. Drive me to my car.
She drives me over and we make out for quite a bit.
The cops actually shine flashlights on us through the window and tell us to leave.
CJ: “That sucks, I’m still having fun. Come to my place. I don’t have alcohol but I have water, Coke Zero or tea.”
She follows me. I put on “knocked up” dvd and escalate on the couch.
Seems too easy, doesn’t it? It is that easy sometimes. Knowing where she is at in the interaction is one of the things that separates the advanced PUA from the intermediate. The Intermediate would’ve set the Timebridge and then pushed too hard or too soft to get a bounce. He would’ve wasted time and put sexual vibe in jeopardy by withdrawing sexual intention while running comfort.
The problem with most people’s calibration skills is that they are calibrating to the wrong thing. You don’t calibrate to attraction or whether or not she likes you or whether or not she is paying attention. You calibrate to whether or not she becomes more engaged when you are sending sexual communication.
If you are aware of where she is then it becomes easy to just gently lead, baby-steps along a gradual incline.
Captain Jack
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If You Suffer with Back (or Neck) Pain, Read This…
Yo…
I’ve been struggling with back pain that turned into Sciatica for a few years now. (Sciatica is a burning pain that shoots down the side of your leg). I was told I have TWO bulging discs in my lower back.
My main method of coping was to sleep, lay down or sit in weird positions, take 2-4 B.C. Powders a day (that’s powdered aspirin) and/or just cope with it.
I tried TWO chiropractors who did Spinal Decompression which would give me a little bit of temporary relief (spent $4,000 with one and about $1,000 with the other) but it just didn’t seem to really make lasting progress.
It always came back and seemed to get worse over time.
Now, my back pain and Sciatica is almost ENTIRELY gone. The answer lay in a guide with DVDs called “The Lose the Back Pain System.” After following their diagnosis method on the DVDs, I discovered the left side of my hip is higher than the right and this is what is causing the issue.
Doing the prescribed stretches and exercises for people with that condition gave me immediate relief and each day I do them I get better and better. Sometimes, for a few days in a row I have NO PAIN at all. This is a personal breakthrough for me and has allowed me to focus more intensely and for longer periods and it’s great to live life without a near constant pain and irritation. Having intense back pain REALLY saps your energy and will as anyone who has experienced it can testify.
If you or someone you know has back/neck pain or Sciatica DO NOT HESITATE to buy this system. It works.
You can read about it at http://www.losethebackpain.com/getstarted.html
Captain Jack.
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Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
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7 Ways to Bust Yourself Out of a Pick-up Slump
It happens to all of us sometime.
Your best lines fall flat.
Time Bridges get declined.
Phone numbers blur…
and, before you know it you’ve gone weeks without making the “Beast with Two Backs.”
You begin to sweat a little. “Shit, was the run just a bit of luck? Have I lost ‘IT’?”
No worries, man. Even top pro athletes go through slumps. Here’s what I’ve done in the past to bust myself out of pick-up slumps:
- 1. Take a bit of time off.
You may have depleted your mental and physical energy, especially if you’re doing the extremely hard club/bar scene. Irregular sleep patterns. Too many patron shots. Taking the girl to IHOP and stuffing yourself full of bacon, eggs and pancakes… and, then getting an hour of LMR. Get some sleep. Go outside during the day and rediscover what things look like when illuminated by the Sun.
- 2. Redo your stack.
I remember Sinn and I both being in a slump about the same time once. We instinctively began examining our status quo stacks and started dumping certain items and replacing them with other things that had worked in the past. After about an hour we both had fresh stacks, got a little rest, and went on a 5-day run of glory.
- 3. Kill a Sacred Cow.
You know that principle or idea of Gaming that you think is ‘The Truth.” ??? Kill it. Whatever it is, and do something else, maybe even the complete opposite. If your Sacred Cow is “Indirect” stop it for awhile and go Direct. If your Sacred Cow is I’ve got to be a bad boy, mix it up and dress like a good boy for a few nights. Mix it up. Kill the Sacred Cow, at least for a few days to see what happens. (I do this ‘Kill a Sacred Cow’ technique quite often.)
- 4. Have Someone You Trust (Who Actually Gets Laid) Give You Some Feedback.
The key in that phrase is ‘Who Actually Gets Laid.’ They might be able to spot something or simply ask you questions about what is going on that could jar you into something new/novel to try. Of course, if you don’t have someone in your life like that, you might resort to a tape recorder. (Come to think of it, you could do that anyway).
- 5. Use Sticking Point Analysis.
If you’ve read this blog for any amount of time you’re probably tired of hearing about it but it’s simplicity and effectiveness is proven. If you’re new here hit the “Youtube” button on the right hand side of the screen.
- 6. Go Freestyle.
Go out with No Agenda, No Stack and No Pressure. Just hang out. Talk to friends if they’re there. Talk to people if you want but be totally ok with just being there. If you get the sudden urge to Game do it, if not then chill. If you DO Game then don’t use your normal routine stack… just chat, get as far as you can with playful small talk and genuine interest.
- 7. Put Your Back Against the Wall
Anytime I’m working on SNL Game and I hit a slump the FIRST thing I do is delete all my female numbers. All of them, including FBs… no one is spared. NO ONE. Man, come to think of it I do this even when I’m not in a slump. This frees you up a bit. You can’t fall back on texting girls and trying to set up dates… you can’t booty text… it’s either get some new opportunities in a hurry or start stocking up on the vitamin E lotion.
Realize slumps don’t last forever. Try a few of these slump busters and you’ll get back in the groove.
If you have a favorite method for getting out of a slump let me and all the other PUAs know in the comments.
The REAL Captain Jack
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only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
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I kinda like this guy.
At first, he grated on my nerves. Then, he said a few interesting things… Finally, I realized he had some GREAT viewpoints and ways of thinking.
CJ
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Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
Elephants, Monkeys and RecordedVoice
If you’ve done almost ANY success, motivation or self-help reading you’ve probably come across the example of the baby elephant and the rope.
They say that the Elephant trainer keeps the baby elephant in place by driving a large stake in the ground and ties a rope to one of it’s hind legs. While the Elephant is a baby it isn’t strong enough to pull up the stake even though it tries with all its might. Eventually, the baby Elephant realizes it cannot escape from the binding rope and gives up.
The story goes that even when the Baby Elephant grows into a ginormous Adult Elephant it never pulls the stake out, even though with its adult strength it could pull it out easily. I’m not sure if the idea is that the Elephant never even tries, it just doesn’t occur to him or the mental idea that it can’t affects it’s performance.
I’m not an elephant trainer so I have no idea if the anecdote is accurate but the idea behind it seems to be the case for most adults.
A principle of hypnosis is that the first time you encounter an idea it has the appearance of being true and it goes right into the unconscious mind unhindered because there is nothing else to compete with it.
I like the Elephant story but it only partly explains lack of real, lasting change. It would be easy enough for a FREED elephant to go and communicate to the bound elephant that there is a way to freedom. The Elephant could easily say, “Dude… what are you doing with that rope around your leg? Man, don’t you know you can just tug and be free like me? I’m about to head down to the river and go swimming… eat some peanuts, perhaps lay out and do some tanning. Pull out that stake and let’s go!”
With a bit of coaching that bound elephant (provided it is willing to try on the possibility and follow instructions) would become free. In a few years, circus’ would be devoid of elephants.
But, it doesn’t really seem to happen this way.
Why not?
The answer lies in an experiment involving monkeys, cold water and bananas.
This is a quote from “Put Your Dream to the Test” by John C. Maxwell:
Business professors Gary Hamel and C. K. Prahalad wrote about an experiment conducted with a group of monkeys. Four monkeys were placed in a room that had a tall pole in the center. Suspended from the top of that pole was a bunch of bananas. One of the hungry monkeys started clibming the pole to get something to eat, but just as he reached out to grab a banana, he was doused with a torrent of cold water. Squealing, he scampered down the pole and abandoned his attempt to feed himself. Each monkey made a similar attempt, and each one was drenched with cold water. After making several attempts, they finally gave up.
Then researchers removed one of the monkeys from the room and replaced him with a new monkey. As the newcomer began to climb the pole, the other three grabbed him and pulled him down to the ground. After trying to climb the pole several times and being dragged down by the others, he finally gave up and never attempted to climb the pole again.
The researchers replaced the original monkeys, one by one, with new ones, and each time a new monkey was brought in, he would be dragged down by the others before he could reach the bananas. In time, only monkeys who had never received a cold shower were in the room, but none of them would climb the pole. They prevented one another from climbing, but none of them knew why.
This same dynamic functions in humans but with a twist. We don’t climb poles to get bananas. We set goals and work towards them. We imagine a better life and set about creating it.
We do get pulled down but not physically. Others MAY try to pull us down with words but most people are perceptive enough and strong enough to discount that form of pull down.
The way this pull down manifests is much more insidious, it appears in what is alluded to but rarely ever verbalized… it appears symbolically in society’s art, film, stories and sayings and as presuppositions embedded in language. Since it exists in this way it is very difficult to discriminate and decide NOT to allow it into the mind.
I’m calling it RecordedVoice. The mind gets these concepts unconsciously. Then, when you decide to become more or better or transform yourself the desire to do this activates the hidden ideas giving it a voice in your mind.
The problem is… You think it is YOUR voice. You think it is YOUR thinking. It has the appearance of your voice, your thoughts, your thinking, your deduction… but it’s not.
It isn’t you.
It is the mind giving Voice to the deep impressions that society has passed onto you. Becoming aware of RecordedVoice and what powers it gives you the chance to enter into greater freedom and more effectiveness.
Disabling RecordedVoice disappears limitations and puts you more in touch with your true, unlimited nature. You are more free to act, to choose and to be what you want to be.
In the Master Strategies Monthly teleconference series we’ll be covering it in much more detail.
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CJ
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Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
Intention, Commitment and Measuring to Improve.
PUAs!!!
I got back 6 days ago from 10 full days of continuous mind-melting exposure to new paradigms of thinking and being. We worked from 8am to about 10:00 (sometimes later) every night. It was awesome! I’ve done this a few times now and each time I get a HUGE boost in my life.
I’m now closer to my Mom, my Sister, Dad and children even though I thought things were great to begin with… I walk with a LOT more confidence. I speak my mind a lot more freely, have become a lot more persuasive and a bunch of other things I don’t have enough space to mention. I have a genuine love for ALL people I encounter… And, I am MUCH, MUCH happier each and every moment and I rest in (or on) a background of peacefulness and expanded awareness.
Like I said, It’s awesome!
I’m gearing up for the “Master Strategies Teleconference” series and I know it’s going to be killer.
One of the keys to effectiveness is strong Commitment and Intention.
Once upon a time when I was in college this hot girl waved at me on campus as we were walking towards each other and I slowed down to see what was what… She was carrying a few folders and books in her arms and a huge smile seemed permanently plastered on her face.
She asked me what class I was going to… then, what sports I liked… where I was born and what I did in my spare time. About halfway through our “conversation” I got the sense something strange was going on. I stuck around though (she was hot) to see where it would lead.
After telling her what I did in my spare time she enthusiastically whipped this flyer out of her book and said, “We’re having this contest and the winner gets to go to Hawaii. I’m ALMOST in the lead and the contest ends soon. Will you help me win? All you have to do is subscribe to magazines… You told me you like x, y, z… we have magazines in those areas….”
Suddenly, she was a LOT less attractive. I couldn’t get away fast enough.
Slimy, eh?
Many in the Community suggest you shouldn’t go out to try to get laid because it reeks of desperation or neediness and girls can sense that right away. Instead, what they suggest is you go out and be the social guy and wait to see if she likes you.
It comes across to me much like the girl in my story (Yuck) because no matter how much you pretend… you ARE going out to get laid.
It IS true that many women can sense neediness… but going out to get laid doesn’t mean you have desperation or neediness.
Desperation or neediness comes from wanting something but feeling you can’t really have it OR the feeling you must give up your values to get it.
You can go out with the intention of getting laid WITHOUT being needy. Neediness does NOT automatically follow the intention to get laid. Neediness is an internal state or belief system that exists because of the habit of disapproving of yourself.
Guys who don’t go out with the intention of getting laid don’t get laid.
I even go so far as to imagine what it would be like with her while I’m talking to her. I allow myself to feel SEXUAL (not horny) as I’m talking to her and even as I’m approaching.
There are others who suggest only focusing on the things you can control. I may have said something like that in the past because it sounds like a good idea. But, I don’t agree with that anymore.
Now, I say you MUST set goals and measure things you can’t control.
Let’s dig a little deeper into this…
You can’t actually control if a girl sleeps with you or not. You CAN set a goal to open 25 sets. BUT, you need to measure and STAT how many of those sets resulted in a lay otherwise your goal is meaningless. If you aren’t doing measuring (at least mentally) then you don’t have a basis of improvement.
Any Game has defined results, measures and stats.
The result is a verbal description of the game’s objective. The measure is what can be seen/observed in reality, meaning you observed it did happen or didn’t happen. The stat represents the measure as a numerical fact.
You want your results, measures and stats to be TRACEABLE to WINNING the Game.
Here is an example:
Result: Captain Jack has sexual relationship with 10 new hotties this month.
Measure: Female gets penetrated by GIGANTOR(TM)
Stat: No. of females penetrated.
Okay, got it?
Now, in this Game there are other measures and stats as well:
Measure: Female agrees to TimeBridge.
Stat: % of females who agreed.
(For me personally, if I go a long time with less than 40-50% of the girls saying yes to the TB I know something is off in my initial presentation and I need to examine it. This doesn’t mean all the TB’s will HAPPEN only that they agreed to it at the time I put out the invitation.)
I’m not saying that you power up excel and type this shit in a spreadsheet by any means… what I’m talking about is a mindset and commitment to measuring for the purpose of improving.
You don’t get the results by committing only to what YOU can physically do because it is incomplete in the realm of effectiveness. Do you get to write a Lay Report after saying, “Well, I opened 25 sets this weekend. I can’t control anything else but at least I met my goal.”
No.
That is completely backward. You keep the end goal in mind and keep intelligently analyzing and varying your behavior until you get closer and closer.
Imagine a salesperson going to his boss and saying, “Well, I know I got 0 sales this quarter instead of at least 30 like everyone else but I can’t control that… I made 200 calls and that was my goal.”
Then, imagine that salesperson with a box of all the shit on his desk stuffed into it as he takes an elevator ride down to the street because that is what would likely happen.
My main point is in order to WIN the game you are going to have to set goals for things which are considered outside your control. But, you still need to set the goal if you want to master this area of your life.
Set your Intention and Commitment to win the Game… measure it and be aware of your stats so you can improve each and every time you go out.
And, if you think you might be putting out a creepy vibe read this: “Low Self-Approval or Low Self-Esteem?”
Captain Jack
P.S. The Master Strategies Monthly series begins REAL soon… details below!
Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?
It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.
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Here's a new way:
Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
The Pain of Getting Good
Ever since ‘The Game’ and Vh1 show, It’s been more difficult for me, and I assume, all the other PUAs who help other PUAs, to find out who is really serious or not… and thus, who to really help or ignore…
Before Neil’s book and the VH1 show, we could be pretty damn certain that anyone coming to us for help came from a pretty intense PAIN that drove you to do an INTERNET SEARCH on how to pick up girls.
This PAIN drove you to do novel things like go out and actually OPEN sets… memorize routines… digest material and so forth.
Now, it seems too many want to dress the part, throw out vocab and spout theory.
But, the TRUTH is “The Game is played in the field.”
It’s not played in your head.
It’s not played in a Lair meeting with you dueling other posers in a Pick-up themed Jeopardy match.
In the field… where all the girls are.
Are you playing the Game? Or, are you waiting, wishing and hoping that knowledge will make you feel better?
It won’t. You feel how you feel.
Describe that feeling however you want… Fear, scared, worried, excited, approach anxiety, whatever… acknowledge it and open anyway.
Open.
Go earn your stripes.
I know it sucks. You want it to be different, you want it to be easier. You want the perfect saying or idea or thought to make it all better.
Yeah, so do all the guys in their rooms masturbating to FHM and Maxim.
Revel in the pain, feel it, acknowledge it, curse that it is the way it is, and go open anyway, that’s where the growth is…
Captain Jack
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Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
Audio Clip: Someday, Maybe…
Yo,
Here is a little audio clip from the Get a Girlfriend Teleseminar where I am instructing the guys about a mental pattern that sucks the life out of you and kills your aliveness. There had been a lot of discussion and chiming in but during this 7 minutes you could’ve heard a pin drop.
“Someday, Maybe…” Kills Your Aliveness.
Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?
It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.
I can help you with that...
Here's a new way:
Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
Gun to the Head: Charred Remains Checklist
After charring your doubters with the flamethrower you’ll probably want to get some fresh air and reflect.
What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?
Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.
“When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” - Thomas Monson
Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.
1. How many sets did I open? (If it’s less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)
2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?
3. When something didn’t go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?
4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didn’t serve me?
5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
6. Of the TimeBridge’s I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?
7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?
8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?
9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?
10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?
13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?
14. Did I attempt a kiss close?
15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?
16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?
17. Did I “drunk-n-lonely” text about 10 minutes after close?
What is measured improves.
Captain Jack
P.S. I’m starting the “Master Strategies Monthly Teleseminar” soon… details below.
Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?
It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.
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Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
Gun to the Head Gaming
Hola Numbnuts…
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” - just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
P.S. I thought about using the Grenade Launcher instead of the Flame Thrower. But, I felt like Grenade Launcher was a little too obvious. I feel Flame Thrower gives that extra little bit of twist.
Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?
It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.
I can help you with that...
Here's a new way:
Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences - Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is
only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to
really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with
an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.
Here’s the plan… I am going to do a monthly
conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be
me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this
whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no
one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve
settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.
The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.
You can sign up by pushing the button below.
